Step 1: Go straight to the point. Sartre said that all great things have an absurd beginning. This situation often applies to great people. There is a classic anecdote about Reese. Because the mice in the warehouse are different from those in the toilet, Reese said the classic "people are valuable people, like mice, in their ears"; There is a famous saying about Chen Sheng, "Swallows know the ambition of swans." .
The second step is to recognize the differences and find ways to change them. ; Secondly, you should have a chance to realize your ambition. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself before After success, everything before will be bleached. Even if you are forced through your crotch by a rogue, people will only praise you for your great wisdom of tolerance. How can we make a name for ourselves? Simply put, you can't accept your own destiny. You are lucky enough to change your life successfully.
When you realize that the world is different and unfair, that is, "starting from the heart", the next step is to clarify your ambition, that is, "ambition". First of all, you should have lofty aspirations, far greater than your present situation. The poor are determined to become landlords, hooligans are determined to become dignitaries, and petty officials are determined to become high officials. These are great ambitions, which can be used to encourage yourself and influence others.
Step 3: I often hear people say, "I only care about things, not people." Unless the other person is an alien, I usually think that the other person is shooting. Why, because such scenes can be seen everywhere in life, there are different evaluation criteria for the same thing. Similarly, people's evaluation of a person often changes constantly because of whether the person is successful or not and how the outcome is.
Speaking of success, maybe you really ask "What is success?" I will answer you responsibly: "success is when you reach your desired goal." If you continue to ask, "Then why does everyone think that success only means having the right to have money, a house and a car?"
It is said that the greatness of Confucius lies in putting forward the word "benevolence" It's a pity that after so many years of education, I still don't understand what this "benevolence" means. One day, I read a little fable called "The Thief has a Way". This fable comes from Zhuangzi Waipian, and the original text is as follows: A disciple of Zhi asked Zhi, "Is there any way to steal?" The plantation said, "Why is there no proper method?" ? My husband's hypocrisy is hidden in the room, which is also holy. First, be brave.
Marx said that history will repeat itself, but the first time it was staged in the form of tragedy, and the second time it often ended in farce. A person at the bottom of society attacks the upper level step by step, "once he succeeds, all bones will wither." What will he do next? The next thing he has to do is to be done by the enemy he defeated before to prevent future generations from being like him. There is only one Liu Bang in the world, and there is no need for another Liu Bang, so Zangcha, Han Xin, Lu Wan, Peng Yue and Ying Bu are all dead. There is only one Reese in the world, and there is no need for another Reese, so Han Fei, Meng Tian and Meng Yi are all dead. There is only one Chen in the world, and there is no need for another Chen.