1. How to greet girls

Haha, this is indeed a common problem among young people. I think when it comes to greeting girls, the main thing is an old saying: be bold and careful but shy. thick! This is indeed a wise saying, and it is very effective whether it is used in officialdom or in ordinary social activities. As for the current application target of girls, it must be fully explained: First of all, being bold means being bold, but it does not mean that you have to be brave. It's like playing a gangster, which is specifically called self-confidence. You have to have your best image (look in the mirror every day and practice the expression you think is most satisfactory in front of the mirror), and form a confident temperament. Walking posture (it's okay) You should also walk half a step faster) \The tone of your speech (not high, not low, slightly magnetic), etc., must be cultivated. In this way, no matter where you go, you will give others the feeling of being quite confident. A considerable number of girls are Being interested in confident boys is not just about being interested. Specifically, it is about how confident and responsible you make others feel. The most important thing is that you can convey a sense of security to them. Women are animals that are born with a lack of security, so Boys with this kind of performance are usually their first choice. In a nutshell, boldness does not refer to courage, but to the self-confidence and temperament displayed by oneself. Think about it, why do girls like to watch celebrities and handsome guys, and those celebrities The so-called handsomeness of handsome guys is actually the confident temperament exuded through packaging or careful dressing. Girls generally like it

but it is also selective

Many so-called celebrities are only talented. It is impossible to become famous. Confidence, temperament, and commercial packaging of popularity = star. Only talent is not so important. And only talented stars who are successful in being popular for a few years and those who are not successful will just stay on the side for a long time

Went. This is the importance of senses. Only confidence can cultivate your temperament. Only if you have temperament can you give the girl you like a strong visual impact. At that time, you don’t have to say hello and she will deliberately approach you. But It’s important to remember not to act cool! Furthermore, being careful means being thoughtful, but not the kind of fussing over nothing. The specific expression here should be a tolerant and generous way of doing things, which is what we often say before doing things. In fact, you really want to chase a girl , you don’t have to start by approaching her and saying hello to her. You can start by approaching her playmates. If you can get close to the people around her, then I guarantee that your early development (picking up girls) costs can definitely be reduced a lot. , and it’s easier. Think about it, if you can get her friends to speak for you, what will be the effect? Of course, it’s twice the result with half the effort. If you don’t know her friends or the people around her, and you really want to get to know her and pursue her, then you have to do it first

Pay more attention to her daily activities and her People who play together, etc., you must create every possible opportunity to get to know her or her friends. As long as you can successfully get into her circle, then you have already won half the battle. Here I have to explain that a person You can't rely on yourself alone. When implementing

, you must take into account the resources you can use, especially the network resources. If your personal resources are limited, You can consider the resources of relatives and friends, and you must not let go of any advantages that are beneficial to you. When you want to really chat with a girl, especially when you meet for the first time, I suggest you talk about yourself first. Why? This is a

good opportunity to let her get to know you first and lower her alertness. After all, she is not familiar with you yet. If you don’t tell her some of your situation first, then you will Don't even want to know about her. This is a woman. It also fully shows that you know how to be a human being. This is how being a human being is. You want to get but you have to pay first. As for the content of the chat, you still have to think about it based on your own reality. You simply want to Saying hello to her will have no effect, she may turn around and forget about you. If you want her to be impressed by you, start working with the people around her.

The last one is to be thick-skinned, which means don’t be afraid of losing face. It doesn’t mean that you are shameless***

. When used here, it means not to be afraid of failure or rejection, but to have peace. The meaning of mentality. You have to show that you are a person who can withstand the storm, that you are not afraid of setbacks or failures, and that your mentality is very stable, calm, and unhurried. This is a sign of mature thinking. Usually girls mature earlier than boys, whether it is Psychologically or physically, there is nothing wrong with this. Most girls are highly dependent, so they trust and prefer men who are more mature than themselves, and those who think they are bold and arrogant talk nonsense in an attempt to attract girls' attention. Boys are usually only drawn to naive conclusions. Why do many girls like singers who look more vicissitudes of life and listen to sad love songs? Because usually such singers and love songs give people the impression that they are people with stories. He has experienced a lot, and

it gives people the feeling that this is not just a song, it is a story, a touching story, which is easier to move people than ordinary love songs, especially emotions. Animal - woman. Therefore, I suggest that when you are with a girl, especially a girl you like, you should be calm and calm, and treat her with a peaceful attitude. Don't try your best to be attentive with a tearful expression. Doing so will only make her feel that you are desperately there. The goal of pleasing her is just to go to bed with her quickly. Although this is the ultimate goal, we must deal with it with art first. Women also want to be close to the opposite sex when they need the opposite sex, but they would rather deceive themselves than be direct. Say it rightly. "Harmony" is a culture and an art. If you can treat her with a peaceful attitude, you can live in harmony with her, and she will accept you as a matter of course. I hope that having said so much can be helpful to you,

! ! ! It’s just about picking up girls, don’t be afraid! Ha ha. 2. What to say when greeting a girl on WeChat

What you need to prepare.

Design a beautiful image.

Here, don’t call people vulgar. On WeChat, we basically look at other people’s images at first glance. After you greet a girl, many girls will look at your photo immediately. How can an unattractive photo make her reply to you easily?

Of course, don’t just take a photo and upload it. Try to beautify your photos.

A personalized signature.

A good signature will make the other person remember you instantly and even try to figure out your mood and personality. If you can't help but be curious about you, you will naturally reduce the probability of refusing to reply to your message.

Be prepared to be rejected.

Don’t think that your avatar is set up and your signature is cool. If you say hello or send a message to a strange girl, others will ignore you. Stop dreaming! Without experience or rejection and failure, how can you make a friend you can talk to?

What should you pay attention to when striking up a conversation?

Ask about the choice of method.

Not all girls are suitable for polite greetings. Sometimes, a casual chat is more effective than a blunt question mark. Sometimes, if you want to talk to a certain girl, you might as well change the way you say hello. Maybe it will work.

Have your own personality.

Once the other person strikes up a conversation with you, when continuing to communicate, don’t just try to please the other person, but maintain your own personality. In fact, you can put yourself in their shoes and think about it. This is your first time chatting and you are strangers. Why do you have to cater to each other everywhere? If you do that, the other person will also find it strange. Do you think so?

Keep making friends.

When playing WeChat, don’t be too eager for quick success. Sometimes, being too eager for a result can backfire. Play around when you have nothing to do, or when you want to play, and maybe you will meet someone who also wants to talk, and maybe you won't be rejected. Maintain a friend-making mentality when approaching WeChat chats. I believe you will achieve the results you want to achieve.