1. Poor to the last straw, only frugality, what's worse, only diligence.
Only two things can change the face of poverty: one is to open up new sources, and the other is to cut costs. There is really no way to change the status quo from frugality. People who are naturally clumsy need not be discouraged, but they can still achieve their goals as long as they are willing to work hard.
2. Loyalty is foolish, and filial piety is foolish. It can be seen that the word loyalty and filial piety is not the work of a pity person; Benevolence has false benevolence and righteousness has false righteousness, which shows that there are not many wicked people hiding in the two ways of benevolence and righteousness.
There is a kind of loyalty that is regarded as folly, and there is also a kind of filial piety that is regarded as folly. It can be seen that people who are too smart can't do the words "loyalty" and "filial piety". Similarly, there are hypocritical "false benevolence" and "false righteousness" in the act of benevolence and righteousness. It can be seen that the benevolent people mentioned by ordinary people may not be treacherous and cunning people.
3. Teach children to be strict and strict enough to calm down; Respect for villains, respect for the heart can turn evil spirits.
Educate children to take it seriously, and a strict attitude can calm the impetuous spirit in children's hearts; Treating a villain with respect can influence the evil spirits in his heart, and even if he can't, he can save himself from them.
4. Those who are good at making a living, diligently practice continuous career, without enriching their families; People who are good at doing things will approve the articles of association without having to make profits for themselves.
People who are good at making a living will teach their children and grandchildren the skills of making a living without leaving them too much property. People who are good at doing things will make decisions according to their objective attitude towards things, not necessarily for their own selfish interests.
5. If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition; Foolish and rich will benefit from this.
A wise man, if his elders leave him too much property, will damage his ambition and become unwilling to make progress; A stupid person, who is left too much property by his elders, will make him more unscrupulous and make his mistakes deeper and deeper.
6. The character is not high, and one word can never be broken; If you don't make progress in your studies, you can't get rid of a lazy word.
Translation: people's character can't be improved, always because their own interests can't be broken; There is no progress in study, always because I can't get past laziness.
7. The mind can argue things, and things can be decided; People never forget their shame, and they are neither humble nor supercilious.
If the mind can distinguish right from wrong, it can deal with things quickly and decisively; If you don't forget the courtesy, justice and shame, you will be healthy and upright, and you won't go along with the despicable people.
8. The ability of the ancients to make a fuss can really cultivate everything. Although the words of the ancients entered calligraphy, they were like a panacea, turning stone into gold.
People who can write articles are good at quoting famous sayings. Although there are only a few words, it plays the role of finishing touch and makes the article more beautiful and moving to read.
9. Angry, mostly sons who died young; A sharp-tongued person is a misfortune.
People with eccentric personality and bad temper are always in anxiety because they are narrow-minded and intolerant, thus ending in short life; A person with a bitter language, because he has no good words, keeps everyone away from him and can't get help from others, making himself shallow.
10. If you don't have high ambitions, you will go along with others, and nothing will happen. Don't be too big. If you are too big, it will be difficult to succeed.
If you don't have high ambitions, you will easily be influenced by the secular world, make yourself drift with the tide, and it will be difficult to make a difference in the end. Don't be too big-minded, too big-minded, too arrogant, don't want to start from small things, and it is difficult to achieve great things in the end.
1 1. A catastrophe begins with a temporary unbearable situation and must not be taken lightly.
Major mistakes are often caused by impulse, so we should learn to be cautious.
12. But blaming yourself, not others, is the way to complain.
Look for reasons from yourself, and there will be no complaints. This is what Mencius said: to do something, you must ask yourself.
13. It is better to study all day than to make friends randomly.
Instead of studying behind closed doors at home, make friends casually. Reading a good book is like talking to a thinker. You are making friends, and you are a great friend.
14. Where there are unattainable ambitions, there must be unattainable achievements. If you can't bear to say anything, you will be in trouble.
Only by setting lofty ambitions can we bear what others can't bear, and only by doing what others can't do can we have hope; If you find mistakes in people and things, and you don't have the heart to blame and correct them, it will inevitably cause harm because you can't bear to say it.
15. When making friends, you must pay attention to his benefits in order to benefit; In the words of sages, it is necessary for me to do this at ordinary times in order to be a student.
When you associate with friends, you must carefully observe their advantages and study hard to benefit from them. For the words left by ancient sages, we must follow them in our daily life, so as to truly appreciate the words in the book.