I want to say to him who is preparing for the college entrance examination: "The excitement of life lies in the pursuit, and you don't have to care too much about gains and losses, not to mention gains and losses."

He is my cousin, He can be regarded as a child with both good character and academic performance. This is his advantage, but it is also his biggest shortcoming. His long-term excellence makes him habitually praised by others, and he strives to be first in everything. Of course, this also includes His mother's contribution is indispensable. His mother often told him: "You have to study hard and you have to be first in the exam. Only the first place will be remembered. There is no difference between the second place and the twentieth place. They are all Under the glory of first place."

I have been affected by this emotion for a long time, so that my cousin is very utilitarian. He is about to take the exam. Because he cares too much about gains and losses, he is afraid that the final result will not be good. Ideal, he is very anxious, but I hope he can adjust his anxious mood. If this kind of mood is not adjusted well, the exam will inevitably be affected. I also hope he understands that even if the result is not so satisfactory, he cannot go to the ideal school. , but maybe he will meet good people in the new environment and he will live a happy life. This means that there are gains and losses.

Everyone’s life rhythm is different, and life is also different. You must be able to know yourself and find your own sense of rhythm. I believe that one day you will walk out on your own Roman road. When the years go by and you look back on the past, you will find how ridiculous it was when you were anxious about trivial things. Therefore, you must believe that every step is the best arrangement.