When talking about life, I always feel that there is endless things to say. Life is short, and the best way is to enjoy yourself in time; life is like a dream, and everything you pass is just a dream.

Liang Xiaosheng said in "Awakening in the World": "Life is half awake and half relieved."

It is true that different people will choose different ways of life, but this half awake, half is relieved. A semi-relieved attitude can be regarded as an advanced way of living.

Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Only after you have truly loved can you understand: When love falls into a stage of passion and irrationality, the superficial love is not necessarily the truth of happiness. . Only when one is rational and can love with confidence is happiness worth cherishing forever. ”

Indeed, a lot of love nowadays is just because the body is satisfied, but the spirit is empty. .

People who truly love each other are those who never go through the period of passionate love and can know each other's thoughts.

Just like Wei Lianggong in "The Mistress of the House", he is sober. As a teacher, he fell in love with Shen Cuixi, the eldest grandmother of the Ren family. He originally wanted to wear the purse around his waist, but he put it in the study room, fearing that people would see it and misunderstand it. In order to protect her reputation, even if he couldn't bear it, he would leave the Ren family despite being sick.

When he returned to Ren's house later, facing the malicious speculations of others, he even risked his own life to safeguard the reputation of his eldest grandmother. After all, in that world, once a woman's reputation was destroyed, she would be faced with eternal fire.

Wei Lianggong loved Shen Cuixi, and he loved her soberly. Even if he was seriously ill in bed, he was not willing to let Shen Cuixi come to see him. From the bottom of his heart, Thinking about Shen Cuixi, after all, he is a scholar, and she is the eldest grandmother of the Ren family, so it is not appropriate to meet in private.

Nietzsche said: "Either one will never dream, or one will have interesting dreams; one must also learn to be awake: one will either never be awake, or one will be awake and interesting."

In fact, no matter it is In love and in life, we can all choose to be half awake. There is no need to explain some things too clearly. After all, haziness increases the desire to explore.

Moreover, just because you won’t say something doesn’t mean that others don’t know it, but if you say it and the layer of window paper is opened, there may be worse consequences.

Therefore, in this life, it is best to stay semi-awake. You don’t need to cover everything, but you can also add one or two sentences when necessary.

Nine times out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory. Isn’t it a good choice to learn to let go?

Ye Jiaying’s life must be known to many people. She came from a scholarly family and later married a man she didn't love. Originally, the relationship between the two was okay, and her husband, Mr. Zhao, was very considerate to her.

However, due to political reasons, Mr. Zhao was imprisoned and released without charge three years later. However, his temperament changed drastically. Mr. Zhao became an alcoholic and scolded Ye Jiaying for no reason. .

Once, Ye Jiaying came home late because she was explaining a problem to the students. Mr. Zhao cooked for her, but she was so angry that she threw the pots and bowls on the ground. After several breakdowns, she wanted to turn on the gas and commit suicide, but finally gave up.

Gradually, she found strength in poetry, which rekindled her hope. When she saw a poem by Wang Anshi: "The wind blew the tiles down into the house, breaking my head. The tiles also broke by themselves, not only my blood flowed. I will never be angry, this tile is not free. All living beings do evil, and there is also one She started to let go of the complaints in her heart, let go of a lot of unbearable feelings, gained a new understanding of life, and found her own place in the ups and downs of life and work. It’s poetry.

Indeed, for many things in life, you are not bound to succeed if you want to do it. After all, even if you try your best to do it, you will not be as good as others. 1. What should you do at this time?

I think the best way is to be relieved, let go of your high expectations for yourself, and learn to accept your imperfections. Even imperfections are a gesture in life.

Xi Murong said: "This smile uses up my pain and sadness; this relief uses up the place I remember; this parting uses up my courage to love you; this time I I will really cry and express my love for you; because this is the last time I love you."

Half relieved, let go of the obsession in my heart and live a good life.

There is no such thing as quiet time, it’s just someone carrying the burden forward for us. But in the journey of life, there is always a journey that you need to walk by yourself. No matter how much suffering and sadness you have, you can only carry it yourself.

Because everyone has injustices, and there is no reason for others to put down everything in their hands to comfort your injured heart. You need to be strong alone and learn to let go of things that are not worth it.

Whether you are half awake or half relieved, the original source is saying, in life, be yourself.

A highly praised answer on Zhihu: "In life, the most important thing is to be yourself and become a better version of yourself, rather than being someone else's accessory."

Sometimes , we will be confused, at a loss, not knowing where we came from and where we are going? Immortals often point the way and say: Just follow your heart.

Yes, any sound from the outside world, whether related to you or irrelevant to you, will slowly dissipate as time goes by. As long as you don't care about yourself, who will have time to do boring things?

My cousin is such a person. She was born poor, but lived a very cool life in the second half of her life, which made many people envious.

Due to family circumstances, she dropped out of high school before graduating and went out to work at a young age. Later, she got married early, to the old Wang family in the next village. Her man treated her well, provided her with food and clothing, and did not neglect her at all. It was probably because he gave birth to a son.

Later, she did not want to be trapped in the countryside when she was young and never saw the outside world. But what knocked at the door to the outside world was knowledge, so she took care of her children at home and studied at the same time.

Unexpectedly, when her child reached the age of studying, she successfully obtained a self-taught undergraduate diploma, and because of her influence, the child also developed the habit of reading. This is really a blessing.

Self-study was just her starting point. Later, she chose to work in self-media. While sending her children to study, she shared her exam experience online, gaining countless fans and adding a lot of income to her.

Today, she has already achieved financial freedom. But she still remembered that during the hard days, she studied hard and worked hard to be herself, because no one around her thought highly of her. Even her dearest husband advised her not to suffer this fate, but in the end she chose to persevere. Stay true to your heart.

She said: You just need to work hard every day to become a better version of yourself, and for the rest, please leave it to time!

Being half awake and half relieved is an advanced way of living, but the foundation of this way of living is to be yourself.

Everyone’s life is unique. I hope you can also show your most elegant posture at your most beautiful age, and use the faith in your heart to create your own future.