The background color of the family education style in Letters from Home is the fusion of eastern and western cultures, and the bottom line is "being a man first". On "being a man", Fu Lei wrote: "I mean being a man in a broad sense: both private morality and public morality are included, mainly responsible for the collective, the country and the people." Fu Cong understood it this way: "My father's life is by no means a secular concept of' life', what should be comprehensive, what should make a difference in society, and so on. When he says "be a man", the situation is just the opposite ... that is, a person like "I can't bear to worry when I go back, but I won't change my happiness when I go back", that is, a person who has been sublimated in the highest sense. "
The reason why Fu Lei said that "being a man first" is the "bottom line" is actually Fu Lei's consistent educational philosophy. He believes that "education should focus on personality education, followed by knowledge. Children are virtuous and upright; It doesn't matter if you have knowledge of shortcomings. " Fu Cong's "being a man" means "the bottom line" plus "the background color" and "being a person with the highest spiritual sublimation".
Fu Cong said: "The letter from home just sums up all my feelings for my father from childhood."
A pure, honest, sincere and noble soul, although sometimes it will suffer unexpected hardships, insults and persecution, falls into a desperate situation that seems to be despised by many people. In the end, the real light can never be annihilated, so that it can shine the whole world and get the respect and love it deserves.
This tall and slender man in front of me made me seem to meet Fu Lei. And his graceful, quiet and dignified posture is like seeing his mother Mei Fu.
Times have changed, and the past years are gone forever. The correct way of life lies in continuous progress, and everything in reality is indeed striding forward. Looking back on the past is precisely to add strength to today's and future progress.
Fu Lei's artistic attainments are extremely profound, and he has profound knowledge in all fields of literature, painting and music, regardless of ancient and modern times.
Some people advocate letting children's education go with the flow and guide them according to the situation, but I always think it is a bit "cruel" to teach them strictly like Fu Lei. However, great achievements need carving. On the road of Fu Cong's growth, I saw Fu Lei's painstaking efforts as his father. This is the case in the childish times around us, and it is still the case in the case of separation between the two places. In these letters, didn't we see the blood stains left by Fu Lei's painstaking efforts for his son?
It is also a natural law for people to love their sons. Man's life is always limited, but his career is always endless. Through their own children, we can continue our lives and develop the strength that people can do for society, the motherland and mankind. Therefore, it is the sacred obligation and responsibility of society, the motherland and the human world to cultivate children.
Life is geometry, so we need to do something quickly with a clear conscience.
As for composers, my favorite recently is Bach. Bach is so great. He is an ocean, an endless sky. His power is the power of nature, the nature with soul, and the living God. Bach calmed my heart. In fact, Bach's piety is not pessimistic at all, but optimistic, full of vitality, and at the same time so mature and wise. I always listen to Bach's music when I get up every morning. This seems to increase my confidence in my work and life.
Besides music, my spiritual food is poetry. Still that Li Bai, that affectionate Li Bai, reading his poems, can not help but be shocked by his strength; When I read his poems, I will think of my motherland and the motherland where I was born.
Does dad listen to music or something when he is upset, or does art make people feel relieved?
Sixth time
My oriental roots are really deep. It seems that the more you drill into western culture, the more you find the oriental temperament hidden in your heart. Although the western material civilization is amazing, and the upper class also talks about culture, I would rather listen to noisy voices, look at people's smiling faces and feel a kind of human touch in the streets and alleys of the East, because the East has its own harmony, harmony between man and nature.
Day after day, I realized that when I was a child, my father said, "Be a man first, then an artist ..." My achievements and shortcomings in art are inseparable from my achievements and shortcomings in life. Being a man also has some shortcomings, which are artistic advantages, such as "not losing childlike innocence."
Westerners' whole outlook on life is antagonistic, man and nature are antagonistic, man and man are antagonistic, and artists and listeners are antagonistic. The most successful thing is to use a personality to force the masses to accept what he has given. Our views are completely opposite. We want to have culture, because we can forget ourselves, forget ourselves, so we can be one, one with music, one with the audience, one with music, musicians and the audience. In other words, everything is horizontal, and so is music. I don't know where it flows out or where it flows. "How does the water of the Yellow River get out of heaven and into the ocean, and never return?" is also the horizontal relationship between the artist and the audience [diagram]. The audience is like thousands of the Monkey King incarnations.
Thinking can really give people culture.