It is reluctant for others to use other people's property as a favor or decorate the scene, but it doesn't matter to themselves.

Be generous with other people's money: use other people's property to help or decorate the scene.

From: The Cold Light of Burning Books

Tell us the truth is, don't pretend to be a virgin, think that you are great, and use human feelings to force others to compromise and pay. It looks very tall, but in fact you have paid nothing. But people who really help others are considered stingy.

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In real life, the most hateful thing about the generosity of others is that when you don't want to do it, there is no room for resistance at all. If you resist, it shows that you have a personality problem and can only reluctantly agree to do it.

This kind of person may have no bad intentions, but when he decides to do something, he does not estimate the wishes and ideas of others, unilaterally carries out moral kidnapping, and uses the standards of saints to ask others to cut off a piece of their own meat and share it with others. If you don't do it, you are a person without standards.

Don't be such a brazen person. When you promise and share, please represent yourself, not others. You share your good things, which is called sharing, but you share other people's things with others, which is called moral kidnapping, which is a manifestation of generosity and low emotional intelligence.

Some people are willing to give generously because it doesn't cost anything. He only needs to speak to get attention, praise, gratitude and group resonance, and all the benefits he gets in this matter are related.

Originally belonging to the original person or group, he did not spend any energy to pass the problem on to others, and he became a good person.

This kind of person always likes to direct others with righteous words, but he does nothing himself, like a savior on high. They always get applause by playing with their mouths. This is not true kindness, but a kind of pseudo-kindness.

They will not bear the responsibility or loss brought by kindness like really kind people. Generosity and kindness have always been used for self-seeking, not others.

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