There is a famous saying in the Norwegian forest that "death is not the opposite of life, but lasts forever as a part of life".
When I first read Nuo, I was only 19 years old, and I didn't understand many words in the book well, such as this sentence. After the growth of life experience, I gradually understand some of the meanings.
A * * * in Nuo mentioned four suicides, Muyue, Naoko, Naoko's sister and Chumei. When the cold and gentle writing in the book put these inexplicable but depressing suicides in front of me when I was 19 years old, I really couldn't stand it at that time. I don't understand. I'm depressed. In fact, life and death is a very grand subject, and the basic teachings of Buddhism were determined only after the Buddha realized life and death under the bodhi tree.
In the summer of the same year, I met my girlfriend who also wanted to commit suicide when I was studying in Nuo. The book "Nuo" had a direct impact on me. I can't tolerate people around me having suicidal thoughts, which prompted me to convince many people in the following 10 years. On the other hand, I am very open-minded about death, and I don't know if this is influenced by promise. I know very well that I will definitely take the road of suicide in the future, but only if I feel that I have lived enough, or when an incurable serious illness comes, I will leave quietly and commit suicide in nature.
As I get older, I find that the sign of maturity is to start attending weddings and funerals. When relatives and friends around us die, every funeral makes people reflect on how the living can live better. Based on this idea, I chose to wander and experience more, which has become my outlook on life. People only have one life when they come to the world, so let this time be valuable and live once more. The road of wandering is full of ups and downs, but I don't regret my experience.
2, people can't be bound by anything.
Once, Yoko asked Watanabe why he didn't smoke, and Watanabe replied, "I don't want to be bound by anything." Seeing this, my heart was shocked.
In college, I was addicted to the world of Go and philosophy, and didn't even care about falling in love. In the year of graduation, I went from the ivory tower to the society. Like many people, I didn't adapt at first and wanted to escape my thoughts and enter the world of Go. When I saw this, it was like thunder, like an epiphany of Zen. I automatically chose to be laid off on 9 1 and began to change my destiny.
To achieve great things, people can't be bound by something.
I don't have any bad hobbies The so-called "five poisons", I can bear, can also put down. I will never be too addicted to something. Once a wanderer has a hobby, he has no intention of adding weight to his soaring wings. Go as you say, come as you say, focus on the overall situation, don't stick to details, be far-sighted and not short-sighted. This is my broad understanding of "people can't be bound by something".