Subject: White lies do not hinder honesty [essence]
Speaking of lies, I dare say that all of us have never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has it.
I have lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A harmless lie
Words, its starting point is good, in order to lie at the same time to achieve good deception, but it is not.
It's not a lie.
First of all, a white lie will not hinder honesty. Let's start with our country:
In the late 1950s and early 1960s, there was a dispute between China and the former Soviet Union.
The government tore up the contract, withdrew experts, and made our national industry
Once paralyzed, in order to pay off the debts owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao was at that time.
Calling on the people of China to practice steel, they launched an unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, the people of China
No one will know that our country still owes debts to others, thinking that our country
If the family is liberated, they will live a carefree life, but the leading comrades of the party and the state
Carrying this heavy burden, the lies that the national leaders told the people at that time were well-intentioned and also
There are no obstacles to honesty. At that time, China people had no pressure to work.
This enthusiasm has created an unprecedented miracle. That era created iron and gold.
Hi, Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team and played our first game in China.
oil well .....
Second, speaking of us personally, I will give two small examples here:
I read on TV that an old mother had kidney disease, and if she didn't get a new kidney.
Life will be threatened, then the eldest son stood up and asked to donate his kidney to his mother, which
It hurts the old mother's heart, and the old mother strongly opposes it, saying that if so, it is better to die.
Forget it. I can't help waiting for a kidney source that meets all the conditions, but I have to wait until
This kidney source is really not easy. My son is afraid of delaying his mother's illness, so he stays at home.
After consultation, I cheated my mother and donated one of my young kidneys to my mother.
After the success of the operation, the family still kept the old mother in the dark, and the mother and son were the most moved.
The son lives in the next ward, and the mother doesn't know. When the mother wants to see her eldest son, there is only one family at home.
I lied to her that her son had gone on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears, friends.
Does such a lie hinder honesty?
A little girl with leukemia, in the later stage of her life, was asked by a doctor about her eldest daughter.
What is her wish? She said that she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to watch the flag-raising ceremony. She was dying.
Doctors and parents have no reason to be dissatisfied with the girl's wishes? But because ...
Her family lives in Xinjiang, far away. If it meets her requirements, the doctor is afraid that the girl can't stand it.
Tired from the journey, this is the home of more than 2,000 volunteers, doctors and girls.
The activities organized by people to collectively fabricate lies began, from getting on the train to taking the tourist bus.
Along the way, from the newspaper station to the waiter who served tea, and even to the conversation of passengers, it was great.
The family deliberately arranged and finally came to a school, where the national anthem was accompanied by a military band.
The blind girl thought she really came to the long-awaited Tiananmen Square. When she saw it,
When she raised her little hand feebly and saluted the direction of the national flag, all the people present moved.
Tears came down. In this collective gun-laying operation organized by more than 2,000 people, can you say they are kind?
Does a meaningful lie hinder honesty?
In addition, many elderly people are not feeling well and refuse to let their children know at the first time, so that
Afraid of affecting children's normal work and study! Many children fell down and said they were hurt.
No pain, in order to let parents say they are brave! There are many successful people who pay silently behind their backs.
Some women never complain when they are tired, so that their husbands can work with peace of mind.
Do better and care less about your family ... there are such examples in our country.
There are countless countries with a long history of civilization, so I won't list them here.
Actions speak louder than words. To sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are all good.
, is not sincere ...
A white lie will not hinder honesty.
A lie is called a lie because it is false and untrue.
, deceptive words. If a person often tells lies, he will be tricked.
Others, over time, he will lose people's trust. Like a "lying child"
Like the children in the "Zi" article, they shout "Wolf" every day, seeking excitement.
Happy, and when the wolf really comes, he has only one person to face it independently and bear it himself.
No matter how he shouts, no one will come to help him. Because,
People who may come to help him are used to his yelling and think he is teasing you again.
Play ",it can be seen that lies hinder integrity.
But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill, plus.
With this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "good
The lie of meaning "is people's good wishes for things and people's kind hearts."
Dialogue is a trace of warmth that people comfort each other. It flows from people's hearts.
It shows a kind of tenderness ... no one will investigate its credibility, even if they listen.
Anyone who knows a white lie knows that it is a lie, but he will try to believe it and not feel it.
To gain the hypocrisy of a liar, sometimes you have to be grateful from the heart.
When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents and lover
The child and all relatives will not tell him directly: "Life is impossible.
Save ","how long can I live in this world at most "and so on. Although this
All this is true, but the judge sentenced the prisoner to death. Who would be so cruel?
Tell the truth to your loved ones who are already in pain. At this time, everyone formed.
A United front, silent about the truth, vindicates patients with white lies.
Treatment is full of hope, so that patients can spend the rest of their lives with a peaceful mind.
Does this hinder honesty?
When a child who is out of tune with the world suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones,
How can I explain to him where my relatives have gone? We think it's best to do so.
Legal or not: don't tell him the truth for the time being, just say that he is on a business trip to a far place.
Yes, or studying abroad or something. When a child is sensible, he has a
When the tolerance is fixed and the truth is told, the child will understand what the person he loves is doing.
Fa, I won't be angry because I didn't know the truth earlier. Is this also an obstacle?
Honesty?
When the mother of a soldier on a battlefield is terminally ill, her life is dying.
I hope to see my son for the last time, but my son can't go back.
Come on, I can't do a little filial piety for my old mother and take care of the heart I once fucked for my son.
Heart's mother, he is sorry, but he also misses it. And the old mother understands her son very well.
Tell your relatives around you, and don't tell your distant son after you leave, no.
Distract him, say that his condition is stable, reassure him and do his best for the country. Is that so?
Will a white lie hinder honesty?
Therefore, I insist that white lies will not only hinder honesty, but also be extremely harmful.
The earth has enhanced the friendship and feelings between people, and it is also indelible for social stability.
The role of. I suggest that you use white lies when you should, regardless of honesty.
Serious conflict.
White lies do not hinder the four arguments of honesty.
Next, I will make a concluding statement on our position.
First: White lies are out of goodwill and aim to safeguard the interests of others.
And the starting point. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and the particularity includes
It is different from universality because of its particularity. Judging from the nature of white lies,
Deciding it is not evil, but based on inner sincerity and kindness, and evil.
Intentional lies seek benefits for liars, with strong desire for benefits and weak rationality.
The act of using others as a means to hurt others. People who are kind in themselves are somewhere.
In this state, the lie "forced" to tell is well-intentioned, and this lie is aimed at the subject.
It is a kind of friendliness, a kind of concern. And evil people, however disguised, such as
What rhetoric, how to rack one's brains to put a kind hat on his malicious lies
All the lies they told were malicious. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.
Letter.
Second: White lies are a way of life and a considerate quality.
Incarnation
Relatives and friends of a terminally ill patient always tell his illness with white lies.
Very light. I encouraged him to cooperate with the doctor. I'm sure none of you here will blame him for this.
Are you dishonest? ! On the contrary, it is a malicious truth that a prisoner is seduced by the enemy.
I told you about the deployment of my own army. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy
It's a betrayal of the country!
The director of the judicial expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct.
Honesty depends on what kind of lies you tell. "
A lie that rejects love without directly hurting the suitor; One is in
There is a lie and a warm-hearted man who doesn't want to disappoint the inviter.
It is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It makes us more comfortable when dealing with the world.
Unlike hard stones, which have many sides, they cut other people's heads and hurt themselves.
It can be seen that people need a layer of protective color and lubrication. Ever since I was taken away from Eden
When people are expelled, they are not naked but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, aren't they?
Third: Although white lies are a kind of lies, you can't lie.
Damage to integrity requires specific analysis of specific issues.
Honesty is respected by everyone, because it is kind, not cheating, but kind.
On the surface, lies seem to hinder the principle of good faith, but in essence, it
So it exists because telling the truth interferes with the principle of good.
White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation.
Back only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, rules
Pedestrians in the same direction can only take up half of the road, which does not hinder everyone.
Pass the ball
Fourth: A world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We sincerely agree.
Lying does not hinder honesty, but it does not mean that we advocate honesty. The key is the degree.
What is lying? If it is indiscriminate, it is defined as: not seeking truth from facts and telling lies.
Words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the facts. Then our life is full of beauty.
Little lies, from highly inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, can be found.
Without exaggerated words, even Lian Wenxue's works became lies. will of the people
Everyone has a standard for lying, and how to grasp this degree is our first consideration. and
White lies can make people's feelings more harmonious than lies with bad motives.
, harmony, life becomes more interesting, it can skillfully avoid conflicts and achieve
How can emotional communication and smooth communication hinder honesty?
So learn to distinguish malicious lies and protect yourself from harm; the same
At that time, improve your self-cultivation and think about the best way to solve the problem. "The way of university,
In mingde, be close to the people and stop at the best. "As for those who are warm, let life be full.
Full of interest; As for those lies full of kindness and compassion, let them unfold.
Forget it!
There is no saying that white lies are beautiful. When we do something for others.
When happiness and hope tell some little lies in moderation, lies become understanding and respect.
And have magical powers.
Let's give an example. One student is not very good at long-distance running.
Yes, but in an exam, the teacher told him that the speed of long-distance running was faster than other students.
He also said that he had the opportunity to represent the school in the competition and told him to work hard, that
The students were very excited after listening to the teacher's words, because they always thought they didn't run long distances.
He is very talented and can represent the school in the competition. From this day on, he really liked it.
I ran a long-distance race and kept running every day. After a while, I finished eating.
He, who can't represent the school, was chosen.
There was once a teacher who told a lie and said that he could predict the future for his students:
You may become a mathematician in the future, and he may become a writer. Which one has artistic talent?
..... In the guidance, edification, encouragement and shaping of teachers, children become diligent.
Bitter, sensible and studious. A few years later, a large number of students entered the university with excellent results.
This small village is also famous for it. People think that old teachers can pinch and calculate, but
To perceive the future, in fact, the good intention of the teacher is to plant a beautiful lie.
In a child's mind, it is like sowing a seed in the soil, which will eventually grow sturdily, blossom and bear fruit.
Result.
When I read the American short story The Last Leaf, my eyes are always moist. Dang Sheng
When the sick old man looks at the dead leaves and despairs, he is a caring painter.
Decorate the withered tree of life with carefully sketched green leaves to keep
The dying light of life. Isn't this the acme of lies?
Lies out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith.
It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart and make sure that there is love, trust and feeling in the world.
Move, so find more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow humanity.
Spirituality embodies the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, which makes people strong and persistent.
I couldn't help fighting for it, and finally I overcame my fragility and saved my life.
A lie from parents makes a child's face bloom like a flower; old
A lie from the teacher makes the wandering students no longer confused and grow better; A word from the doctor
Lies make fearful patients move from destruction to rebirth. ...
Dear friends, wake up, in fact, white lies don't hinder honesty at all.
Believe, don't think that white lies will hinder the integrity problem, because as long as you
Thinking that it is for others, that white lie is precious and won't be.
Causing a crisis of trust will not defile civilization, let alone distort human nature.
White lies have magical power and encourage you to make progress again and again.
Work hard and never give up for your dreams. Because the road to the future is completely
Happy mood lights up and life becomes better.
If confession is a mistake, I choose lies.
If telling the truth, being frank and being reckless is a kind of harm, I choose lies.
If it's for yourself or others to stop suffering and sadness, what's the point of telling more lies?
Obstruct?
Just like China's four classic novels & gt, this wonderful fairy tale has attracted billions of people.
Millions of readers told the world about the hardships of going west in fantasy, but can monkeys fly and pigs fly?
Thirty-six changes Where are you from? How many times did Shenzhou VI fly? Why didn't you hit the sky?
Palace, and then & gt is it a breach of integrity? If it's not true, it's a lie. Yes
This is against good faith, and it's just that donkey's lips are not right for horse's mouth. In this case, then I think: out of
Out of kindness, I think these mythical works should be banned, right? Please make a positive argument.
Explain!
White lies are also lies, malicious lies are also lies, and lies are also lies.
Whether malicious or well-intentioned; As Bai Zhantang said in The Legend of Wulin: A thief is a thief.
Is a thief, regardless of good thieves and bad thieves, good thieves are thieves, bad thieves are thieves, thieves are not good.
And it's terrible. The same is true of lies. Lies are lies, without goodwill or malice.
Yes, after all, he lied, and he lied to people!
Respondents: talentweiwei- Great Magician Grade 910-1319:17.
Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us has never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A white lie has a good starting point, and it is a lie that has to be fabricated when lying and cheating in white.
First of all, a white lie will not hinder honesty. Let's start with our country:
In the late 1950s and early 1960s, there was a dispute between China and the former Soviet Union. The former Soviet government tore up the contract and withdrew experts, which paralyzed China's industry for a time. In order to pay off the debts owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the people to practice steel and launched an unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in China would know that our country was still in debt to others, thinking that our country was liberated. You will live a carefree life, but the party and state leaders shoulder this burden. At that time, the state leaders lied to the people in good faith and honesty. At that time, the people of China worked hard without pressure and created an unprecedented miracle. At that time, the Iron Man Wang Jinxi was created, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team to drill the first oil well in China … ..
Second, speaking of us personally, I will give two small examples here:
I watched a TV report that an old mother had kidney disease, and her life would be in danger if she didn't change her kidney. At this time, the eldest son stood up and asked for kidney donation, which hurt the old mother, who strongly opposed it. She said that if so, she might as well die. No way, we can only wait for a kidney source that matches the conditions, but it is really not easy to wait for such a kidney source. My son was afraid of delaying his mother's illness. After discussing with his family, I cheated my mother. I donated a kidney from my youth to my mother. After the operation was successful, the family kept it from their old mother. The most touching thing is that my mother and son live in the next ward. My mother doesn't know. When my mother wanted to see her eldest son, my family just lied to her that her son was on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears. Friends, does such a lie hinder honesty?
A little girl with leukemia, at the end of her life, when the doctor asked her what her greatest wish was, she said that she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to watch the flag-raising ceremony. How can doctors and parents not satisfy a dying girl's last wish? However, because her family lives in a distant Xinjiang, if her requirements are met, the doctor is afraid that the girl can't stand the fatigue of the journey, so a collective fabrication activity organized by more than 2,000 volunteers, doctors and the girl's family began. From boarding the train to taking the tour bus, along the way, from reporting to the waiter serving tea, and even to the conversation of passengers, everyone deliberately arranged. Finally, they came to a school, accompanied by the national anthem of a military band. The blind girl thought she really came to the long-awaited Tiananmen Square. When she was unable to raise her little hand to salute the national flag, all the people present shed tears. This collective lying action organized by more than 2,000 people, can you say that their white lies hinder honesty?
Also, many elderly people are uncomfortable and refuse to let their children know at the first time, for fear of affecting their normal work and study! Many children say that falling doesn't hurt, just to let their parents say they are brave! There are many women who silently contribute behind the successful personnel, tired but not complaining, so that their husbands can do their work better with peace of mind and care less about their families ... There are countless examples in our country with a long history of civilization, and facts speak louder than words. To sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are well-intentioned and do not hinder honesty. ...
A white lie will not hinder honesty.
Lies are called "lies" because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the children in "Lying Children", they cry "Wolf" every day, seeking excitement and happiness. When the wolf does come, he has to face it alone and bear it alone. No matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and no one will come to help him again. Because people who might come to help him are used to his yelling and think that he is "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty
But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. People who hear a white lie will try to believe it even if they know it is a lie, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart.
When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, lover, children and all relatives will not directly tell him, "Life is hopeless" and "How long can I live in this world at most". Although all this is true, who will tell the truth to their already miserable relatives as cruelly as a judge sentenced a prisoner to death? At this time, everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment and let patients spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind. Does this hinder honesty?
When a dead child suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones, how can he explain to him where his loved ones have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the real situation for the time being, just say to go on a business trip in a distant place or study abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practices of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Don't such words also hinder the integrity!
How I wish I could see my son for the last time when his mother was terminally ill and dying. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of the mother who once broke his heart for his son. He regrets and misses it. The old mother understands her son very well and tells her relatives around her not to tell her distant son after she leaves and not to distract him. She should say that her condition is stable, reassure him and do her best for the country. Don't interfere with honesty with such white lies!
Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability. I suggest that you use white lies when you should, and there is not much serious conflict with honesty.
White lies do not hinder the four arguments of honesty.
Good evening, Chairman, Judges and Students:
A serious debate needs a serious stand.
Next, I will make a concluding statement on our position.
First: White lies are out of goodwill, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in particularity and different from universality. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not a bad benefit, but is based on sincerity and kindness in the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, which only regards others as a means and does not hesitate to hurt others, with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to rhetoric, how to rack their brains to crown their malicious lies with malicious purposes. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.
Second: White lies are a way of life and a reflection of considerate quality.
Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you? ! On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell about his troop deployment. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!
The director of the judicial expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for honesty, the key is what kind of lies to use. "
A lie that rejects love without directly hurting the suitor; An expressive lie that is unwilling to disappoint the inviter under the attentions of men is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It makes us more handy when dealing with the world, instead of cutting off other people's heads and scratching ourselves like a hard stone with many edges.
It can be seen that people need a layer of protective color and lubrication. Since being expelled from the Garden of Eden, people are not naked but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, aren't they?
Third: white lies are a kind of lies, but not telling lies will definitely hinder honesty. It is necessary to analyze specific problems.
Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, they exist because telling the truth hinders the principle of good faith.
White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!
Fourth: A world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We agree that white lies do not hinder honesty, but this does not mean that we advocate honesty. The key is the degree.
What is lying? If it is indiscriminate, it is defined as: not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. Then our life is full of lies, big and small, from inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, full of exaggerated words, and even Lian Wenxue's works have become lies. Everyone has a standard of lying in his heart. How to grasp this degree is our first consideration. Compared with lies with bad motives, white lies will make people's feelings more harmonious and harmonious, and life more interesting. It can skillfully avoid conflicts, realize emotional communication and communicate smoothly. How can it interfere with honesty?
So learn to distinguish malicious lies and protect yourself from harm; At the same time, improve your self-cultivation and think about the best way to solve the problem. "The way of a university lies in virtue, being close to the people and stopping at perfection". As for those that are warm and make life full of interest; As for those lies full of kindness and compassion, let them bloom!
I believe that under the sky of goodwill, our world will be better! !
Thank you! ! !
Respondents: Dongyuanfang _ 1- Assistant Level 310-1319:18.
For example, if a girl does, I didn't do it to comfort her ~ This is a white lie ~ In fact, you raped her ~ ~
Plus a wave, plug it in! ~ super cool ~ "ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah! ~ the collar is super cool ~ ~
Respondent: aabbboy 123- probationary period level 1 10- 13 20:34.