Someone once asked a centenarian the secret of longevity, and the old man only said one word-boil. Indeed, for this cross-century old man, she not only experienced hunger and war, but also experienced countless hardships in life. It's not easy to be strong for a hundred years. After all, there are fewer good times and more bad times in life, and the ups and downs of life are beyond people's control. Just as human beings are helpless in the face of nature, so are human beings in the face of fate. In this case, we have to "endure" to overcome setbacks and succeed. The word "forbearance" seems pessimistic, but it is not despair.
It can be said that "forbearance" is an attitude, but also a kind of endurance. Many times, as long as we stubbornly "endure" the past with absolute willpower and perseverance, we can become faithful wives. It can be said that "forbearance" is also a way to overcome suffering, which can help us cross the gully of life suffering and realize our ideals smoothly.
No matter what hardships you face, the mentality of the strong should be positive. In the face of conquerable suffering, the strong take the initiative to attack, in the face of insurmountable suffering, the strong can maintain an optimistic attitude. It can be seen that in order to finally overcome fate, we must maintain a good attitude. Remember, suffering is always temporary, and life is like a long river, which will not only drag us into the whirlpool, but also bring us out of suffering and welcome a better future.
If we compare life to the vast sea, then we should be the helmsman who controls our destiny. Otherwise, once we drift with the tide, the rough sea may take us to unknown places, and may cause our boat of life to hit the rocks and sink. No matter how strong the wind is and how high the waves are, we must firmly grasp the rudder of fate and never let go.
Of course, the real "forbearance" is not passive retreat, but a kind of strength savings, a kind of waiting, a kind of silence before success. It is often said that the endurance of high-ranking players is beyond ordinary people. Indeed, if we don't resist our determination not to show our talents, we can't avoid the entanglement with ulterior motives, and we can't see the chance of success in the future. Only by learning to hide one's sharpness can we thrive without showing the obvious, and complete the transformation from quantity to quality without everyone knowing it.
The so-called "civil and military way, once relaxed; The road of life, temper justice with mercy ",a person has patience, he has the power to overcome everything, because patience is not only a strength of life, but also a yardstick representing the toughness of life.