The famous sayings of how to treat people well in the first volume of the third grade are: don't be angry, love others as love, love others with kindness, and respect others with courtesy. Don't be angry, don't feel guilty, from the Analects of Confucius. If a lover loves his body, it comes from Mozi. The benevolent loves others, and the gentleman respects others, which comes from Mencius. Words that are kind to others are warmer than cloth and silk, and words that hurt people are deeper than spears and halberds, from Xunzi. These are all famous sayings about how to treat people, all from the works of ancient sages in China, and we should accumulate and recite them on the basis of understanding their meanings.

Famous translator

Don't be angry, don't be angry. It means don't transfer your anger to others and don't make the same mistake twice. If a lover loves himself, the original sentence means that if the world loves him, there are still unfilial people. To love your body is to love others as yourself. Benevolent people love others, while courteous people respect others. It means that caring people love others, and polite people respect others. Kind words are warmer than cloth and silk, and hurtful words are deeper than spears and halberds. It means that a kind word is warmer than cloth, and words are more harmful than spears and halberds.