I think if two couples like you have conflicts in their daily lives, what you should do most is to listen to your girlfriend's thoughts silently, fully understand what she wants to express, find out the reasons for your conflicts, and then solve the problems reasonably. If you talk glibly to coax your girlfriend, or quarrel with your girlfriend, it will be bad for your love. At the same time, you can praise your girlfriend appropriately. Praise can not only increase a person's self-confidence, but also give your girlfriend a sense of intimacy. Praise your girlfriend regularly to make your boyfriend feel that he appreciates himself, values himself and gives himself confidence.
And if you praise your girlfriend often, it will also make your girlfriend feel good. Besides, it is also something that can enhance your relationship. Boyfriends with high emotional intelligence, whether outside or at home, often praise their girlfriends' efforts and make their love more harmonious. After many lovers have been together for a long time, women will feel that their boyfriends don't love themselves as much as before. After all, many times he doesn't even remember some important anniversaries of the two, let alone give himself gifts or surprises. In fact, these are all manifestations of his low emotional intelligence.
However, surprises between boyfriends and girlfriends don't need to happen every day. Sometimes timely surprises can bring romance to lovers and make their lives more passionate and energetic. A boyfriend with high emotional intelligence will remember their important anniversaries, carefully prepare gifts for his girlfriend, give her a surprise, and make her feel that her lover still loves her as always, even if it hasn't changed for a long time.