With people's income getting higher and higher, their living standards getting better and better, and their thoughts getting more and more advanced, people's enthusiasm for traveling is unprecedented. But if you are trapped in a besieged city of marriage and travel without restraint, others will say that you are not doing anything serious.

especially for women, traveling everywhere before marriage is understandable, but if they still keep this kind of travel habit after marriage, they will be treated differently by people around them.

First of all, the deep-rooted feudal ideas still have an influence on modern people. In the traditional sense, women should be devoted to their families, while they are willing to be an old ox and devote themselves to everything. This is also a good wife and mother who is often praised by people. In the eyes of many people, women should stay at home, work outside to earn money to support their families, and take care of the elderly, children and husbands.

if you travel, who will do the housework at home? Who will take care of the old people at home? Don't you need to spend money to travel? Now that I'm married, I don't want to plan for my children's future, make money for them, and go out and ruin money myself. Isn't it a very unreliable behavior?

Secondly, although there are some remnants of feudalism in what we said above, it is undeniable that a woman's burden will become heavier after marriage, because once she forms a family, she has to shoulder her own responsibilities, both for her family, her parents and her children's future education. If she travels all day, it will inevitably affect her care for her family, especially after having children.

After marriage, you are no longer alone. You have a family need. It is not impossible to travel, but you should also consider it from the perspective of real life.

If economic conditions permit, going out to travel will not bring great burden to the family, then I think there is nothing to blame, but please be careful not to leave alone. It is best to go out to travel with your husband and children. If parents' physical conditions permit, it is best to travel with the whole family, which will not only increase their knowledge, but also promote family harmony. If only they can go out to travel under special circumstances, they should also communicate with their families to avoid this.

If the economic conditions do not allow us to earn money to support our families, increase revenue and reduce expenditure, then we should travel as little as possible. Even if we want to go out for a walk, we should choose some places that are not expensive and can go back and forth in a short time.

After all, every age has its responsibilities and responsibilities. After marriage, this family is your responsibility, and your husband and children are your responsibilities. You should take on your own responsibilities and take on this important task.