1. The essence of patience is that if you want to make a profit, you can make it; if you want to be shameless, then be shameless, whatever. Whatever I can give you, I will give it to you; if I can't give it to you, find someone else to give it to you. As for whether others will give it to you or not, that is your business.

2. To deal with a hypocritical person, do not scold her or expose her, but let her continue to be sadly hypocritical and then pretend to know nothing. Slowly, many people will come to tell you how hypocritical she is.

3. To deal with a selfish person, don’t hate her or ignore her, but gradually stay away from her, stay away from her from the bottom of your heart, and then pretend you don’t know anything. If she goes to find someone else, you will find that many people stay away from her.

4. There is never anyone you can’t live without. Just because you can’t live without now doesn’t mean you can’t live without forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may give up first.

5. Except for parents, no one does not ask for anything in return. A lover's kindness to you is based on love and harmony, and a friend's kindness to you is based on sharing interests and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention other people.

6. Although it is difficult to live alone, you must learn to be alone and not to rely on others easily. This is to prevent you from living well when everyone around you leaves.

7. When you are sick, you must value yourself and cannot wait for someone to value you. By that time, you will find that you are already very uncomfortable both physically and mentally.

8. When studying alone in a different place, you must learn to communicate more with your parents and learn to listen more to your elders. Learn to be patient. There is nothing you can't bear. No matter how wrong others are, you don't have to punish yourself for others' mistakes.

9. You can believe what others say to you, no matter what the original intention is, but you cannot believe everything. However, when others say something, try to listen carefully and respond carefully. This is respect for people.

10. Don’t test your good friends easily, otherwise you will be either very disappointed or you will be labeled as “crazy + thinking too much”.

11. Don’t be sentimental to others easily, even if you are really sentimental. Others may not understand your sentimentality, nor do they have the obligations and responsibilities. In this case, what you want to vent turns into humiliating yourself and deepening the pain.

12. Under no circumstances can you play games with others. Those who play games with others will be played by others. No matter how smart you are, you are not the most powerful one.

13. Don't grab the interests that belong to others, but you can't allow others to grab your own. This is the principle.

14. There is no need to be jealous of other people’s grades, popularity, status, scholarships, etc. There are five reasons: 1. Others may really pay more than you, but you just don’t see it. 2. These things can only bring temporary satisfaction, not permanent satisfaction, so don’t worry. 3. There are rules of the game that you can’t play, and those who can play are very tired. 4. If you are not as good as others, you must be better than others. Just wait for the opportunity. 5. If you don’t fight for these, you will have more friends.

15. If you can help others, do your best. If you can't help, don't force yourself.