1. Reorganize a family. Because you love each other, you will overcome all difficulties. You would rather be troubled by stepchildren than get married. The parent taking care of the child must act as a bond and communicate more with both parties. Avoid misunderstandings. As the saying goes, caring leads to chaos. You must tell your children that regardless of whether they are indifferent or not in love, only when your parents care about you will you become anxious and lose your temper.

2. Disputes are inevitable in the family. When encountering problems, parents must first ask themselves a question. Is what we want to do for the sake of the children? If you just want to vent your anger, don’t take any action. action. Children are innocent, especially children under the age of ten. He can feel our kindness to our children through his eyes and actions.

3. Even biological parents should manage their emotions well and try not to beat or scold their children. What’s more, we are step-parents? Step-parents are not easy to do. If you want to be good to your children, you will be misunderstood if you say a few words. If you think you abuse your children, you will be scolded as vicious if you hit or scold them. Try to communicate with the child as much as possible. If you really can't communicate, let the biological parents manage it to avoid misunderstandings.

4. Before entering a remarried family, the couple and their children have established a strong alliance and a close relationship. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young and fragile, and may be squeezed out and disadvantaged in their relationships with stepparents and other relationships. They may inadvertently become more protective of their children, thus forming a sub-alliance problem.

5. In addition, the traditional concept requires stepparents to "treat their stepchildren as their own children." This is also a misunderstanding. Stepparents can never whimsically "become" the child's biological parents and replace the status or role of the biological parents.

6. There is great heterogeneity in remarried families. If we don’t understand them, they are hidden dangers. But as long as we learn and understand, we can effectively deal with these challenges and dangers; at the same time, because of these Heterogeneity, we can also make good use of and transform these reefs, integrate larger resources, and create more exciting scenery.