Never trust anyone to give you a promise. Commitment is not a contract, but an excuse to delay you.

-Venus, not me.

There are always women who say how good my boyfriend is to me, and then he promises that we will get married within two years, and then he will also start a business to make money.

Then you ask this woman-what is your boyfriend doing now? She said that she worked in a company. You ask again-what is he doing after work? She will definitely tell you-playing games, taking herself where to play and giving herself many surprises-for example, she is more serious about her birthday than her own.

Will give her enough security, and he won't fool around with other women. I will also refuse some friends' invitations to go out to play. You know, the kind that listens to themselves.

Do you think this woman is looking for someone who will get married in two years and then plan to start a business? It's just stalling. Just like Messi and Barcelona. The club itself is a commercial subject. What it needs is profit. What it needs is that everything is legal.

I won't tell you any promises or anything-anything promised to you is a trap. The player himself is a person who regards time as money. Putting off for two months means putting off many things and training. And the older you get, the greater the impact.

Why is Messi in such a hurry to sign for Greater Paris? I just can't catch up with the season if I don't participate. A player who doesn't play football is wasting his life.

Both the boss's promise and verbal agreement must be updated into the contract between you. Otherwise, the company can go back on its word in the future.

The feelings between men and women are the same, of course, you can't sign a contract. This man has promised to get married within two years. Then you should get married now. What's the difference between getting married in two years and getting married now? -No..

If there is-this man will never marry you. What I told this woman about starting a business was just a lie. Is to give this woman hope.

If a man really wants to start a business, if he has no financial strength and money and is working at the same time, then he will get off work and do what he started to do. No matter from the media or anything else, as long as he goes out, nothing will happen after 2 years.

Career and feelings are the things of the moment. Not two years later, nor five years later. Do as you say, and get married as you say. Those who don't get the certificate now say that those who want to get the certificate in the future are rubbish. I just want to sleep with women for two to five more years.

To put it bluntly, these two or five years are just the youth of women who want to vote for nothing. As for five years later, it doesn't matter who the woman is with or who her previous company is.

That's what poor men do. They promise a lot. Nothing can be done. Even if it is done, it is a small matter. It doesn't take much effort. If you buy a house, a car, raise children and make money, it will be even more embarrassing.

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Don't listen to what kind of person he is from others' mouths. You have to deal with him to know what kind of person he is.

-Venus, not me.

Many women go on blind dates, and the matchmaker will tell this woman some indicators of this man. What income is 20 thousand, what company you work for, how old, how high, how heavy and so on.

There are also some things in this man's character-for example, he is very kind to his family and sends money home every year. I am also very kind to my relatives-I help my family every time I go home. In fact, what you learned from these people might as well talk to each other or do something together.

Many people say that if two people are suitable, they will travel together. Then you will know whether this man is caring, caring, kind to you and so on-you can't see anything practical and useful.

The only thing you see is that you have to spend a lot of money after a trip. What's the use? If this person is a loser. Anyone can spend money to take care of people. You can learn if you can't For a poor man with a wife, nothing can be done.

Pleasing women is his lifestyle. You can't tell whether a person has a future from these.

The most important indicator of a man is not who you are good to, your friends, your colleagues and your family. None of this matters.

If this boyfriend's friends are all bottom people, then this kind of good is brainless. The way to treat the bottom people is not to have anything to do with them.

The most important thing for a man is to see if he is doing a career.

When doing business, it is not very hard, it is very hard. Nothing else matters. Look at the way he works. You'll know after a day with him, but after talking to him. Is it just a profession? Even if he works from home, you can tell whether this person is very responsible.

This is what a man should do.

A woman who can find a man is looking for a man who can solve practical problems for herself. A woman's mood is not important. It doesn't matter who coaxed you. Who provides you with survival value is the most important thing. Why are many women more willing to have children for the super-rich worth tens of billions?

Give birth to children at a young age and be a mistress. Because I know that this man can provide himself with the money and materials he needs for his life. What's wrong with being a mistress? What's wrong with not getting a marriage certificate? Rich people don't care about their children. Giving birth to a child is a bargaining chip. It costs 6.5438+million to give birth to one child and 20 million to give birth to two children. You can have your house back.

This is better than getting married. Why do you need a marriage certificate? Money and children are enough. Marriage certificates are used to protect the rights and interests of the poor. The poor found a rich man to marry and have children, and then divided 50 million when divorced.

Who do you think will lose? Of course, the rich suffer. So-men just want careers. You can tell whether a person is good or not without traveling. It's all fucking lies.

Many women think that they can know what kind of person this man is by knowing what kind of people are around them. This is a fucking liar.

Know for yourself more clearly than others have told you-a man without ambition can't have it.

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Everyone feels insecure, but the way to overcome it is always to do things.

-Venus, not me.

When you have worked in a company for six or seven years, your monthly salary is still more than 10000, instead of rising, it will fall. Then you should reflect on your behavior. What have you done in this company, you will think that you have not started a business or done a sideline for seven years.

Many people will say that they feel that they are developing well in this company and the company atmosphere is good. Colleagues are also very kind to themselves, just like their own families. Then I didn't leave. But colleagues are always colleagues. Your colleagues will get married one day. Your friend is kind to you and will get married one day.

What good was he to you at that time? It's best to maintain the relationship between people not by feelings, but by interests. Then the relationship between you is the best relationship. Of course, you can't lead each other with interests in the workplace-you're not the boss. You are just an employee of a company.

So-a good relationship can't prove why you stayed in a company for so long. You are just used to having some people to study with you for your most important seven years. How many people are there? Seven years. From the age of 22 to 29, you only have seven years.

You have been a screw in the company for seven years. Does anyone really feel your presence? I believe that most people basically have no sense of existence in the company. When one project is finished, do the next project. Then the next project. Your salary is still so low.

You dare not mention the raise. Because you are worthless to the company. If it is a big deal, the company will hire someone to replace you. Remember-all migrant workers' jobs, as long as they are not creative. That's all replaceable.

The more people fail, the more afraid they are of unemployment and the less secure they are. The way they hide their insecurity is to keep working, from nine to five, day and night. Then seven years later, I found myself accomplished nothing.

If a person has no goal in the workplace, it is different from the dead. What is the difference between a security guard and a cleaning aunt and a factory worker?

When a person achieves the sense of security he needs by paralyzing himself, his later life will become more and more sad.

People either die of poverty or break through the sense of security when they are young. Accumulate the means of production by doing things, and you will never feel insecure again. Whether you are making short videos or writing from the media, you can avoid wasting more time.

Of course, you can also choose to do business. But it's best not to do business at any cost. Otherwise, if you put money into it, you will lose a lot.

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There is only one word for success-practice.

-Venus, not me.

Everything you do depends on practice, not on study. After studying all his life, he is a poor scholar. I have studied all my life, and I have a doctorate, and I am over 30. Working in the company, your monthly salary is more than 10000. This is the result of being a poor student.

You've wasted 30 years.

Practice oral English, diving, writing and track and field-in short, if you want to be a top player in an industry. You must keep practicing. Practice is constant output, either your body is moving or your brain is outputting. Don't be like a warrior, you can only get in but not out. Then you'll never see success in your life.

Don't try to take shortcuts. There is no shortcut to success. If there is, then Quan Hongchan won't have to practice for seven years. Quan Hongchan has talent, but not by talent. Mostly by hard work and practice the day after tomorrow.

Talent, if you don't practice, you can't be a world champion. Many people think that there is a shortcut to success. If you know a certain leader and a little rich second generation, you can invest your money in yourself and then open a shop to make money. I think it's enough to make money and have someone invest in me.

But if a person wants to make money in the shopping mall, he must learn to earn his first bucket of gold. People who have never made money or done business have no concept of money. Just now, Rainbow Sicong, I made a panda live broadcast. Although it was said to be the top three, it went bankrupt.

Because Wang Sicong has never done business, all the money is given by his father Wang Jianlin. A person who has never done business or made money, you let him do live broadcast. This is no joke. Just like burning money.

People must learn to earn their first bucket of gold, and you will cherish the money you earn. If you see that many people spend money as if it is not his money, then this person must be a part-time job or a fool who has never made money. Don't be afraid of money. Then this person will lose money in any business.

Doing business depends on practice, not taking several MBA courses. You can lose money in business, but you have to lose money in business.

But to avoid losses, doing well is not to invest too much money. Investment takes more time. Everyone is 24 hours a day. Successful people are also 1 24 hours a day. Time is fixed. If you don't have money, invest time; if you have money, steal money. Since the media, you just need to invest time.

The advantage of being self-media is that you won't lose money, but you can make a lot of money if you do it well. Probably more than you've ever seen in your life.

But this is a process, and you need to keep outputting. Just like all-red diving, keep training. When you practice in situ, you become. It's just that no one here gives you an accurate answer. To put it bluntly, it is gambling-betting on the future 10 or 7 years.

See if you want to.

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There are no people with a wide range of hobbies in this world. If so, they must be very poor.

-Venus, not me.

When a person tells you that he has a wide range of hobbies, all he has to do is take care of the food.

Then there is a little money left to build. Take this spare money to develop his hobby. Do these people really love life? In fact, they don't love at all. They just love themselves.

A person who says that he loves singing every day will tell you that he never records a song of his own, only in the shower, in KTV, when he is humming a few words with headphones on-we regard this hobby as a heart-to-heart talk after cooking.

To put it bluntly, it is to entertain you and not to give money.

For example, this person goes out to eat with a group of friends, and then after dinner, he wants to break the intimate relationship between his former friends, and then he goes to sing. At this time, he went to sing, and then everyone praised her for singing well. His so-called good singing comes from the affirmation of their friends.

But he sings well only because they are friends. You sing to strangers, you sing to netizens, and they will still think you sing well. It is simple for a person to satisfy his friends' tastes, as long as he sings in tune. But you have to satisfy the tastes of netizens, and maybe they can pay for you.

This is the difference. Satisfy your friends, they will only praise you a few words at most, and can't bring you practical benefits. But if you sing it to the people in the bar, maybe they will reward you. This is your money.

-Giving money is definitely affirmative, and not giving money is definitely a flicker.

People like to be affirmed by others when they are in their twenties, but when others' affirmation can't be exchanged for cash, it is that others regard you as a fool. At best, it's just a stupid proportion of talent.

If a hobby can't be realized, it's not a hobby, but a project that costs money. Listening to jokes costs money. It is said that cross talk costs money. You will also spend money on water recreation.

But you have no money, so you are stupid.

You spend time on projects you don't realize. What do you want? Do you want others to praise you for singing well? Or do you want the woman you like to praise you? You can have sex after the compliment?

Neither. You just want to be recognized by others. Does other people's affirmation matter? Is the affirmation of friends important? It doesn't matter. Because they won't pay for your creation or your voice. From a business point of view-you are a loser. Wasted time and money.

So-don't think hobbies are useful. What? A few hands are useless. Hobbies that can't be realized are rubbish. Listen carefully-hobbies that can't be realized are rubbish. No matter how good things are, you won't realize them, and if you spend money, you will be poor all your life.

Can be single-minded. For example, if you say that you like writing and you output it every day, that's fine. But the output should be something valuable to others. Instead of keeping a running account. A running account is useless to others. It's no use remembering how much money you made by investing.

I won't give what I earned to others.

In short, people should have a single hobby and keep developing your hobby until you become a professional writer.

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Some people ask-why do some people ask for more when you are kind to them?

Because I have no money, I have never done business, and I have met too few people.

-Venus, not me.

Most people, that is, most poor people, will only remember the kindness of the rich to her, and will not remember the kindness of the poor to him.

Rich people buy him a cup of coffee for 20 yuan, and he will be very grateful to you. When you are poor, buy a cup of coffee for 30 yuan, and the other party will not appreciate you. They will think you are trying to please him.

Many times, because you are poor, others will think that your goodness is cheap and take it for granted. Because he knows you need this relationship. No matter what your relationship is, whether it's an object, a friend or something else. It doesn't matter if you say it doesn't matter The important thing is that the other person thinks you won't leave him.

What I often say now is that people should know more valuable people through the internet. Maybe you are poor now, so no one around you is a good person.

Then the internet is the only place where you can link to others, and you can stay at home.

Of course, it is not easy to link to others. It also depends on what you have, whether you are willing to pay, and whether you are willing to pay the same value. The premise is that your values are highly consistent, otherwise even if you pay, you will feel that you are paying to be a consumer.

Why do people think they are God when they pay? -Because people nowadays are spoiled by friends of the three major e-commerce companies. If they want you to spend money, they must make you a god. The customers are very happy and the sales performance is good. Make more money.

Everyone can use the Internet equally. Even if you don't need broadband at home, you can surf the internet through your mobile phone. Write what you are useful to others. Only attractive, your value will be higher. Otherwise, people who are much higher than you in your private letters will not pay attention to you.

If you want to get rid of the poor people around you, you have to constantly expand different friends. Let more and more people join your circle of friends. Instead of just relying on 1 and 2 friends. They overcharge you because you are poor, you have no friends, and you have never done business.

Anyone who has done business knows that the more people you meet, the different world you will find. You will find that you can live without relying on anyone. And the people you do business with are long-term partners. And this is the relationship established by money.

So-if a person wants to get rid of the state of being used completely, then this person has to constantly expand his contacts and relationships. Keep in touch with more people. Keep making money. Don't be obsessed with why the other person is so good to you and how good you are to her.

It's no use. Poor people don't buy it. The stronger you are, the richer you are, the more famous you are, the more she respects you. The less money, the less money, so everyone treats you like a fool.