Since 2004, China has resumed the official public sacrifice of Confucius for the first time. His portrait became clear to us, and he taught us more and more things.

All his life, he "speaks without action", but The Analects of Confucius, which records his words and deeds, is regarded as the first classic of China culture. Zhao Pu, the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, said that "half of the Analects of Confucius ruled the world" and praised his great wisdom hidden in a few words. Zhu also said that he: "The master teaches people bit by bit, comes as soon as he speaks, and goes together to form a great event." The ancient masters were all taught by Confucius, and the contemporary people benefited a lot.

Not to mention that Confucius all over the world can match Jesus, it is said that the Analects of Confucius is now listed as a compulsory course in Japanese high schools, and there are Confucius counters in Japanese bookstores. There are as many as 568 editions of the Analects of Confucius published in Japan. Yu Dan, a famous Chinese scholar, interpreted The Analects as chicken soup for the soul, which was sought after by the public. Wang Caigui, a professor in Taiwan Province Province, traveled all over the country, calling on the whole people to learn from Confucius and read The Analects. "Classics are records of wisdom. If you want to develop wisdom, you must read them." When we look back at Confucius in the era of accelerated running, we find that Confucius answered all our questions about communication with people in the simplest language as early as 2000 years ago.

Please "Mr. Confucius" to give an "open class" today. The topic involves family, love, friendship, work and study. Please ask him to show us how to deal with people in contemporary society. Listen-Confucius said, put yourself in the other's shoes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"; To make friends, we should learn from other people's strengths, such as "seeing Si Qi, not seeing him"; Learning, don't pretend to understand, "knowing is knowing, and not knowing is not knowing"; He also taught us to be filial, to know how to honor our parents first, and to listen to their words: "My father is here, and I want to express his will;" Father didn't, look at his actions. " ...

Confucius taught us about life-"Stand at 30, but don't be confused at 40".

Life goal is divided into stages: self-reliance at the age of 30.

"Nine times out of ten, I am determined to learn. Stand at 30, don't be confused at 40, know your destiny at 50, listen at 60, and walk at 70. "

Standing at 30 is Confucius' self-evaluation of his 30-year-old life in the Analects of Confucius. The original text is "I have five tenths, but I am determined to learn." Stand at 30, don't be confused at 40, know your destiny at 50, listen at 60, and walk at 70 without overstepping the bounds. "Although not everyone can be a saint of Confucius, later generations often regard these self-evaluations of Confucius as the ideal state of life that should be achieved at different stages of life. ...

Confucius taught us to be filial to our parents-"The father is here, and we must abide by his will;" Father didn't. Observe his actions. "

Parents are not familiar with it: I will go to "North drift" without saying anything.

Confucius talked a lot about filial piety, and the most popular one is that "parents are there, and there must be good deeds if you don't travel far." (Liren) And when quoting, we often only quote "Parents are here, don't travel far" and omit "Be sure to travel well". According to the present explanation, "Fang" refers to the direction and place to go. The literal translation of this sentence is: "When parents are alive, they don't go far away to study and be officials. If they want to travel, they must have a place to go. " The free translation is: "When your parents are alive, you should wait on your parents at home and don't leave home for a long time;" If you have to go far away, you should also have a clear' place to go' so that parents can know what they are doing and don't worry. "As an authoritative explanation, Zhu Zhu's note:" Traveling far: It will take a long time to get close to you. You have to save yourself and ask. Not only will you miss your loved ones, but you will also be afraid that I will not forget your thoughts. "You must have a good trip. If you tell the east of the cloud, you dare not be more comfortable in the west. If you want to kiss friends, you have no worries. If you call yourself, you have nothing to lose. " (Zhu Zi's Note) So, does this explanation accurately express Confucius' original intention and conform to the core idea of Confucius' Analects of Confucius?

Confucius taught us to fall in love and get married-"My Fair Lady, My Gentleman"

Best love object: women choose men and men choose women.

If you ask people in the street: What kind of love do you want? The answers are certainly varied.

If Confucius traveled around the world among pedestrians, what would he say to us?

After the death of Confucius, his disciples compiled his words and teachings into The Analects of Confucius, which contained a sentence: "There are 300 poems, in one word: thinking innocently."

Poetry 300, also known as The Book of Songs, is China's first collection of poems. According to Sima Qian, Confucius once edited The Book of Songs. There were more than 3,000 poems written by the ancients. Confucius removed these important things and used them for etiquette ... 350 poems were written by Confucius. "

There are many poems in 300 Poems, all of which are related to the theme of love. Because Confucius compiled these 300 poems from 3000 ancient poems, he vaguely told us that he agreed with the views on love in these poems.

Especially pure love.

Whether it is a remote place or a bustling city, men and women love each other and live in a secular world. In Poem 300 compiled by Confucius, men and women thousands of years ago were such a group of earthly people. Life is trivial, love is trivial, even if the dynasties change, these trivial things still exist.

At that time, all the plants in the wild were enchanting, and each plant had an amiable and warm name, such as Trichosanthes kirilowii, Eupatorium odoratum, Eupatorium odoratum and Eupatorium odoratum. The sky is blue and the ground is quiet.

He fell in love with a girl who picked leeks by the river. He was frank, affectionate and young, and shouted out a love declaration that has been told through the ages: "My fair lady is a good gentleman."

Lovely girl, "Why aren't you happy to see a gentleman"? Is it a deliberate test to make him "love but not see, hesitate" and suffer for love?

Confucius taught us to make friends-"See the sage Si Qi, and reflect on it."

Unfavorable friends: people with bad morals.

The beauty of life lies in the harmonious coexistence between people, and the enrichment of life is always inseparable from making some intimate friends. As the saying goes, "rely on parents at home and friends when going out."

There is no doubt that making friends is important and necessary. However, what kind of friends to make is a matter worthy of serious consideration and careful choice. The sages have a saying: "If you are alive, you must choose your neighbors and make good friends", "One should not make friends carelessly". These warnings are experience and wisdom.

Because "people live well, like a room in a garden, they don't smell its fragrance for a long time;" Poor living conditions, such as abalone, have not been heard for a long time. " Life practice reminds us that we must make good friends when making friends, so we must carefully examine the character of the people who make friends. Never make friends with people with bad behavior and bad moral character.

So, what kind of talents are worth making and can be called good friends? In this regard, Confucius called it "the benefit of three friends", that is, "friends are straightforward, friends are tolerant, and friends are well informed."

According to the dictionary, straightness means integrity and magnanimity; Trust means honesty and trustworthiness; Listening more means seeing more and seeing more.

I think these three kinds of friends mentioned by Confucius can also be called friends who are afraid of friends, sincere friends and wise friends. They are called "three friends in life" here. People living in the world need to make these three kinds of friends.

Confucius taught us how to deal with our work-"haste makes waste, forget righteousness at the sight of profit, and fail in great things."

First job: Don't be afraid to start at the bottom.

Confucius in Dacheng Hall of Confucius Temple in Qufu, sitting in a dangerous position and wearing the crown of twelve emperors, is definitely the Confucius who runs counter to Confucius. But what does Confucius look like? What kind of person was Confucius, especially when he was young? Unfortunately, because of his "holiness" and "God", the image branded in the eyes of the world is just an old, dignified and solemn appearance, which is the image left by Gu Kaizhi in the Jin Dynasty and Wu Daozi in the Tang Dynasty. Although Gu Kaizhi, with his vigorous lines and clear shapes, makes the image of Confucius in his works much more vivid than that in Wu Daozi's, he is still far from the real Confucius.

Taiwan Province painter Jiang once painted a Confucius, who was gentle, courteous, courteous and courteous. This Confucius, of course, exudes a cordial and approachable atmosphere, but lacks heroism. On the eve of Confucius' 2557th birthday ceremony, china confucius foundation promulgated a Confucius, which is said to be a "standard statue", a bronze sculpture of 255.7 cm, with the face, wide mouth, thick eyebrows and long beard of China people, and an image of an elderly person with the characteristics of Shandong people. Although the designer said that he wanted to restore the image of a civilian Confucius, the pursuit of "oriental sage" still made him far from the real Confucius. On the contrary, Mr. Cheng Zongyuan of Wumen Art Museum specially painted six portraits of Confucius for Mr. Kuang Yaming's Comments on Confucius, especially the first portrait of Confucius in cloth at the age of 30, which made people seem to see the real Confucius in those years and have a certain fit with Confucius in their minds.

Confucius taught us to learn-"Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing"

Learning attitude: Don't pretend to understand.

Confucius is famous for his diligent and studious life. He was determined to study from the age of 15 and worked hard all his life. He thought: "I was not born with knowledge, so old, I am eager to seek it." In other words, it is affirmed that there is no "born knowing" genius in the world, and human knowledge comes from "acquired" learning and social practice. Everyone came to this world, and there is not much difference between qualification and endowment. The so-called saints and gentlemen are not born, but rely on extensive study and accumulation the day after tomorrow, and "learning to save the day" can finally have both ability and political integrity. Confucius said, "There must be faithful people in a city with ten rooms. It is better to learn from the mountain." The proudest thing in Confucius' life is his persistent study. The popular word "lifelong learning" is the most suitable for him. He was so angry that he almost forgot to eat or sleep. The pleasure he got from studying made him forget his troubles, so that he didn't even know that he was getting old. Confucius was so anxious about learning: "If you don't learn, you will have it. If you don't think, you will have it." "Those who listen to the Tao will die in the evening!" This studious spirit not only made his disciples admire him, but also had a far-reaching impact on later scholars.

Learning is a long, complicated and arduous process, and it can't be accomplished overnight. Therefore, both Confucius and his disciples suggested that we should be "studious", "knowledgeable, determined" and "faithful". He also pointed out: "If there is (unless) learning, learning can be done, and learning can be done." Ask questions and you will know, and you will take measures. There are Fu Si, Fu De with thinking, and Fu Cuo. In other words, with firm ambition and strong will, learning can "enter" and "leave". Historical Records Confucius Family records such a thing, which vividly shows Confucius' diligent and tireless learning attitude. On one occasion, Confucius studied piano with Shi Xiang for ten days, and Shi Xiang said that he could learn new ones. Confucius said, "I haven't learned the technique of beat yet!" " "A few days later, Shi Xiang said," I have learned the skills. Learn a new one! Confucius said, "I haven't tasted thoughts and feelings yet!" " "A few days later, Shi Xiang urged him again. He said, "I haven't imagined who composed the music!" " A few days later, Confucius said happily, "I have seen the author's style from music." No one but Zhou Wengong can make such music! " This shows Confucius' learning attitude.