First of all, I am quite disgusted with Jews. What is worth learning from a nation that has lost its power and humiliated its country? It is not that Jews are not good people, but that there are many good people among them. What I don't like is their business philosophy, which is selfish and cunning at heart. You remember The Merchant of Venice, which is not an isolated phenomenon.
As the ancients said, a gentleman has the friendship of wealth. Friends are in trouble and you have the ability to help, so please don't insult the word "friend". It's just a bad friend and a fair-weather friend. So are relatives. If you keep looking on coldly, you will have no affinity.
But we can't lend money to everyone.
First, look at personality.
A gentleman has the friendship of making money. If the other party is not a gentleman, has a bad character, refuses to pay back the money, or borrows money and does not do good deeds, then the money cannot be borrowed. Some people may say, how do I know if he borrows money or not? So I said that people with good character will definitely pay it back. As for how to look at personality, I will write an article specifically next time.
People with bad character, even if you have known each other for a long time, must not be soft-hearted, otherwise nine times out of ten you will regret it. These people may include your closest relatives and brothers, which is really embarrassing. Just say, I really have no money, let alone borrow it. I have thousands or tens of thousands on hand, you can use them directly.
Second, look at the amount and friendship.
As long as you lend money, you risk not getting it back, so you must be careful when borrowing money. Some people are just casual acquaintances, or even just have known each other for a long time or just had dinner, so it is best not to borrow them. Of course, if you think he is reliable, there is no need not to borrow it.
As for how much money you can borrow from any friendship, I believe everyone has a steelyard in mind. The standard is that since I lent it to you, I will admit it even if you have no money to pay it back.
Third, do what you can.
Many people don't know what kind of psychology they are, whether they are too enthusiastic, love face, or can't stand the entreaties of others. They always like to do things beyond their ability, and they like to borrow money and then lend it to others. This is very unacceptable. Unless you think that person is important to you, you would rather suffer than help him.
In my most difficult time, my brother happened to have no money. He found someone to lend me 65438+ million to help me tide over the difficulties. This is a friend in need. When I was a student, my family was poor and my classmates often lent me living expenses. This is our unique affection and friendship in China, and it is also the reason for our enduring. Seeing that the Jewish father was unfilial and his brother cheated, although he temporarily ensured the safety of his wealth, when the big environmental danger came, he could only lead his neck to be slaughtered.
My old Liu said that you should test a friendship, ask him for money when you are down and out, and the person who will lend you money when you are down and out must be your friend. There are many people who add icing on the cake, but few people who send charcoal in the snow. If you want to test a person's character, lend him some money!
Of course, you already know that other people's products are not good, and you still lend him money, just as you know that cobra is poisonous, you have to let it take a bite to see if it is poisonous. Is it stupid?