A famous saying: rumors need two people, one is your enemy and the other is your friend. How do you understand this sentence?
(1) From the source of rumors, one is the malicious attack of the enemy and the other is the misunderstanding of friends; From the spread of rumors, there are enemies spreading everywhere, as well as friends' doubts and inquiries. Therefore, rumors cannot be separated from friends and enemies. (2) Since it is a rumor, it is a trumped-up accusation. The enemy will attack you with it, and friends will not help you, so the injury is inevitable. (3) In the face of rumors, on the one hand, we should calmly deal with them, believing that rumors will not defeat the facts after all, and will eventually break down; On the other hand, we should take appropriate and effective measures to turn passivity into initiative and turn crisis and injury into understanding and cooperation. For example, it may be difficult to win friends first and then turn enemies into friends, but we must have a broad mind to repay evil with good. (4) In combination with the civil service position I applied for, I should act according to law and strictly enforce the law, which is easy to offend people and not be understood. If you encounter rumors, you should not be afraid or even afraid to do things. Instead, you should do your work patiently on the premise of adhering to principles.