2. affirm his efforts, not just care about his achievements. For grades, the attitude of hard work is more valuable. Help him develop good study habits and living habits. Trust him, don't hit him. No matter how bad his grades are now, I firmly believe that as long as he works hard, he will make progress and get better and better.
3. study and make progress with your boyfriend. Lead by example and study together can urge him to learn and make progress. After he succeeds in his study, he will see that you have studied well and will be very proud. He secretly wants to catch up with you and make you sit up and take notice of him, which can greatly improve his motivation to learn.
4. Boyfriend can't study, probably because he has difficulty in learning. You can tell the other party not to run away when encountering difficulties, and you can use Baidu or ask for help yourself. This is a kind of personality charm, which expresses our love for him and encourages him to do more when he faces difficulties directly. On the other hand, it means that escaping can't solve the problem, and we must find a way to solve the problem when we encounter it.
5. Watch learning videos with your boyfriend and watch some inspirational speeches and documentaries with your boyfriend. Enhance the boyfriend's understanding of learning, broaden his horizons and enhance his confidence in learning.
6. Encourage your boyfriend, set goals for him, reward him if he achieves his goals, or punish him. Reward is what boyfriend wants most, or what boyfriend needs most now, or what he likes better. You can invite him to eat his favorite food or take him to places he wants to play, or give him his favorite gifts and so on.