1. What are the famous aphorisms that express "Be good at finding reasons within yourself and don't always complain about others"

1. Happiness lies in living for others. ——Leo Tolstoy The flowers bloom quietly at night, but let the day go and receive the words of thanks. —— Rabindranath Tagore

2. A gentleman values ??others but despises himself, putting others before himself. —— "Interview in the Book of Rites"

3. You should make other people's lives better because of your existence. —— Zibal

4. The best satisfaction is to satisfy others. ——La Bruyère

5. You will be happy only if you work hard to reduce the suffering of others. ——Munch

6. All I have to do is use my meager strength to serve truth and justice. —— Einstein

7. I am like a cow, eating grass and squeezing out milk. ——Lu Xun

8. You must remember to always happily give more to others and take less from others. —— Gorky

9. All I can offer is blood, hard work, sweat and tears. ——Churchill

10. Wasting other people’s time is murder, and wasting one’s own time is chronic suicide. ——Anonymous

11. The meaning of life lies in giving, not in receiving. ——Anonymous

12. You know where your shoes are tight. ——Anonymous

13. It is much more difficult to turn language into action than to turn action into language. ——Anonymous

14. Face setbacks calmly, do not complain, do not give up... As long as you continue to work hard, you will succeed. ——Tang Jun

15. The attitude towards life that never complains is the first priority. —— Jack Ma 2. Write an essay looking for the reasons from yourself

Many unpleasant things will happen in life, and most people will blame others instead of looking for their own reasons. I am one of them.

Once, I completed my homework more seriously

Unexpectedly, my homework was actually an A-. Why is this? I made no errors in my copying or dictation, and my handwriting was correct. I just complained, thinking that the English teacher’s corrections were not very good. After copying and dictating many times, I basically got an A. Of course, I sometimes got an A+. Later I discovered that the homework I did when I got A+ looked very neat and very comfortable. My dissatisfaction with the English teacher

disappeared all of a sudden. I also paid more attention to the format and neatness when writing homework, and the grade of the homework was often A+.

This incident reminds me of bits and pieces in daily life: when I fall while walking, I always think that a stone tripped me and caused me to fall, but I often ignore it. My fault is not small; when I quarrel with others, I always think that the other person has a bad temper and ignore my own mistakes; when I am punished for doing something wrong, I always shirk the responsibility. Looking at others, blaming others, and neglecting your own responsibilities. If we can change the perspective from which we look at problems and consider problems from the perspective of others, we may avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.

Recently, I saw an article about the habits of the Dutch. The electricity bill at the author's home was higher than last month. The power company called the author to ask why. It also sent maintenance personnel to conduct a comprehensive inspection of all the circuits in the room and left after confirming that there were no problems. The author's home.

It may be the habit of the Dutch to always look for reasons from themselves when encountering things. If we can be like them, we should look for reasons from ourselves instead of shifting the responsibility to others. , we will have more happiness and harmony in life. 3. What are the famous aphorisms that express "Be good at finding reasons from yourself, don't always complain about others."

1. Sell the number one product in the world - not cars, but yourself. Before you can successfully sell yourself to others, you must sell yourself 100% to yourself.

2. It is not so much that others make you suffer, but that you are not well-educated enough.

3. If you don’t trouble yourself, others will never trouble you. Because you can’t let go of your own heart.

4 Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

5 People with deep karma will look at other people’s faults and shortcomings all day long. People who truly practice will never look at other people’s faults and shortcomings.

6. Don’t be dissatisfied with others all the time. You should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.