Some people say that college students should write politeness and honesty on paper and read it dozens of times a day; Some people say that politeness and honesty should be put in your pocket, and you feel heavy every day; Some people say that we should keep politeness and honesty in mind, think during the day and study at night. In my opinion, if we want to truly implement courtesy and honesty, we must turn it into a kind of consciousness, an unpretentious consciousness.
At the beginning of last year, an "unmanned newsstand" appeared in Jiangsu University. Newsstands on campus don't need people to sell newspapers. When students come to buy newspapers, they just need to put the money in the box, including the change. A teacher in charge of Jiangda University said that these newsstands sell an average of 120 ~ 160 copies a day, which has never been worse. Even if some students forget to bring money for a while, they will definitely make up the money next time they buy a newspaper.
In this way, courtesy and honesty, when you come and go, slowly seep into our blood with the fingertips of newspapers, nourish our lofty and healthy bodies and support our indomitable personality. Countless hands touch the same newspaper, and countless college students sing the same song with endless voices: newspapers are valuable but honesty is priceless! A newspaper can only be read for a day or two at most, but you can gain insight into a person's life through honesty. We are happy because there are many such people among our college students. We regard politeness and honesty as the most sacred tower. The light at the top of the tower will never go out. We regard politeness and honesty as the purest river. The water in this river has a long history. We regard honesty, courtesy and sincerity as the clearest day, and the clouds in the sky are spotless. Li Ming crossed 9.6 million square kilometers in good faith and told every young college student in the motherland with an ancient and powerful voice, told the moral requirements of new youth in the new era and told the basic personality elements that college students should have.
When you are happy, you can't be blind. Politeness and honesty are generally accepted by college students and transformed into their own qualities, but at the same time they are trampled by a few students. Maybe you don't feel it at all, but unconsciously, you are belittling yourself and despising honesty. Tell me an example that I witnessed. The history anthology teacher of our college asked a classmate what books he usually bought and wrote. This classmate, like me, usually buys essays and novels, but he said: I bought historical books, such as China Ancient Dictionary. The teacher asked him which publishing house published the ancient Chinese dictionary he bought, and he said: Commercial Press. The teacher smiled and stopped asking questions. Because the Dictionary of Ancient Chinese is only published by Zhonghua Book Company, the Commercial Press will not publish it. Maybe you think the real thing is very small, and it is simply a fuss and exaggeration to raise it to the height of reciprocity. But you should know that honesty is not a negotiable commodity, but a holy goddess, which can not tolerate the slightest pollution. If you despise it, honest people will despise you. Franklin said that if you slip, you may stand up immediately and break your promise, and you may never come back. Yes, it's a big mistake to be polite and honest, and a big mistake will always be hated!
In the communication between classmates and teachers and students, when you destroy politeness and honesty, you are also widening the distance between you and them, making it difficult for others to trust you again. Professor Lin Dehong of China Academy of Sciences said that the longest road in the world is the spiritual road. If they cheat and distrust each other, there will be a mountain between their hearts. The shortest road in the world is also the road to the soul. If everyone treats each other with courtesy and openness, there will be no gap between hearts and human society will live in harmony. There is indeed a phenomenon of dishonesty in society, but this unhealthy trend should not spread on university campuses and should not be contaminated by us college students who pursue perfection.
Students, we college students are the elites of social youth and the pillars of the future society. We will build ships with scientific knowledge, sail with courtesy and honesty, and ride the wind and waves. The world ahead will be vast, and our future life will be full of flowers!
2. Remember the famous herzen's famous saying: "Politeness is the most important thing in life, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. If everyone is educated and polite, then a highly civilized society is not far away. " We live together in a big family of society, and being polite to others is a compulsory course for every teenager. Therefore, we must form a good habit of politeness.
Etiquette, justice, honesty and shame are the standards for individuals to stand on the world and the basis of law. Courtesy means knowing manners and being polite. Etiquette is the most basic code of conduct established by a country and a nation in order to maintain social production mode and social life, and it is also a reflection of the moral outlook and social progress of a country and a nation. Whether everyone has good manners is an external beauty for individuals, which is manifested in whether a person has elegant temperament; For a nation, he is an indispensable part of the whole national style. In modern social life, politeness not only brings happiness and harmony to society and others, but also creates a loving environment and brings happiness and warmth to oneself.
For example, swearing, spitting, throwing waste paper and dirt and other seemingly trivial things often affect the image of the country and the city and the process of opening up and modernization. A city full of civilization and courtesy can bring happiness and self-confidence; No matter how good the facilities are, it is difficult to have order in an impolite city. It can be seen that politeness not only shows the personal image, city image and citizen quality, but also reflects the degree of social civilization to some extent.
Students, the wheel of the times has brought us into the 2 1 century. In modern society, people are like an atom, and only when they are interrelated can they have survival value. A person, whether you like it or not, must first learn to be polite, learn to get along with anyone, including family, relatives and friends, teachers and classmates, and even all those who need to associate with themselves, and learn to shape a healthy personality.
A person who really pursues success must be very polite, pay attention to shaping his own personality, and will work hard on his own study and career instead of spending his energy on eating and dressing. Respect for others is the premise of cultivating a sound personality, and love can only become the real power to improve a good personality if it comes from respect for people. Caring, loving and helping others will be the wealth of your life. Finding the oasis of life, keeping healthy body and establishing noble morality are the themes of life and human civilization.
School is an important garden for shaping personality, because everything everyone learns in school will be deeply branded in life and extended to social life and interpersonal communication. A sound personality is built by learning how to communicate with others.
First, an educator once said: a person's behavior can become a habit over time; A person's habits can become a character over time; A person's personality often determines his future. Obviously, the "habit" and "personality" mentioned here do not refer to simple concepts such as rice or steamed bread, active or quiet, but a person's attitude and practice towards study, career, others and society, which is a person's personality.
If you have understood the truth, you should always pay attention to civility and politeness, consciously repeat good behaviors, and develop good habits and good character.