1, seeing people do good, many parties agree. See a person, remind in many ways.

The language is clear. Wang Yongbin Night Talk Cirque 1. When you see other people's good behavior, you should praise them greatly. When you see other people's wrong behavior, you should try your best to remind them. When interacting with friends and getting along with colleagues, we must be sincere and sincere. When others do good deeds, they should take the initiative to praise each other, and when others make mistakes, they should take the initiative to remind each other, so as to get real friends.

2, according to the rules, but I don't know the contingency, it is also a gourd.

From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". If you do something, you know how to stick to the rules, and you have no idea how to improvise. It's like painting a gourd, and it won't have any practical effect.

3. "Being calm, wise and brave" is the ability to do great things.

From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". Peace of mind and calm spirit, profound wisdom and calm courage, these are the elements to achieve great things.

4. Every time you treat children, strict people tend to become virtuous; There are many failures, so is the education of fathers and brothers.

Always look at the problem of treating children and grandchildren. Strict people, their children and grandchildren will often develop a good character; And those who are patient, most of their children and grandchildren will lose their homes-this is entirely due to the education of their fathers and brothers.

If you plan to be smart, you will claim to have a plan, but if you lose the voice of your grandfather's family, you must be this person.

Smart planning, thinking that you have succeeded, has ruined the good reputation left by your ancestors, which is not desirable.

6, the gentleman does things, right or wrong, no matter good or bad; A gentleman's words are noble and fair, especially noble and meticulous.

When dealing with things, a person should only pay attention to the right or wrong of things, and should not pay attention to whether things are good or bad for him. The most important thing for scholars and gentlemen to write books is to be fair, especially to be precise and meticulous.

7. But because I refuse to help others, I can't help others. It is necessary for people not to deceive me, but also for people not to dare to deceive me.

From "Night Talk Around the Furnace". I'm just worried that I won't help others, not that I'm not competent enough. We should let others not humiliate themselves, not because others are afraid of themselves.