1. You have to know that sometimes you will not get the answer you are looking for right away, but please move forward with faith. I had to learn to believe in the impossibility of life, and if I could have that faith, so can you. A relationship without an ending will always end; a person who cannot have it will always forget it. There is no eternal pain in life. No matter how deep the pain is, the wound will always heal.
2. Life without ups and downs is impossible, only ups and downs is not trustworthy, and big ups and downs are also undesirable. Life, walking slowly, passing slowly, inadvertently connects the fleeting years. There are always some chases that will turn into clouds, there are always some stories that will be written into poems, there are always some words that will leave a palpitating feeling, and there are always some memories that will be beautiful in the heart. Twisting the years into a thread with your heart, only by cherishing it can the love in this world become love forever and never change.
3. If you encounter problems, such as being unable to sleep, it may be due to heat or mosquitoes, or it may be due to loud noise or stuffy air. It must not be because you have poor sleep ability. People who don't have a lot of successful experience are always prone to doubting their abilities when they encounter bigger problems. Don't be like this. Whenever something bad happens, you feel that you have failed. This can easily lead to the development of learned personality failure syndrome. Remember, you are actually pretty good.
4. Life is like a thousand-mile Grand Canal. There is nothing in the world that cannot be criticized. Worry is torturing yourself with your own mistakes; regret is torturing yourself with helpless past events; worry is torturing yourself with imaginary things. Risks frighten oneself; loneliness means imprisoning oneself in a self-made prison; low self-esteem means using the strengths of others to undermine oneself. Get rid of these and you will be much more relaxed!
5. Don’t bury yourself in memories. Memories can never go back. Reality will force you back to reality. Don’t throw yourself into tears. Tears can’t cover up your injuries. Grief will teach you to change. The heart is like a rock; every day that passes is a memory; every tear that is shed is an accumulation; when you are alone, don’t live in memories or tears. Remember, after the tears, there will be Face yourself yesterday with a brave smile.
6. Only when you have a good attitude will you be in a good mood. In life, one is destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to achieve the ultimate value and brilliance in your life, you should not care too much about grievances and let them tighten your heart and disrupt your life. A wise man knows how to be patient, forgive those around him, and grow stronger in tolerance!
7. When the road is blocked, learn to turn around; when your heart is unhappy, learn to look away; when things are difficult to do, learn to let go; when the fate you want to get rid of is getting further away, choose to be free. Some feelings, if they fade away, they will be relieved. I was a little tired, so I stopped for a while and took a rest. It was a bit bitter, but it was relieved by smiling. If you have a heart that is hurt, it will become strong. When you walk to the water, the road will be blocked, and you will sit and watch the clouds rise and rise. There is a road beside the road, and there is a heart in your heart. It depends on your vision and broad mind.
8. If you continue to hold on to the unsatisfactory things, you will be further away from happiness. Although dissatisfaction accounts for the majority of life, it is not difficult as long as you are prepared to be happy. Life is like a fleeting moment, and we think we love it so much that we can't give up. However, at a tiny moment, you will suddenly wake up. Missing you will also expire. Attachment will also expire.
9. Time is a thief. It always steals a lot inadvertently. Sometimes I am confused and face the complicated world. Tolerance is the space of human temperament. The wider this space, the more your temperament will change, and the less likely you will get angry and emotional, and the less likely you will get entangled in meaningless trivial matters. Therefore, a tolerant person can be harmonious and treat everyone with a smile.
10. If you can be content with everything, you will always be happy; if you have nothing to ask for, have high moral standards, keep a normal heart, and take everything lightly, your life will be more free and unrestrained. Because when you are alive, you must be calm; because of the sunshine, you must smile; because of life, you must have no regrets. Be a simple person. When you feel tired, just stop. Health is important. When you feel depressed, just be quiet and let nature take its course. When you are tired and tired, just relax and relax. When you are in a hurry, Just take a moment and look at the scenery.
11. The joy and sorrow of life depend on your own heart. Appreciate the things around you with a beautiful heart; treat everyone with a sincere heart; do your duty with a responsible heart; review your own mistakes with a humble heart; insist on being right with an unchanging heart With a broad heart, tolerate those who have wronged you; with a grateful heart, thank you for what you have; with a normal heart, accept the facts that have happened; with a letting go, face the most difficult parting.
12. No matter when, you have to believe that everything is the best arrangement. Persistence, hard work, brave pursuit, changing scenery, the impermanence of the world, the power of letting nature take its course, mysterious and unpredictable, Shining light brings surprise into your world suddenly. Now I understand that if you don’t pay attention in life, you will have so many losses and regrets, and you won’t be able to erase them with an eraser like a primary school student.
13. Life is always a joke to us. Whatever you expect, the farther away you will be; whoever you are attached to will be hurt the most. Don’t expect too much when doing things, and don’t be too persistent when persisting; learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, and let go of fruitless attachments; take everything lightly, look away, and see through. Everything is being lost, and the last second has passed; leave nothing behind. If you don't live in peace, don't go back to the past, only the joy and happiness of the present.
14. It is useless to be sad. How to live a good life is the most important thing. Although love is beautiful, it is not everything in life. Love that lasts forever is rare; marriages that last forever and grow old together can be seen everywhere. Those who leave are destined to be missed in this life; and those that belong to you must be waiting for your appearance somewhere.
15. People will change. You can keep an unchanging promise, but you cannot keep a fickle heart. When you feel tired or sad, just squat down and give yourself a hug. Don't expect others to sympathize with you or pity you. When you cry, the tears are your own; when you feel pain, no one can feel it. You must be strong, even if you are hurt and shed tears, you can grit your teeth and move on. Because life is your life alone.
16. Many things can only be understood after experiencing them. For example, in relationships, only after experiencing pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after being stupid can you know how to persist and give up at the right time. In gaining and losing, we slowly get to know ourselves. In fact, life does not require such meaningless persistence. If you don’t have something, you really can’t let it go. Learn to give up and life will be easier.
17. The bigger your heart, the less painful you will be. Half of the pain in life comes from the outside world and half comes from oneself. More people are not beaten down by the misfortune of the outside world, but by their own hearts. There are not many catastrophes in life, but there are plenty of people and things to care about. Happy people are not invisible, they just don't take it into their hearts; it's not that they can't meet them, but they know how to let them go. The better your mentality, the more good luck you will have.
18. Life should be both light and interesting. Remember, flowers always fall when they bloom, and it is best to watch them bloom. You must learn to listen to yourself and appreciate yourself. Remember, good health is the greatest wealth, so throw away the worries in your heart and give your life a sense of tranquility. Remember, tomorrow will be better, live a happy life, and don’t give up easily. Only by looking down on the vicissitudes of the world can you feel at peace in your heart.
19. Everyone in this world will encounter psychological lows and experience low ebbs in life. Everyone will be depressed and depressed at one time or another. No matter what metaphor you use to describe life, as a rule, everything develops in a spiral curve. If life is compared to a garden, it cannot be beautiful every day. There are flowers in spring and depression and desolation in autumn. There are bright sunshine in summer and hot soil, and there are snowflakes in winter. Compare life to the bright moon, but the moon also waxes and wanes.
20. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity. It makes people think, make people strong, and make people know how to cherish. If a person has never tasted bitterness, it is difficult to develop compassion; if a person has never tasted bitterness, it is difficult to know the taste of sweetness. Facing suffering bravely and overcoming it optimistically is also a kind of practice. There is no eternal night and winter, the suffering will eventually pass, and the sunshine will always be after the wind and rain.