Have I ever advocated that we should bow our heads and face all the disasters that befall us? Never! That's just a fatalistic proposition. As long as we have a chance to save the situation, we will struggle.
To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, have a natural expression and smile, so that others will feel like you.
The only way to succeed is to think hard, there is no shortcut.
The process of spiritual maturity is a process of self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless we know ourselves first, it is difficult for us to know others.
Usually, when people say gentle words, their behavior will naturally reflect their gentle attitude, and the power of inner peace will be born from this.
7. You only have one life, and you should do the kindness you can contribute now. Don't slow down and don't ignore it, because you only have one life.
8. Happiness is contagious. Only by making others happy can you make yourself happy.
9, but they must understand that happiness is not given by others, but to win the needs and love of others.
10, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things and take simple things seriously; People are depressed because they put a lot of impurities in their hearts. Instead of cleaning up, they put more and more, making you breathless. People are stupid because they can't hear other people's voices and always think they are the smartest people in the world.
1 1. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, effort, consideration and dedication.
For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up some of their shortcomings or misfortunes.
13, people fail not because they don't have faith, but because they can't turn faith into action and stick to it.
14, young when you have faith, old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
15, "secular time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
16, today is too precious to be eroded by bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
17, a more noble dedication than one's own life, will bring real success and happiness, and will have more friends.
18, the flower sender dyed the fragrance by hand.
19. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, energy, consideration and dedication.
20. I have no time to quarrel and regret. No one can force me to hate them. I think of those kind people who have helped me, and I can't repay them!
2 1. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, energy, consideration and dedication.
22. If you pay enough attention to a certain result, you will certainly achieve it.
23. My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.
24. It is dangerous for a ship to sail in stormy waves, but as long as the helmsman is good at dealing with it, it is inevitable to cross the ocean and board the other shore. The same is true of a young man's employment, which is full of difficulties. You must deal with it calmly, break down the obstacles and you will find your own way. You know, God will never let you down, unless you are afraid of difficulties and have no perseverance to deal with them, you will be defeated.
25. Gratitude is the product of higher education. Ordinary people can't get it. It is human nature to forget or not thank.
26, the danger of a lazy heart, I do not know how many times more than lazy brothers and sisters. Moreover, it is more difficult to cure lazy psychology than lazy brother and sister. Because we are doing a job that we don't want to be unhappy, all parts of our bodies feel uneasy and bored. On the other hand, if you are interested in this kind of work and are happy, then your work efficiency is not only high, but also you feel comfortable both physically and mentally. Doctors call it laziness, which is caused by improper labor and mental depression.
27, a person's success, just because of his professional skills, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to act.
28. Our fatigue is usually not caused by the work itself, but by anxiety, tension and unhappiness.
It won't be long before anyone's credit will be destroyed. Even if you are a very cautious person, you only need to ignore it occasionally and follow it occasionally, then a good reputation can be destroyed immediately. Therefore, it is extremely important to form the habit of being cautious.
If you are passionate about something, you are sure to succeed.
3 1, the way to achieve psychological peace is to change people's mentality, and you should strive to cultivate a comfortable and natural mentality.
32. Admitting that you may have made a mistake can avoid quarreling, and it can also make the other party as generous as you and admit that you may have made a mistake.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
34. This concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to realize.
35. If you want to succeed, you must meet the following conditions: enhance your enthusiasm with desire, smooth the mountain with perseverance, and believe that you will succeed.
36. Being humble and three points on the road of life means being broad, eliminating all difficulties and all entanglements.
37. When thinking, be like a wise man; But act like a normal person when you talk.
38. If you show "as if" you are interested in your work, this performance will make your interest real and reduce your fatigue, tension and worry.
None of us want to be lectured, and no one will like it. Please remember that you must make us feel happy and interesting, otherwise, we won't pay attention to anything you say. At the same time, please remember that one of the most interesting things in this world is to refine the anecdotes of celebrities' elegance and wit. So, please tell us the stories of two people you know, and tell us why one of them succeeded and the other failed. We are happy to listen. At the same time, please remember that we may benefit from this example.
40. The cleverest way to impress people is to talk to him about his most precious things.
Famous sayings about Carnegie's learning
1, private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are the highest achievements of human experience and the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.
2, life is like a stage, if you just tell one thing, you can't touch people's hearts.
3. Try to understand others instead of scolding them; Try to put yourself in their shoes and think about why they did it. This is much more beneficial and interesting than criticism, which makes people feel sympathy, patience and kindness.
4. It is ambition to move towards a certain goal and never stop breathing in the middle. The combination of the two is ambition, and the success or failure of all undertakings depends on it.
5. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
6. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, energy, consideration and dedication.
7. The highest level of communication means that others are willing to listen and listen to others!
8. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will feel like you.
9. When the opportunity is presented to you, if you can seize it firmly, you will succeed in nine cases out of ten, and those who find opportunities for themselves will win 100%.
10, if we have accepted the worst, there is nothing to lose.
1 1. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.
12, a person who works hard on the road of struggle, if he doesn't divide the steps clearly, is equivalent to traveling to a place without specifying sleep and itinerary first. It is important to distinguish the steps.
13, young if you have faith, old if you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
14, today is too precious to be eroded by bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
15, a cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides the habit of being cautious: agility and not sticking to the rules.
16, my motto is: 1. Honesty; 2. Diligence; 3. Specialization.
17, "secular time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
18, if we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-something that needs time, energy, consideration and dedication.
19. A person who is genuinely interested in others has made more friends than one friend in three months, and has made more friends in three years than a person who just wants others to be interested in him.
2 1, real reading awakens sleepy people and chooses suitable targets for those who are hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.
22, sporadic time, if you can use it quickly, you can become a complete time. The same is true of the so-called accumulation of soil into mountains. It is easy to lose a day and there is no way to get it back.
23. On the road of life, you can be modest, that is, you can be broad, eliminate all difficulties and remove all entanglements.
Carnegie's inspirational quotes
1. If you can be humble on the road of life, you can make good relationships, eliminate all difficulties and remove all entanglements.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others that needs time, energy, care and dedication.
If you want to conquer fear, don't just sit at home and dream about your fear. Go out and get busy.
4, sharp criticism and attack, the effect is equal to zero.
For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up some of their shortcomings or misfortunes.
6. Don't expect others to be grateful, you just need to enjoy giving!
For us, the most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of us.
8. What makes you happy or unhappy is not what you have, who you are, where you are or what you are doing, but what you think about them.
9. If we have a firm belief in our hearts, then we must stick to it and do everything well in life. Faith will not let anyone down, but we always give up faith in the face of difficulties.
10, if there is a secret to success, the secret lies in knowing the position of others and being able to take care of both yourself and others.
1 1, criticism is useless, it arouses resistance and makes people eager to defend themselves; Criticism is dangerous, it hurts self-esteem and even makes people hate it.
12, the most critical person and the fiercest critic tend to soften in front of a patient and sympathetic audience.
13, if you have some kind of power, it's nothing; If you have a sympathetic heart, you will gain a lot of hearts that can't get power.
14. People who only talk about themselves will always consider problems from their own standpoint.
15, 70% of people's troubles are related to money, not that they don't have enough money, but that they don't know how to control the money they have!
16. Don't give yourself a hard time when you are running on the road you are pursuing. You should do what you want to do according to your own will, love the person you want to love, and achieve the career you want. This kind of life has no regrets.
17. If you want to persuade someone to do something tomorrow, before you speak, you might as well ask yourself: How can I make him do it?
18, when you fail enough times and you are not knocked down, then you succeed!
19. I was a prisoner for ten years. Not in an ordinary prison, but in a prison where I am worried about the poor walls of my prison and afraid of being criticized.
20, life should have two goals, one is to have what you want; Second, to be able to enjoy them, only smart people can do the second thing.
2 1, if you are right, try to make the other person agree with you tactfully; If you are wrong, admit it sincerely at once. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself.
Do it well if you want to.
23. Challenge is a kind of competition that any successful person loves and an opportunity to express himself. The challenge is to prove your worth and your chances of winning.
24. Concentrate all your wisdom and enthusiasm to do today's work perfectly. This is the best way for you to meet the future.
25. People do something for two reasons: one is good and the other is really good.
26. People who can pour out their troubles to intimate friends are usually people who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue and be energetic.
27. Your interest lies in your ability.
28. Happiness depends not on external factors, but on internal state.
29. Look into each other's eyes when you speak. This is the minimum communication skill.
30. If you want to succeed, you must meet the following conditions: enhance your enthusiasm with desire, smooth the mountain with perseverance, and believe that you will succeed.
3 1, human beings will not die from overwork, but will die from waste and worry.
32. Life is a step-by-step journey, not a race. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is unknown, and today is a gift from heaven, which is why we should cherish today.
33. Work will affect your life; It may make or break you.
34. People are so dissatisfied. Humanity is a person's gender. I hope human nature will change because of your generosity.
Personality is far more important than excellent intelligence among the factors of career success.
36. This concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to realize.
37. It's best to forget what you are worried about when you walk. You might as well come out and have a try. All the troubles will fly away like wings.
38. The only way to success is to think hard, there is no shortcut.
We should be modest, because neither you nor I will achieve much. We are all just passers-by, completely forgotten after a century. Life is too short to make small achievers bored. Let's encourage others to talk more.
40. The process of spiritual maturity is a process of self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless we know ourselves first, it is difficult for us to know others.
4 1. In the chaos of modern cities, only those who can keep their inner peace will not become insane.
42. The saddest thing about human nature is that all of us have put off our lives, dreaming of the beautiful rose garden on the horizon, and can't appreciate the roses blooming outside our window today.
43. The only way to influence others in the world is to talk about what he wants and tell him how to get it.
44. Admitting that you may have made a mistake can avoid quarreling, and it can also make the other party as generous as you and admit that you may have made a mistake.
45. You are young when you have faith, and you are old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
46. Compared with emotion, individual will has a more direct influence on behavior. As long as we adjust our behavior, we can indirectly adjust our emotions.
47. The problem for most of us is that we still close our eyes when opportunities come at us. Few people can pursue their own opportunities and even see them when they fall.
48. All right and wrong in the world are judged by people. As long as you think it is right, you don't have to care about other people's opinions, and don't expect others to have the same opinion as you.
49. It seems that people who can cultivate good listening skills are less common than anyone with a good personality.
50. Everyone will have a good impression on those who appreciate themselves, whether they are workers, employees or monarchs, without exception.
5 1. If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance and show that you are accomplished and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by blaming people who are more accomplished than themselves.
What people really care about is themselves, which will never change, whether today or tomorrow, whether now or in the future.
53. One of the simplest and most important ways to win each other's favor is to remember their names.
54. Use your talents. In the final analysis, all art is the appearance of self-worth.
55. Think like a wise man; But act like a normal person when you talk.
56. It is a shame to die of great wealth.
57. It is a quick and simple way to impress people and an inevitable requirement to integrate your enthusiasm and experience into the conversation. If you are not interested in your own words, how can you expect others to be moved?
58. God will not judge people before the end. Who are you and me to criticize people?
59. Close the door of the past and the future and live in a completely independent today.
60. If everyone is so selfish and gloomy, pay a little kindness and a sincere compliment and ask for something in return; If our souls are as small as dust, then failure is doomed to be a punishment that deserves it.
6 1, life goes forward and backward, and you can't lose your mood without anything.
If you are passionate about something, you will succeed.
63. Today is too precious to be eroded by painful worries and regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
It is human nature to be ungrateful. If you expect others to appreciate you, you are probably making much ado about nothing.
65. If you show interest in your job, this performance will make your interest real and reduce your fatigue, tension and worry.
66. Let us remember that the objects we get along with are not absolutely rational animals, but full of emotional changes, prejudice, conceit and vanity. No matter how much you admire people, they all have such things, but they are obvious and not obvious.
67. Put yourself in others' shoes and meet their eager needs!
68. The worst thing about a person is that he can't be himself and keep himself in mind and body.
69. Many troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life.
70. Expressing oneself is the most important need of human nature.
7 1. If we are so humble and selfish, once we don't benefit from others, we don't want to make others happy. If our tolerance is less than that of a sour apple, we will definitely encounter failure, and our mind will become extremely barren.
72. In your past life, the people you hurt have long forgotten, but the people you hurt will never forget you. He will never remember your merits, only your injuries.
73. Criticism is like a dove. They will fly back.
Usually, when people say gentle words, their actions will naturally reflect their gentle attitude, from which the power of a peaceful heart will be born.
There is only one way to win an argument, and that is to avoid it.
If you expect to become rich, you will become rich.
77. Gratitude is the product of higher education. Ordinary people can't get it. It is human nature to forget or not thank.
78. I like strawberries, but I don't put strawberries on the hook when fishing, because fish like earthworms.
79. Respect others and make them feel important!
80. The greatness of a great man depends on how he treats a humble person.
8 1, the most important thing in life is not to regard success as capital, even a fool will do so. It is important to rise from failure and benefit from it, which requires smart intelligence and is also the difference between a wise man and a fool.
82. It is difficult for us to convince others because we always try to force others to think in their own way from our own perspective, instead of trying to understand what the other person thinks and why.
83. If you want enemies, you are better than your friends. If you want more friends, make your friends better than you.
84. Is it as important for us to like ourselves as it is for others? Psychologists say that if we don't like ourselves, we can't like others. Some people are tired of everything and hate everyone. In fact, this shows that they have no confidence in themselves and have a strong tendency to give up.
If we are right, we should skillfully and tactfully make others agree with our views. But when we are wrong, we should admit our mistakes quickly and frankly.
If you admit your mistake before others blame you. If the other person wants to say something, you have said it for him, and he has nothing to say, then you have a 99% chance to get his understanding.
87. When you calm down, you may find that dogs are the only animals that don't need to work for their own lives. All it has is love.
88. Give you sincere appreciation instead of criticizing each other blindly. Think about what you would do if you were in the same state and situation, make the same mistakes as them, or think of Lincoln when you want to blame others.
89. In the long years, you and I will inevitably encounter some unpleasant things. In this case, it can't be different.
90. Success means getting what you want. Happiness is for you to get.
9 1, a thing, if you can think of it, you will think clearly.
92. Save the face of others! What an important question this is! And we seldom think about it. Even if others make mistakes, we are right. If we don't save face for others, we will ruin a person.
93. When we get along with people, we are not faced with absolutely rational animals, but with creatures full of emotional changes, prejudice and driven by conceit and vanity.
94. Everyone in the world, rich or poor, beggar or thief, is willing to do his best to safeguard the good reputation given to him by others.
95. One of human nature is that people will not accept criticism from others, always think that they are always right, and like to find various excuses to defend themselves.
96. Success or failure lies not in size, but in whether you try your best.
97. Whether you are happy or not has nothing to do with what you have, who you are, where you are and what you are doing, but only with what you are thinking.
98. The so-called strong trait is that you still have the inner courage to undertake external tests in the face of all difficulties.
99. People who don't get angry are fools, and people who don't get angry are wise.
100, dealing with people, please remember this, people are not rational creatures. They are driven by emotion and dominated by prejudice. Arrogance and vanity are the source of their motivation.
10 1. Don't be too harsh on the pursuit of personal value, don't be indifferent to the temptation of fame and fortune, don't be crazy about the difficulties of climbing mountains and mountains, don't be depressed about setbacks, and don't be sad about the hard-won ambitions.
102, when you are happy, you should think that these are not eternal, and when you are in pain, you should also think that these are not eternal. Only in this way can we not get carried away, be greedy and be discouraged after failure.
103, action is produced by our basic desires.
104, the biggest experience I have learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand you, because your thoughts make you who you are. By changing our own ideas, we can change our lives.
105, if you want others to like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will have a good impression on you.
106, so remember, if you don't get a position through hard work, or you don't get a position through grades, you can't keep your reputation. It has no practical value.
107, life is like a stage. If you just describe one thing, you can't move people's hearts. Therefore, you must bring the facts to life in the form of comedy, that is, deal with your life in a comedy way and make the atmosphere around you full of joy.
108, vulgar people can get their greatest pleasure from the mistakes and stupidity of great men.
109. Try to get close to those who know you, trust you and encourage you, which will have a great influence on your future success.
1 10, don't set yourself on fire because of the enemy.
1 1 1, don't expect those distant prospects, our top priority is to deal with the immediate things.
1 12, criticism brings resentment instead of change.
1 13, the train of years has been running, and everyone will inevitably encounter unpleasant things. If they are already like this, they can't be anything else.
1 14, people who look for self-esteem in the real world in crazy fantasies but can't get it are probably really crazy.
1 15, mature people will not be trapped by their own difficulties, but face it bravely, accept it, and then find ways to overcome it and solve it.
1 16. Sporadic time can also be a complete time if it can be used flexibly. The same is true of the so-called accumulation of soil into mountains. It is easy to lose a day and there is no way to get it back.
1 17. In the great world, the creator has prepared a happy life for everyone. We should make up our minds, concentrate on it and fight for it.
Reference content of Carnegie's famous words
Sporadic time, if used flexibly, can be a complete time. The so-called "mountains are all piled up" is true. It is easy to lose a day, and there is no way to recover it.
● The phrase "secular time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, energy, consideration and dedication.
● Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% must be inclusive of interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills, and communicative skills that are good at dealing with interpersonal relationships are soft skills.
When the opportunity is presented to us, if we can firmly grasp it, we will succeed in nine cases out of ten, and those who look for opportunities for themselves will win 100%.
Real reading awakens the sleepy and chooses the right target for the hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, effort, consideration and dedication.
Today is too precious to be eroded by painful worries and regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
● Young when you have faith, old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
● To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, have a natural expression and smile, so that others will have a good impression on you.
Respect the opinions of others. Never say, "You are wrong."
My motto is: first, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.
● Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
● On the road of life, if you can humble yourself by three points, you can broaden your horizons, eliminate all difficulties and remove all entanglements.
● Life is like a stage. If you just describe one thing, you can't move people's hearts.
A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
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