First, refusing may hurt others, and it is yourself who does not refuse to be hurt!

Today my mother bought clothes for 100. It's all spent, and I feel guilty when I get home. Mom works very hard, and money is hard to come by. I must learn to save and refuse luxury.

Third, I am afraid of rejecting others, because I am afraid of being rejected by others one day. Facts have proved that even if you don't refuse others, others will still refuse you.

Fourth, when your child learns to refuse, it means that he has learned to think. No matter whether this idea is reasonable or not, you should respect it.

Only by experiencing different places and separation, learning to refuse temptation and fighting for each other, can we hug each other more tightly next time and even grow old together.