? Parents' beloved son, every parent is like this. But how to love and meet material needs in poor times? Nowadays, more families try their best to raise their children. As a mother of two children, I know it is not easy to raise a baby, and I know the great responsibility of education. But our core is Aiko! Why do I see many families turn love into a rope, anxiety and comparison?
? What children need before they are six years old is love and companionship. We should compare who gives children more love and companionship! And the love given by many parents becomes whose baby wears the best, whose baby has the most toys and whose baby has the most interest classes. In fact, in the eyes of children, a toy of several hundred yuan is not much different from a pile of sand. Even toys lose interest after playing for a few days, but sand is an outdated toy before 12 years old. Of course, the love parents give their children is undeniable. Yes, we all do, but what is true love?
? What children need is true love. Companionship and positive attention before the age of six are the greatest love for children and the love that children really need. Because the child is taking root in his heart at this time, your quality companionship and positive attention are the greatest nourishment for the child's growth and can be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Most questions in adulthood can be answered by going back to childhood. These six years have set the tone for the children's life, and the life script has been completed.
? After the age of seven, children are full of feelings, less and less attached to their parents, and turn to seek knowledge, friendship and so on. The more substantial his inner self is, the stronger his external thirst for knowledge will be. In other words, the life script of the first six years began to develop according to the script content after the age of seven.
? But many parents' attention really began at this time, and they began to pay attention to the children themselves and their own achievements. Poor grades, turn to teachers and remedial classes, and continue to seek outside, while children who are lacking in their hearts can rarely really achieve counterattacks through counseling, or many of these counterattacks are short-term. At this time, children and parents are very embarrassed: parents have not gained anything by throwing money, but the children have worked hard but have not improved. There are more and more complaints and bad feelings between each other.
? So, if you really love your son, why not take a long-term view and make a long-term plan for it? If every child is in childhood, we don't have enough food and clothing than before, and we don't care if I enroll more classes for our children, the financial pressure on parents will be less, and we will truly accompany our children with peace of mind and firmly take root with him. When children grow up, we really begin to realize our self-worth. We always grow up with our children and move forward all the way.
? The growth of children and the cultivation of parents are not just a few years or even longer, but a lifetime! We should always look at children's growth and education from a lifelong perspective. This side is "the beloved son of parents, which has far-reaching influence."