1. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. -Ming dynasty proverb
A kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold.
2. The strong have their own hands, don't boast to others. -"Warning of the World"
Although you are a strong man, there must be someone better than you, so don't be conceited and praise yourself in front of others.
3. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -Liu Beiyu's "Three Kingdoms"
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much.
If you bow to others and blame them, it is far from complaining. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "doing their best", forgiving others more and "lightly blaming others". In this case, they won't resent each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, instead of looking at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in some respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him. When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others. ).
8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous.
10. Two people are concentric, and their profits are broken; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi
Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept.