Nowadays, many people take Origin and Fate as an example, but I think that even if Origin and Fate brought you some harm in the process of your growth, we can make up for it through our own continuous efforts. As an HR, in the interview, there are often some newly graduated college students who use their family background as a cover, such as what kind of personality defects the family background in our dormitory has brought him, but in fact we often don't hire such people.

1, being from a family can't be an excuse for you to do anything. You should even thank him for bringing you a different life and making you feel a different life.

I believe that everyone who comes from a family will have some minor problems to some extent. We also admit that this may have a certain impact on a person's growth, but this is not an excuse for us to be devastated. It is precisely because of the harm of being born in a family that we should use our later life experience to reduce its influence on us, instead of selling it to gain sympathy. Today's society is so cruel that you have to put aside all the pain brought by your family background in order to gain a foothold in this society.

2. Many people attribute their personality defects to the influence of family background, but they are actually too well protected and have never experienced anything more cruel.

When we leave our parents and enter the workplace, you will find that many people and things in the workplace will bring you more harm than being born in a family. At this time, what we can do is to accept all the difficulties coming at us and break them one by one, so that we can feel happy from the pain. Many times when we do things, we don't bring our family background with us, and always regard ourselves as the strongest person. You will find that many things can be solved. What you call being from a family just makes your childhood a little unhappy.

In my life, I especially hate those who describe themselves as family members, because there are too many people who are harder than you. And they are still making changes and fighting for their own lives, so we should not complain about anything, even if it is affected, just keep it in our hearts and slowly resolve it. The more we are afraid of something, the more we force ourselves to face it.