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1. Don't live together to avoid conflicts.
@ Mei Julanju: I don't want to live with my children. It's best not to live with my daughter or son. When I am old, I love to worry about my children, but my children have their own ideas. Our views on the generation gap are different from our children's. If my children don't listen, I will be angry with them. If they lose their temper, it's not good for anyone. After a long time, the psychological pressure will be too great. This is even worse.
When people are old, they really love to worry more, while young people prefer a casual life. At this time, if the old people are too wordy, they will make their children feel annoyed. After a while, contradictions will begin to sprout. And living together for a long time, slowly each other's shortcomings have come out, if not tolerant, it will also stimulate contradictions.
Take care of yourself and don't give your children any trouble.
@ Singing and crying others: It is a philosophy of life that we must establish to manage our own life and not to cause trouble to our children. I definitely choose to live in a nursing home and don't want to cause trouble to my children. One's own life, one's own responsibility, and the filial piety of children cannot be used as natural reasons for feedback. Life is too short to be easy, so why bother future generations? So when I was young, I was comfortable with my pension and living in an apartment-style nursing home.
Contemporary young people can better understand that it is not easy to sympathize with their children without causing trouble to others at will. Especially in such a stressful life, they should try to reduce unnecessary troubles, let children worry less about themselves and concentrate on their families.
However, Jun Jun felt that even if he decided not to live with his children, it would be better to live close to them. Living close can better take care of each other, and children can come as soon as they are sick or have an accident; Living close is also a good way to enhance feelings, distance produces beauty, and communication with each other is more convenient.
When you are old, whether you want to live with your children or not depends on your own choice. You can choose which way is more comfortable, but the most important thing is to get along well with your children and have good feelings with them to be more satisfied.