1. Maturity means pretending to be calm even if you are angry; Even if you are unhappy, you will try to smile; Even if I care, I won't explain too much.

2. Being humiliated-it is better to turn over than to turn your face, and it is better to be angry than to live up to expectations.

3. Don't let yourself be controlled by three things: the past, others and money.

4. You should be able to withstand loneliness in your studies and wind and rain in your life.

5. Love is gone, so far away.

6. Once a saint, you can't move in your life. Life and death depend on each other.

7. I suspect that my husband was dumped by his mother eighteen years ago.

9. Youth cannot turn back, so it has no end.

1. I really don't know what to do except miss you and the dribs and drabs of the past. I begged you hard to come back to me, but you pushed me away again and again and resisted again and again.

11. When you left, you left our future in my world, leaving me alone to build it with dreams.

12. I wish I had the courage to face blood, and I wish I had the lofty sentiments of singing long songs and crying.

13. All the calls that make you impatient come from the weak side.

14. As we grow older, we don't lose some friends, but we know who our true friends are.

15. It is lucky to have a dream, but it is tempering to persist in a dream, and then realizing a dream is satisfaction and sublimation.

16. The examination teacher handed out papers, and the girl at the back took an extra one and shouted, "Teacher, I have it, I have it." The boy said, "It's mine, it's mine."

17. Where people gather, it is either easy to trample on each other physically or it is inevitable to trample on each other mentally. Life must endure loneliness

Life must endure loneliness

Inspirational reading 1:

Life must endure loneliness

Loneliness is a journey without company, a night sky without stars and a time without songs. It makes the empty people lonely, makes the shallow people impetuous and makes the wise people deep.

People with rich thoughts can travel with their souls and take inspiration into their arms by virtue of the lonely emptiness and historical dialogue.

People, whether noble, nasty, excellent, obscene, wise and dull, being in a lonely situation does not mean being trapped in a lonely embarrassment. The environment is like a cloud, with warm gathering and scattered few falls; Peace of mind, such as water, is quiet and gentle, and moving and surging. People are nothing more than living in these two worlds, demonstrating different fates with constantly changing protagonists.

Many people are afraid of loneliness. No matter who they are, whether they are lonely or not depends on their state of mind.

when you are alone, you are bored and have nothing to send, so you will be lonely. This shows the poverty of his life.

when a person is alone, he is longing for things and friends, and his feelings are bright, so he will not be lonely, just because he has a warm and self-designed environment.

when you are alone, you will never feel lonely because you are immersed in the joy of creation.

elegant people, sitting alone in a quiet corner, or enjoying literature or listening to music, are another kind of leisure enjoyment; (inspirational article lz13) Those who wait for it, with a roll in their hands, read some deductive stories to amuse themselves and not be annoyed by loneliness.

in life, we have to walk by ourselves. In the voyage of fate, there is no doubt that everyone is a loner. Some people may be smooth sailing, but more will be bumpy. Smooth sailing, such as boating in the blue sea, is difficult to enjoy the thrill of hunting; Once the boat of life is stranded, the loneliness and embarrassment will drive straight ahead and evolve into countless gnawing feelings. Those who are full of ups and downs, such as climbing a mountain and walking on a stack, have a breath left, and their courage has not been exhausted. They have a rare life experience along the way. This is tempering and wealth. He has chewed life and crushed loneliness.

Maybe people get married and make friends in order not to be lonely. However, it's worth it to get married easily, complete a major task in life, but bear the misfortune of strange bedfellows? Generally speaking, although we have gathered new friends and old friends, we can't feel the affection close to our hearts. Will it be more lonely?

perhaps, people pursue the realization of self-worth I for the sake of not being lonely in their career. Those who sincerely practice Buddhism, who are painstaking and inspirational, indulge in lonely corners and have no hesitation, will succeed; People who cover up their false feelings are arty, superficial and dry, and eventually they are humble and generous.

Loneliness is the radiance of life and the night dew dripping into emotion. Therefore, people who really experience loneliness will appreciate the warmth of life more.

inspirational reading 2:

Life needs loneliness. It is actually a realm of life to keep a quiet and accept a loneliness. If you can stand loneliness, you will have a wonderful life. A life without loneliness can only be a superficial life, a mediocre life and a lonely life with real benefits.

Of course, loneliness can't last long, otherwise it will become sentimental. Occasionally loneliness will be a sobering agent, which will make you better cope with the hustle and bustle of the world.

Life should be tolerant of loneliness

Learn and understand that loneliness is the companion

One day, I suddenly woke up in the middle of the night, unconsciously leaned against the corner, hugged the quilt tightly, and looked at the night sky outside the window in panic. It was dark outside the window, which made me feel that it was going to swallow me up. I suddenly felt thirsty and flustered. I picked up the cigarette on the table in fear and turned on the light in a panic, feeling better slowly. After I was calm, I suddenly felt that my dependence on cigarettes had become so strong. I suddenly knew that I was afraid of loneliness, and I suddenly remembered my family in the distance. < P > I went out of the room, took out a bottle of beer in the refrigerator, lit a cigarette, sat on the balcony and looked out at the night. The white smoke ring in my mouth was floating. What is around me is an illusory emotion and a faint sadness that I don't know where I came from. I sighed gently and laughed coldly at my self-affection. My spirit is so lonely, as if I were alone in a dark ice cave around me, I dare not shout loudly, not just because no one can hear me, but because of the unbearable loneliness brought by my inner emptiness, which prevents me from releasing my repressed feelings, and how many times this loneliness has made me painful and sad.

until one day, I stood by the river alone, looking at the green river and the reflection on the shore in the water. Are they lonely, too? Like me? A fish shuttles through the water like an arrow, crossing waves of water marks, the water swings around, the reflection in the water is shaking, the river is dancing and happy. And their pleasure comes from the lonely fish. It turns out that loneliness can also be enjoyed, and there is joy in loneliness.

From then on, I learned and understood how to enjoy loneliness. I finally realized that those who enjoy loneliness always look at the world with cold and peaceful eyes. In this view, all the joys and sorrows, ups and downs, honors and disgraces in the world are just passers-by and different value symbols that meet in the long journey of life, and their original benefits are all the same as fate; Collect. Even suffering is another form of God's gift and love. When a person regards pain and suffering as happiness and enjoyment, there is actually no pain and suffering in his spiritual world; Similarly, when a person regards loneliness as the beauty of life appointment and deals with it with the attitude of enjoyment, there will be no real benefit of loneliness.

In real life, there is often such an experience. After a burst of noise, when you finally hate the noise of the world, one day, you can find a quiet sky, sit alone and meditate, savor some details of your life, and feel relaxed, transcendent and comfortable.

Loneliness is something that everyone doesn't want to be with, but as long as you live in this world, you can't escape the entanglement of loneliness. The existence of loneliness is really helpless. The hustle and bustle of the world makes people expect themselves to stay away from loneliness, but it is difficult to disappear from time to time. When difficulties and heavy negative pressure bend your back, when expectations and dreams play a joke on you and make a face to escape, when distant goals become illusory in the bitter developer of life, when the seeds in your heart can't move the hardened land of reality, loneliness will come. It has a heart-to-heart talk with you and whispers; It soothes you, so tender. It can be said that loneliness is a companion who walks with you all the time in the journey of life but can't get rid of it, and it is a state of being driven away from life. It is like a vine winding a tree and a tree winding a vine, and it is accompanied by life.

However, a life without loneliness is a life with defects, and a life that can overcome loneliness may be a complete life. People sometimes need to learn and understand how to get along with silence. Xin Qiji laughed at himself in a word: Laugh at my house, cover the grass with the door, and grow moss on the path. This is enough to see how lonely his environment was at that time. It is in such an environment that he studies, writes and devotes himself to creation. Although life seems dull, he is full of interest: I am happy where it is tasteless, and I live this life between materials and materials. It can be seen that most people who achieve great things are good at dealing with loneliness and making brothers and sisters with loneliness. This is an art and a realm of life.

be single-minded when you get along with loneliness. When Confucius talked about seeing whether a person can achieve something, he summed up three ways: seeing him as a result, seeing his reasons and seeing his safety. It means watching what he has done, observing its origin and understanding his inner sustenance. The so-called security, according to modern people's understanding, means peace of mind and peace of mind. Quiet is a kind of accumulation, which is completely different from frivolous anxiety. If you are indifferent, you can't be quiet, and if you are not quiet, you can't be far away. Only when you are calm, you can be single-minded, and only when you are single-minded, can you be self-contained, take your time, and have no distractions, so that you can truly feel indifferent to the world, but you can do your own thing without being moved by human feelings. In fact, there is no big difference in people's IQ, and the difference often lies in the degree of concentration on things. If you put in different energy, the result will be very different.

To endure loneliness, we must consciously resist temptations from all sides. In the Book of Rites, it is said that people are born quiet, and the nature of nature is also, and they feel things and move, and their sexual desires are also. It can be seen that it is human nature to feel things and move. People who have been lonely for a long time are more likely to feel things and move. Loneliness often takes advantage of people's fantasies. It doesn't know its depth. The more confused and troubled you are, the more intimate and relevant it is, which tests how to grasp yourself and not give it an opportunity. Therefore, it is necessary to continue the purity of the bottom of my heart, keep quiet as one, and be calm; Be sure to keep an alert to temptation, be quiet in the noisy place, be idle in the idle place, be quiet in the quiet place, and be restless in the impetuous place. These are very important for self to form a personality and habit of keeping quiet.

Enduring loneliness is a long-term psychological cultivation and character tempering, a long-lasting struggle between self and self, and a process of self-defeating self. The ancients said that 5 years old is the year when people know their destiny, which generally means that this is the golden stage of people's maturity, and they have an understanding and understanding of their accidental life. When the ancients summed up life experience, they always associated it with life, summed up a series of terms such as destiny, standing destiny and righteous destiny, and elaborated their connotations.

Although people live in incalculable contingencies and changes, they will never lose their initiative to dominate themselves, which is called knowing their destiny. If you die young, you should cultivate yourself, so you will make a living. know life will not stand under the rock wall; It's a righteous life to do one's best and die (Mencius devoted himself to it). On the one hand, this kind of determination, know life, and right life has clarified the limitations of human beings, on the other hand, it has also clarified some possibilities of life. Its advantages are to encourage people to correctly understand and treat their own lives and grasp the decision-making power and dominance of their own destiny, rather than obeying, appointing, or fateing.

It can be seen that treating loneliness negatively and being confined to loneliness is not a life with upward intentions; Being good at getting along with loneliness and overcoming loneliness is the enterprising life.

Life sentiment:

Enjoying loneliness is like enjoying romantic chic and enthusiasm, moving towards wonderful splendor and eternity, leaving everything to lie in the mottled corner of memory, and the soul begins to wander freely, and finally reaches the realm of harmony between man and nature, conquered by self and moved by self.

Inspirational reading 3:

Life should bear loneliness

It is because of loneliness that success is achieved.

I am happy because I can stand loneliness.

To understand loneliness,

you must be the strongest, gentlest and most attractive person!

Inscription

There is endless loneliness behind all the glorious scenes, just like the fireworks that cut through the night, but it is so bright and moving, but after a short period of time, it still leaves endless night. In fact, all the splendor in life is to be repaid by loneliness. :

Life is a lonely song. When we come from loneliness, we will eventually go to loneliness. When you embark on a journey alone and struggle for the future, loneliness is the beacon for you.

When you sit in the warm winter sun and enjoy a good book, loneliness is your best friend who talks about everything. When you focus on a career or research, loneliness is your most leisurely mentor

However, in life, we often feel empty in loneliness, become more and more impetuous in loneliness, and lose ourselves in loneliness

At this time, we might as well stop your hasty steps and let our hearts understand a baptism in loneliness!

think clearly in silence and see the true theme of the heart; In leisure, the weather is calm, and the real opportunity to know the heart. People who experience loneliness don't have to be lonely inside. For this reason, loneliness gave him a moment to think, gave him a shoulder to bear loneliness, and taught him a firm will.

Enjoy loneliness, drive away noise and dispel depression. Let your heart be like a calm lake, calm and calm!

Enjoy loneliness, go to the vast sky and feel the breath of nature. Clouds are clear and clear, and the mountains stand upright!

Enjoy loneliness, which makes life so beautiful! People have to endure loneliness to keep prosperity

1. The most difficult stage in life is not that no one knows you, but that you don't know yourself.

second, if we trust a person without doubt, there are only two results, either we get a lifelong confidant or we get a lifelong lesson.

Third, when you are in a bad mood, you feel that the whole world is finished. Fuck your feelings and your life. When I am in a good mood, I feel that life is really wonderful, and I really want to live for another 5 years. I have set the rules and bottom line for myself for so many years, and it's not all about my fucking mood for a long time.

4. If you don't work hard today and tomorrow, then your life is just a repetition.

5. We may not be able to reach the destination port in an appointed time, but we can always walk on a real route.

6. The deeper the trough, the more you can see the essence of a person. The worst result is nothing more than failure. Some people wait for failure, some people scold failure, and some people still fail despite their efforts.