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The biggest dilemma that middle-aged women face is when their marriage changes. And what we call a mid-life crisis is actually an emotional crisis for middle-aged women. There are many miserable stories about middle-aged divorced women in life, but not every woman who encounters a marriage change in middle age will live to be the unfortunate one in everyone's eyes. There are also many women who, despite their misfortune, still have the ability to withstand the wind and rain. , and even after the pain, the soul can quickly sublimate and become the irreplaceable self. They are confident and outstanding. In their concept, there has never been a mid-life crisis.

I have been following the drama "Pi" recently, and the reason why I was moved by the plot this time is that Pei Yin, a divorced middle-aged woman, actually fell in love with Jiang Yuwen, a male technology god.

The male god said so affectionately: "I fell in love with you when I was ten years old, but at that time you were already married to Qian Yukun. I saw that you were unhappy in this marriage, I want you to leave. Pei Yin, I love you, can we be together? "This is the most affectionate expression a man can have for a woman like you.

Jiang Yuwen is the cousin of Pei Yin’s husband, and the best man in the eyes of Pei Yin’s father-in-law, Mr. Qian. Pei Yin's husband must have never dreamed that the wife he despised would be treated as a treasure by his cousin. In Jiang Yuwen's own words, he has been secretly in love with Pei Yin for many years, and he has always been in love with her, no matter whether she is married or not, no matter how she lives, even if she is divorced, he still loves her deeply.

Pei Yin is a typical good wife and mother, beautiful, intellectual and elegant, gentle and virtuous. But even so, she was still picked on and rejected by her scumbag husband. When she reached middle age, a mistress appeared in her life. 02

But she did not feel sorry for herself, nor was she tortured by life into a middle-aged resentful woman.

Pei Yin comes from a good background and has good family conditions. Her family has a close relationship with the Qian family. Pei Yin grew up in a family with a strong artistic atmosphere, so such a person views relationships authentically. She listened to her parents' matchmaking advice and married Qian Yukun, who she grew up with as her childhood sweetheart, thinking that the marriage would be as imagined. Just as happy, but she was wrong, she trusted someone wrong.

She has different views and is unwilling to compromise for each other, so her marriage has always been unhappy, but she would rather keep it traditional. In the 15-year sexless marriage, she no longer knows what love is.

But Jiang Yuwen's appearance broke through all this. He could discover the beauty in her. There is a plot like this: Mistress An Lili learned that Jiang Yuwen liked Pei Yin, and she felt jealous in her heart. She wanted to insult Pei Yin, but Jiang Yuwen jumped out in time to speak for Pei Yin and helped her break out. At this time, Pei Yin She is the most confident, because she is held in the palm of the hand by the person who is the best in everyone's eyes. This is a strong physical support. It can be said that if there is such a person in life, how can there be a crisis? Even in middle age, she is a divorced woman, but she has a strong physical background, and there is no such thing as a mid-life crisis in her world. 03

There is a famous saying: People should be strong both materially and physically.

Those who are physically strong will not have a sense of crisis. As a woman, how can we have a strong body and spirit? I think, first of all, we should have a heart that refuses to admit defeat or accept fate.

If we talk about the crisis, no one will understand it more vividly than her. Her name is Liao Zhi. She was originally a dancer who lived a carefree and leisurely life. However, she lost her legs in the unexpected earthquake. Her life was even more difficult to bear. She also lost her beloved daughter. At this extremely painful moment, her husband left her mercilessly.

Compared with other women’s midlife crises, Liao Zhi’s crisis seems to be more severe than anyone else’s. Maybe some people will sink in the face of such a predicament, but there is a kind of woman who is physically He has always been a strong person, Liao Zhi is such a person.

Although she lost her legs, she still had to stand on the stage that once attracted her most. She began to gradually get in touch with her prosthetic limbs, and she turned them into a part of her body. part of the dance.

She stood up again with her strong mental will. The dance "Inspiration" she performed was stunning and shocking. 04

She said in "I Want to Go to the Spring Festival Gala": "I only had two choices at that time: one was to choose not to wear prosthetics and to sit in a wheelchair forever. Life was very inconvenient and uncomfortable, but I could stay away from it. Pain; one is to accept pain and enjoy freedom."

She said to everyone: "I hope to use my unique life to influence more lives. I believe this is God’s purpose for letting me live!”

Netizens commented on her this way. Although her limbs were incomplete, she showed us her unique life! A complete dance.

There is a kind of people who live in sorrow no matter what time of their lives. They always complain about the unfairness of life. When faced with many unsatisfactory situations, they either attribute the cause to their own misfortune, or attribute it to their own misfortune. Destiny, but there is another kind of woman. She uses her colorful life to tell you that no matter what kind of difficulties a woman faces, she will never bow her head or admit defeat. She will never have a crisis in her life because she has a strong spirit. rely on.

Let us build a strong spiritual home. It is better to have spiritual support. If we don’t have our own spiritual support, then why should a woman with a strong and full heart be afraid of crisis?