You can educate him quietly, and make sense with facts. First of all, it shows that reading is a good thing and must be adhered to; Secondly, there are some things to listen to parents and elders. This is an experience-oriented society. Finally, don't be discouraged when you are humble. The rest of your life is long, so why bother to panic. Help more people when the spring breeze is booming, because there is a saying called? All laws are empty, and cause and effect are not empty? Good intentions will be rewarded.

Reading can make sense, and reading can change one's fate

If parents see that their adolescent children are not studying but just playing, they can educate their children in this way: You will know when you go outside, that they have a college degree and are basically working as coolies; Bachelor degree, mostly leading coolies; Those with graduate degrees all work easily in the office in warm winter and cool summer; And doctors, mostly in state-owned enterprises and even central enterprises. Son, what kind of precious life do you want to choose? After persuasion, children will know that reading will change their destiny, which is the power of understanding.

Don't criticize children when they are rebellious, but guide them through cases. A song by Jay Chou is called "Listen to Mom". You see, you should also know and practice what singers know. ? You can also guide children in this way when they are rebellious. For example, there is another example. There is a famous young pianist Ou Ou (not his real name). He suffered from cerebral palsy since he was a child, and doctors said that he would not live beyond 1 years old. However, this child has one advantage? I listened to my mother's words, so I stumbled and the child grew up to 19 years old. Ou Ou not only miraculously came back to life, but also became a young piano player, boarded the stage of CCTV, and achieved a myth. In this way, the children will be explained by examples, and I believe the children will be relieved.

Helping others is the foundation of happiness, and the key is to implement it.

Adolescent children are not familiar with the world, and this is a critical period of education, so we must control it well and not slack off. And helping others in time is the key to education. It's good for you to help others, of course, we don't care about gains and losses. If you do good, there will be Qing Yu. If you do good and help others, the blessing is far away. These words of wisdom can't be wrong. The key is to set a good example for children and help those who have the ability to help them first, so that children can make progress. A kind and helpful child will not have a bad life in the future.

Finally, in addition to helping, understanding and not rebelling, we should also make our children optimistic and sunny. We should not complain when encountering problems, but should examine our own problems at the first time. At the same time, we should exercise our perseverance and never give up good things.