Second, there is no perfect choice once and for all in this world. You can't have both flowers and fruits, and the benefits can't be yours. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm.
Third, in the relationship with others, you don't have to be the master. He needs beauty, and you are beauty. He needs desire, and you are desire. He needs love, and you are love. He needs isolation, and it doesn't matter after that. Don't try to remould yourself or others. All you can do is make a quiet mirror and clean it all the time. Let the other side reflect their own shadow. The shadow is gone, and you are still there.
You can't say what kind of lover you really need, but you should be very clear about what kind of virtuous person can't let him into your life.
You only like drinking white water, add carbonic acid when you see coke refreshing, and add sugar when you see orange juice sweet. It is because you often compare with others that you want everything, so that later, you don't know what you really want. Sometimes, the happiness of others doesn't suit you. When you lose those carbonic acid and saccharin, you are you. When you lose everything, you know what you only want. Orson
Six, we love a person, is to give a hostage to the world we face. I love you by giving myself to you and giving myself to you as a hostage. From now on, you have the right to hurt me, to abandon me, and to neglect me. No one else has. I personally gave you this power. After all the hardships, I am willing to accept it.
Seven, how soft the heart is, how hard the shell is; Otherwise, how can the long road of life go on?
Eight, a person, also want to cook well, eat well, have a good play.
Nine, a glass of wine to release the past, fold the pen to stop lovesickness. Time is shallow, life is hectic, twist a touch of heart fragrance, fragrant years.
10. Why are people so eager to be smart? Being smart is painful. Fools are blessed with fools. There are so many stupid women and stupid men who enjoy themselves and don't know how stupid they are. Only smart people hate that they are not smart enough, and feel bad that they are not smart enough. Smart people think too much and always see through their lover's lies; Such cleverness, accompanied by tears, will one day disappear.
Eleven, coffee is bitter and sweet, not how to stir, but whether to put sugar; The pain is not so hard to forget, but whether you have the courage to start over.
Twelve, there is no rehearsal in life, and every day is live. Sunshine comes from the clarity of your heart.
Thirteen, it is not the appearance that is easy to age, but the heart that dares not make progress.
Associate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and travel with humorous people.
The foundation of life is a natural and normal heart. -Annie Baby "The Golden Age of Su Nian"
Sixteen, the oath is used to tie the turbulent heart, and eventually it will tie the void. The mountains and forests do not swear four seasons, and there are ups and downs. The ocean does not need to make a commitment to the sandy shore, and it is fun to meet. Even the language should be abandoned. There is only clean silence and existence between you and me. -"Stone Sea"
Seventeen, words are really amazing things, you can be happy or poke your heart.
Sometimes I need to talk to someone, not others, but you.
Nineteen, a lot of love begins at the time of parting. Like many stories, at first, I thought it was just a game. Slightly true and slightly false. Until one day, the person who has been playing this love game with you has completely retired. Heart, collapsed! There are so many hard-to-tell stories in the world that I didn't know I loved you until the end.
The most effective way to treat sadness is to learn something. When you are hit, frustrated, shivering, seeing your world destroyed and experiencing your honor being stepped into the sewer, there is only one thing you have to learn. Understand why the world has changed so much and what has changed. This is the only thing that can make the heart never tired, never alienated, and never regret. -White
These classic quotations are so explicit that I dare not read them.
1. Make good money. Without money, what can you do to care about your family, support your love and keep in touch with your friendship? With your mouth? Stop it, everyone is busy.
2, a lot of things can never be figured out, I can't figure out why you are not mine when you open your eyes. Thinking of you again, I can't figure it out. I can't figure out, these alienated days and nights seem to happen overnight. I can't figure out why I can't stand with you.
A person loves a stream because he has never seen the sea. But I have seen the Milky Way, but I only love one star.
In fact, many things have a hunch about the ending from the beginning, and all the tossing in the future is just to delay the time of being dismissed.
5. Always clamoring for an object, but never taking the initiative to hook up; People who don't like it are too lazy to accept the pursuit of others. It's not that short, but I still refuse to be wronged Sometimes, it feels good to be single, and many times, I envy others being in pairs. This is the daily life of many single people.
6. There is no such thing as a joke. All jokes have serious elements. How much truth is said in a joke, but people who don't want to understand it will never understand it.
7. In this season, women are prone to three diseases: they feel that the clothes they bought last year are particularly ugly; I feel that there is always a piece of clothing missing in the closet; I feel like I came naked last year.
8. People who are easily disappointed are always those who are naive and soft-hearted. After all, they are easy to cheat and bully, and forget the pain when the scar is healed.
9. There is a sexual orientation called lithromantic, which means that after you have a good impression on a person, when he feels the same way about you, you will hate this feeling and even stop liking him. Are you such a person?
10. When you get married, you worry about your single friends. I feel that other people's marriages are fake when I divorce. Having children makes you feel selfish not to have children. When I first started working, I thought it was a waste of life to study and study for a blog. When you are a freelancer, you feel that office workers are selling their souls. When you buy a house, you feel that buying a house is serious. People, in the final analysis, feel that their choices are wrong, so they will seek approval in the form of pulling people into the water.
1 1, I hope you can meet that person, who can make you stop biting your teeth and try to be brave and hold back your tears.
12, never cheat others, because you can only cheat people who believe in you.
13, everyone seems to have different hobbies in rainy days. Friends like to eat cucumber-flavored potato chips in bed and read books. I like to take a nap in the lower bunk. My mother likes to cook rock sugar and Sydney soup and drink it slowly. And I like to miss you aimlessly, starting from the eaves where we first met on rainy days.
14, I found an interesting phenomenon: most successful men have happy families, while most successful women are divorced or single. Most women do things when they have nothing to do, and most men have sex when they have nothing to do.
15, people who know how to make concessions are smart and take the initiative to decide the direction of the situation in their own hands. In emotional confrontation, if you win face, you lose mutual affection. People who always stick to the end are lonely. Bending down is not to admit defeat, but to pick up lost happiness.
16, I finally understand why I am reluctant to leave. I would rather love your shortcomings than accept others. In this relationship, there is nothing wrong with you and me, but I forgot. We should love ourselves first.
17, there is a kind of person who is very beautiful. He once made you look forward to tomorrow, but he didn't appear in your tomorrow. There is another kind of person who is very practical, and he will give you longer happiness in the years to come, although he has never been to your youth. For the former, we should bless each other; For the latter, we should wait gently.
18, the stronger a person's self-healing ability, the more likely he is to be close to happiness. Be a taciturn person, but there is a sea in my heart, don't hurt others, and be calm and comfortable in indifference.
19, who is worth marrying, who is worth marrying, how can it be made clear. There is no standard for love, just to see whether you are happy or not. So it's not a question of who is suitable, but a question of whether you are willing or not. If you like, so can a poor child. If you don't want to, I will leave here. Love is not a choice, but an inner firmness.
20. I'm over the age of wanting a result. I want to do what I want, and I can be generous to whoever I want. Some time in life is unavoidable and wasted on some people and things.
2 1, the more people are afraid of losing face, the more they care about other people's opinions. The more you care about other people's opinions, the more you will ignore your own feelings. The more you ignore your feelings, the more you live like a puppet for others to see. The last step is to imprison your true self in the deep darkness. Losing ourselves is the root of our inability to find happiness and happiness, and it is also the root of all psychological problems.
22. If you are still alone, don't rush into the arms of the next person for the so-called "security". The sense of security has always been for yourself. Only those who give themselves a sense of security can meet someone you don't need to please and meet someone with the same frequency as you.
23. You must not have noticed my sadness when I smiled and said I didn't mind.
24. I heard a very pretentious sentence: You are your destiny. It makes sense to think about it. Lazy and poor, greedy and fat, busy wholeheartedly every day. Cheerful people are depressed and easy to get rid of. Tangled and can't see the world clearly, free and easy. What makeup photos you set for yourself, fate will give you the end. Rhyme. It was a bang.
I'm not waiting for dawn, I just can't wait for your good night.
26. Many people are casual acquaintances with colleagues, but they spend one-third of their time with colleagues every day. And the most important relatives, only a few festivals can get together with them every year. People can never be satisfied: people in life are often not in your heart; The people in your heart are often not in life.
27. We are all wondering whether the other party will miss us. We are all expecting each other to take the initiative, so we have our own worries and finally drift away.
28. In fact, I don't agree with the saying that you can only grow up if you talk about love several times. Every ending is a huge battle, consuming my enthusiasm for life. I would rather wipe out all the noise in this world on one person, with the most inhuman love and rampaging feelings.
29. At the moment when the problem appears, you must control your emotions, don't be angry, don't be extreme, don't say anything radical, and be patient. Patience is not to keep you from dealing with this matter, but to avoid doing things that embarrass you when your emotions are out of control.
30. Don't think that others like your shortcomings just because they spoil, love, tolerate and care about you. You should change quietly, so as to be worthy of others' unreasonable partiality.
3 1. If a woman loves you, you will see her willfulness, her bigotry, her narrowness and her bad temper. If she doesn't love you, what comes into your eyes is this woman's arrogance, indifference and demon face.
32. In a rage, I said I would never contact again. I fell asleep crying, but I had a mobile phone in my hand. As soon as I shake, I roll up and reply. You must have done this.
33. Quitting smoking and losing weight, just like "I love you", is an exhausting thing after a high-intensity effort. The more you talk, the more tired you get. The more you talk, the less you care.
34. You can either find a man who can make you live a good life or find a man who is willing to suffer for him. Besides, try to get them out of the way. You don't owe him, and you're not redundant. Don't let a man behave like a weak man and get pregnant. I would rather find a father than be a mother, which is the most basic criterion for choosing a spouse.
35. if you don't agree with your personality, you will run in. If you can't run in, you will break up. Otherwise, love will turn into pain, and together it will turn into bitterness. Others will definitely say that this is a sign of not loving enough, but it is not others who are hurt by your blood.
Classic quotations, too classic.
1, it's not others that bother you, but you worry about yourself with other people's words and deeds. People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.
Please let go of what you can't keep. Let it fly, it will be more beautiful.
The existence of tears proves that sadness is not an illusion.
4. A good life should be full of expectation, surprise and gratitude.
Happiness is like a button falling under the sofa. You can't find it if you concentrate. When you forget it, it will roll out by itself.
6. Smart people are happy, but people who think they are smart are troubled. Help others to alleviate three points of trouble, and you will enjoy seven points of happiness.
7. As long as people don't lose their way, they won't lose themselves! What matters in life is not where you stand, but the direction you face.
8. The real walker is not how many places he has traveled, but how many times he has achieved a brand-new self.
9. People should not be a still life in a vase for people to watch, but the rhythm of dancing with the wind spreading on the grassland. Life is not an arrangement, but a pursuit. The meaning of human beings may never have an answer, but we should also enjoy this life without an answer.
10, don't love too hard, two wrong people break up, maybe it can create happiness for four people.
1 1. Being strong is not that your heart hardens, but that you can still laugh when you cry.
12, break my heart, you did better than anyone.
13. Being kind to others is the best way to be kind to yourself.
14. When water flows through the pipeline, the shape of the pipeline is the same as that of water. When the fountain of life flows through you, life is the shape of your mind.
15, pets and love are two different things, pets can have no communication, but love can't.
16, there are four questions in the life test: academic career, marriage and family. You have to get a high average score to pass, so don't spend too much time and energy on any topic.
17, the fish said: You can't see the tears in my eyes because I am in the water; Water said: I can feel your tears because you are in my heart.
18, life is alive, it should be like this, while fragrant others, while beautiful yourself.
19, It takes only a minute to meet someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
20. Luminescence is not the patent of the sun. It can also shine.
2 1, everything should be viewed from multiple angles.
22. The ideal road is always for people with confidence.
23. The best friend is when you sit on the balcony together without saying a word. When you walk away, you still feel that you had a wonderful conversation.
24. A person's value is determined at the moment of being tempted.
25. It takes at least two people for rumors to hurt you. Your enemies slander you, and your friends tell you.
26. Not everything is the best for the happiest people.
27. When two people are in love, they both long for an infinitely sweet kiss, but why do they hurt each other with a kissing mouth when quarreling?
28. The temperature of tears is 530℃, just because the outside is too cold, it will drop to 53℃.
29. The meeting between some people is like a meteor, which instantly sparks an enviable spark, but it is destined to pass by in a hurry.
Humor means that when a person wants to cry, he still has the interest to laugh.
Classic quotations are so classic.
1. Why aren't we together? There are many reasons. But among all the answers, one is the saddest, that is, meeting the right person at the wrong time.
Second, are you there? Hmm. There is something I want to tell you. Hmm. I like you. Hmm. Do you like me? Hmm. Automatic reply? No. The warmest little joke I saw today.
3. I hope I can have breakfast at home and go home for dinner if I can and time permits, because I am afraid of being alone and feel no family atmosphere.
Fourth, a man must be able to protect at least four things, the land under his feet, his parents at home, the woman in his arms and his brothers around him.
Fifth, it is not love at first sight, and then it will last for a long time. Either impossible or the best. It is not that distance produces beauty, nor that loneliness is more reliable than romance. Love is illogical. Each of us has our own gestures. If you love, it is love.
Six, the flowers have blossomed, and I have missed the flowering period in a hurry for no reason. I always thought that the scattered fragrance was the flow of love and the most beautiful deep impression of Chinese New Year. Until the brow, never find a trace of youth. Only then did I know that many pure favors in the past were returned to time. Does everyone end up with nothing? Maybe at that time, we can be safe and sound in the chaotic crowd.
Seven, feelings such a thing, really can't listen to others, you have to make up your own mind. Because everyone has their own way of life, others' may not be suitable for you. The standard of being your own master is simple. If this relationship can make you happy and feel safe, then talk about it, regardless of the other person's poverty and education. And this feeling makes you miserable, so be careful, even if you love him. To put it bluntly, finding someone who can make you happy all your life is the goal of love.
Eight, hold your hand through the barren sand dunes.
9. When a woman becomes silent in front of you, stops yelling at you, quarreling with you, losing her temper with you and taking care of you, you really lose the indispensable position in her heart. Even though she still loves you, something has really changed. Tangled, seemingly annoying, is actually the happiest.
Ten, the human heart is like a container, with more happiness and less depression; The installation is much simpler, and the entanglement is naturally less; If you pretend to be more satisfied, the pain will naturally be less; If you understand more, there will naturally be fewer contradictions; Pretend to be more tolerant and hate less.
Heartbeat love needs to go through so many hardships, but you and I still love each other in this chaotic world. Although you are cruel to me, I still put down my dignity and stubbornly want to save it, because I can't let go of you and our newly blooming love.
If I love you and you happen to love me. When your hair is messed up, I will smile and shake it for you, and then my hand will stay in your hair for a few more seconds. However, if I love you and you don't love me. Your hair is messed up. I will only gently tell you that your hair is messed up. This is probably the purest view of love. If you love each other, you have to grow old together. If you miss it, keep him safe.
You don't need too many good friends. Two are enough. One is willing to lend you money and the other is willing to attend your funeral.
14. I just know now that you can still love TA without knowing someone. I understand now that if I don't love someone, I can still miss TA. I don't know if this is a bitch.
Fifteen, after breaking up, don't recall the sweet past, because it will only make you more painful. Don't compare his attitude before and after the breakup, because it doesn't make sense. Don't doubt his decision, because he has made up his mind. Don't try to save it, because it's not worth saving. Don't worry, thinking about him will be the scariest thing in your life. He is not afraid to miss you. What are you afraid of? Don't be afraid that you are about to fall into a loveless life, because that is impossible.
Sixteen, a little lonely, I don't know how to say, let it die in silence, I left, in fact, it never came, but my heart was soft at night.
Seventeen, inexplicable irritability, fidgeting, what to remove.
18. No matter what mistakes you make in life, it is your own fault, especially the fault of others. Learn from mistakes, keep making progress until you don't make the same mistakes, and never put the blame on others' shoulders, so as not to lose the opportunity to learn. Asura, Yi Shu
My attitude depends on how you treat me.
Twenty, people are most afraid of sudden feelings. Sometimes, love is vigorous, and when you look back, everything is depressed. Sometimes, I hate it, and when I look back, everything melts. Sometimes, I am so sad that I suddenly turn around and everything is gone. Sometimes, the injury is too deep, and when I look back, everything is a vast expanse.
Twenty-one, the so-called growth is to look down on what was originally valued and value what was originally underestimated.
If I hadn't met you, if I hadn't fallen in love with you, if I didn't believe it, maybe I wouldn't be who I am now.
Twenty-three, recently very annoying, people who don't want to see go away, and they are bored when they see you!
Twenty-four, a little lonely, I don't know how to say, let it die in silence, I left, in fact, it never came, but my heart was unusually soft at night.
Twenty-five, you must wash away everything in the past, otherwise you will never see the world clearly and be free.
If a person really wants to see you, he can always find a way, and the whole world can't stop him.
Twenty-seven, nobody wants me except you. I just don't want anyone except you.