There are many words to answer in this next sentence, mainly depending on who you want to express your meaning to.

Explain that you don't care about secular vision, you just want to realize a certain wish, but what is a certain wish you want to realize? That's what you have to say next!

For example, for lovers, if you want you to be together forever, you can say, I just want us to be together. If you want her to understand you, you can say, I just want you to understand me .