Yang Lan once said: "The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but about spiritual growth. When you are most helpless and weak, you have him or her."
Yes, the marriage mentioned by Yang Lan is the highest level of marriage. The marriage of most ordinary people means that husband and wife understand, trust and tolerate each other. Before having children, they may not get used to each other enough, and sometimes they will quarrel and get angry. After having children, their married life will be stronger.