The thing of virtuousness is nothing more than a yellow clay statue of Bodhisattva and a memorial tablet of Confucius. If you really do it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. A man will be your support for half your life. Even if you don't like him, you have to hold him and don't let the woman next to you get a chance. Don't put on any arrogant airs. Even if a man doesn't have that much thought, you still have to be able to watch it! "These words make people burst into tears. How lucky and blessed are they to have someone who loves and cares about them so much? Although good men cannot be seen, but smart women will treat their men The "training" was very good. I originally followed "Knowledge" because I liked Zhao Liying, but I fell in love with Sheng Minglan because of this drama. In order to gain a deeper understanding of the characters, I watched the original work again.

The characters in the original work are more profound. Sheng Minglan lost her mother when she was young, but she gave birth to a girl who has a beautiful heart, knows how to hide her clumsiness, and lives a transparent life. Who doesn't love her like this? A happy ending seems inevitable for girls. However, such Minglan has a very good master - the old lady of the Sheng family. Without this master, there would be no Sheng Minglan. In other words, if the master is willing to teach, the apprentice must also be willing to learn, so Inheriting the experience of the master and applying it to practice, Minglan has become a success. It is said that a good old man is a good feng shui for a family. Looking at the life of Mrs. Sheng, I am even more convinced of this saying. Will she be able to train such an outstanding Minglan?

This is directly related to her own marriage and love experience, or the series of views on life and marriage given by the elderly in the family are actually because of her own experiences. Which pitfalls, what things have you experienced, what kind of people have you faced, the experiences you have gained one by one, use your experience to pass on to future generations, and use your own perceptions of life to pass on the correct three views. Good Feng Shui in the family is the upper level. . Mrs. Sheng is excellent in terms of her background, connections, and character. Whether in the original novel or in the TV series, we have seen that Mrs. Sheng has some old friends in the palace, such as Queen Jing'an, who is herself. She is a good friend, which shows how famous she is. However, Mrs. Sheng did not marry a well-matched nobleman as her parents wanted. Instead, she married her "true love" Sheng family. Although the old Mrs. Sheng family was. Tanhua Lang.

But she is definitely not a match for Mrs. Sheng’s mother’s family. Mrs. Sheng, who was once married to a lover, married into the Sheng family with the “Shili Hongzhu” from her mother’s family. , both husband and wife are well-educated, not to mention how loving they are, but they must also be harmonious and have a family. The old Mrs. Sheng was a woman who didn’t know how to manage a marriage at all. She was just a girl who used everyone’s temper to defend her love. We all know that women who are too strong in marriage generally have a bad fate. But the young Mrs. Sheng was such a woman at that time. She had no scheming and only knew how to be straightforward, although she had a good heart. But because of her notorious temper, her reputation was ruined and her marriage was in a mess.

It was not until the man who betrayed her in his relationship and took a concubine died of a serious illness at a young age that she recovered. I realized that there are many ways to live, but I chose the stupidest one. Once, Mrs. Sheng had a child who was murdered by her concubine. After Mrs. Sheng died, she adopted her concubine Sheng Hong. He raised her as his biological son, but this son did not regard his aunt as his mother, but relied on his aunt's relationship to help him achieve his ambitions. At the beginning, after Mrs. Sheng passed away, Mrs. Sheng could obviously remarry based on her own conditions, but she realized that she did not manage the marriage properly, which led to her husband's early death. Too much guilt and regret made her regretfully keep the honor of the Sheng family. In her heart, she blamed herself for her husband and her once miserable marriage. So she was willing to guard everything in the Sheng family for her dead husband.

Speaking of Mrs. Sheng, it seems that she has never lived for herself. After being a moth to the flame for love in the first half of her life, her short-term married life was a mess, and then she began to work endlessly for the Sheng family. sacrificed most of his life.

I have seen many women give up all opportunities for self-growth for a man. In the end, one of the men and women in the marriage continued to climb, and the other stagnated. In the end, when the marriage collapsed, they did not even have the concept of how to live. None, how sad would it be? Not every old man is the old lady of the Sheng family, and not everyone is Sheng Minglan. Marriage and love are not a woman's ultimate goal, but they are definitely the only way in a woman's life. She cannot escape or hide. And marriage and love are not always harmonious and loving to the end. Compared with men, women are always much more fragile in marriage and love. In order to prevent themselves from being eliminated by themselves for the rest of their lives, they need continuous self-growth.