People are polite and worry about fish having water. ——Ge Hong

Any person who can be welcomed by everyone must not only have strength in his movements, but also be graceful. Solidity is not enough, even if it is useful, it will not help. No matter what he does, he must be elegant. Only with your approach and attitude can you look beautiful and be liked by others. ——Locke

We endure the vices we take for granted, and we condemn the new ones we discover. ——Sailer Bully

We must be strong-willed, diligent, explore, discover, and never give in, cherish the good that comes on our way forward, and endure the evil in and around us , and determined to eliminate it. —— Huxley

Some people, especially children, often show a village shy attitude in front of strangers or their elders. Their thoughts, words, and appearance all appear embarrassed. ; I have also lost my control in the chaos, and I can't do anything. At least it seems unnatural and inelegant, and I can't win the joy and welcome of others. The only way to cure this problem is to make them develop an opposite habit through practice, and the important thing is to make more friends. ——Locke

A kind spirit welcomes people, and they are as close as brothers; a bad spirit welcomes people, and it harms the soldiers. ——Guan Zhong

Explore the virtues in others and look for the vices in yourself. ——Franklin

True humility is the highest virtue, the mother of all virtues. ——Tennyson

In your past life, anyone you hurt has long been forgotten, but the person you hurt will never forget you. He will never remember your good qualities, but the harm you did to him. ——Dale Carnegie

Interrupting and arguing are also not in line with the requirements of etiquette. Interrupting when others are talking is the greatest offense because we respond to others before we know what they are going to say. It's not reckless or stupid, but it's also a clear indication that he's tired of hearing what the other person is saying and doesn't want the other person to talk anymore. ——Locke

The reason why power, wealth, and even virtue itself are valued by everyone is because they can enhance our happiness. Anyone who helps others but has a bad attitude when doing so will A person who makes others feel uneasy will not be welcomed in terms of their happiness. Anyone who knows how to make the other person feel comfortable without being servile or lowering his status can be said to have gained the true secret of life and will be welcomed and valued everywhere. Therefore, politeness is the first important thing that children and young people should be particularly careful to develop into habits. ——Locke

Etiquette determines suspicion and hesitation, distinguishes similarities and differences, and distinguishes right from wrong. ——Wu Jing

It is not a virtue to be willing to be in a lower position; it is a virtue to be able to go down. It is also a virtue to admit that things below us are higher than us. ——Goethe

What makes a person noble is his character. ——Lawrence

Self-respect, self-awareness, and self-control, these three can lead to the lofty realm of life. ————Tennyson

Never think that you already know everything. No matter how high others think of you, you must always have the courage to say to yourself: "I am a person who knows nothing." A person who knows.” ——Pavlov

The inheritance of educated people is more valuable than the wealth of ignorant people. ——Democritus

Once they enter society and interact with others, on the one hand, it can increase their knowledge and self-confidence, but at the same time, it is easy for them to lose their virtue; so they have to pay more attention to virtue in advance. Such preparation makes it deeply fixed on them. ——Locke

A person should be: lively but disciplined, naive but not childish, brave but reckless, stubborn but principled, enthusiastic but not impulsive, optimistic but not

generous, Especially modesty will win people's favor. ——Goethe

When a person suffers from depression, he should first use the word "Yi Ren" and then the word "Yi Wang" to harmonize the qi soup. ——Tao Jue

A gentleman tolerates what others cannot tolerate, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and deals with what others cannot tolerate. ——Manan

Etiquette is a subtle thing. It is indispensable for human communication, and it cannot be overestimated. If you value etiquette above all else, you will lose the sincere trust between people. Therefore, we must be good at finding a sense of proportion in language communication to make it straightforward but not rude. This is the hardest and the best. ——Bacon

The so-called courtesy is to treat others the way you like others to treat you. ——Charlie Deffield

In order to make a child have self-confidence and gain some skills in getting along with others, it is very difficult to sacrifice his innocence and let him associate with those uneducated and evil children. No; the chief use of a strong and independent character is to maintain his virtue. When boys have the opportunity to communicate with others, there is nothing they cannot do to learn to be calm, as long as they have enough time. ——Locke

Speech that is not etiquette is called self-destruction. My body cannot be benevolent and righteous, which is called self-abandonment.

The effects of unchecked control of our habits will not be immediately apparent when we are young and energetic. But it gradually consumes this energy, and in old age we have to settle accounts and pay the debts that bankrupted us.

——Tagore

For a person with superior talents, knowing how to treat others equally is the greatest and most true quality. ——Richard Steele

I would prefer genius to virtue, knowledge to wealth. For example, people with less virtue need wealth more, and people with less genius need learning more. ——Younger

The so-called good education...they are different in almost all countries and even in a region; every discerning person will imitate the good education in his place, And be on par with it. ——Chesterfield

In an uncultured person, courage becomes rudeness, knowledge becomes pedantry, wit becomes amusement, simplicity becomes rudeness, and gentleness becomes flattery. ——Locke

Another content of family education is to cultivate the obedience of children. The cultivation of obedience can make children have the desire to grow up. On the contrary, if you do not pay attention to the cultivation of obedience in your children, he will become abrupt, arrogant and rude. ——Hegel

If a person is polite, he will be at peace; if he is not polite, he will be in danger. ——"Notes"

There will always be painful and happy things happening, including willingness and unwillingness, knowing and not knowing, sobriety and confusion. But if there are pious emotions in the heart, then one can also find peace in pain. Otherwise, you can only make ends meet in angry quarrels, jealousy, hatred, and nagging. —— Tagore

Self-cultivation is the first priority, followed by knowledge, followed by practice. ——Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty

Etiquette is also called education. Its essence is just not to show any contempt or insult to anyone in communication. Who can understand and accept this and agree with what is said above? rules and norms and strive to implement them, he will definitely become a well-educated gentleman. ——Locke

Although a poor defense or ordinary observation is put forward in this way and preceded by a few words of respect for other people's opinions, he can get more honor and attention. ————Anonymous

Young people should not interrupt in the middle. When speaking, they should use an attitude of asking for advice, not as if they are lecturing others. Stubborn attitudes and arrogant looks should be avoided and questions should be asked humbly. Humility does not cover them.