Living at home is nothing more than rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. No matter how good a couple is, there will always be differences of opinion, and the quarrel is just to argue who is right and who is wrong. What does it matter if we win? It will only hurt the feelings of husband and wife. Smart couples don't argue about the little things in life and argue about right and wrong.

My husband and I have been married for more than ten years. Family conflicts and quarrels are common. After all, people have different living conditions. I like housework, but I don't like what he does. I have to clean it again every time he finishes. I always feel that what he does can't be done. I don't think I can clean the floor. In a word, I don't need him to interfere in all the housework. I never asked him about working outside. Because he is the only one who understands his work, I don't know anything about it, so I don't want to care.

I don't need him to interfere in the housework, because I don't like what he does. Husband and wife are more harmonious.

I remember when I first got married. Take care of children by yourself, young and strong. But there are many things I don't understand. I always feel busy all day. After work, he always sits on the sofa or lies in bed, playing mobile phone alone. I'm definitely not convinced, so I'll let her clean up. He is tired from work and goes home to rest. I also asked him to work. He feels unbalanced, and I feel even more unbalanced. We had a fight and didn't do any work.

Although the quarrel is because of a little thing. He thinks he is right, and I think I am right, too. Earn blush and thick neck, every time my husband slams out the door. Let me cry alone. Now think about it, it was really young and stupid at that time. Even if I win for him. What's good for me? I still do my own work, because quarreling hurts my heart and feelings!

Now, I never compare who is right and who is wrong with him. I always sit alone and do housework silently. I know. It's hard for him to work outside alone. Perhaps it is best for husband and wife to understand each other. I never tell him to do housework when he comes home. Every time I asked him to look after the children, he always gave it back to me immediately, and he did. Now he takes the initiative to cook and wash dishes as soon as he gets home. Many times I deliberately made him angry, but he always smiled and didn't take me seriously. Sometimes asked why he didn't refute, he said, "What did he say?" It's the same if you win, and it won't change if you lose, because you and your children are mine, and winning or losing is still mine. "It seems that after more than ten years of marriage, he also understands that in marriage life, who is right and who is wrong is actually the most stupid. Winning also hurts feelings.