You have to use your brain when speaking, and be careful when speaking sensitive things. Talking too much is useless. Your mouth is just a speaker. You must pay attention to supervise and control the FM knob and sound control switch at ordinary times, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble. . Many things are accomplished with words, and failure is also done with words. You must keep the door shut at ordinary times. If you don't want to talk, you can remain silent appropriately, keep silent, be busy with your own affairs, say that you have something to do/have to be busy with work, give various perfunctory reasons, go berserk, etc. to reply to the person you don't like. People who are nosy and worry blindly are not rude. They are just protecting themselves in a timely manner. This is also a kind of legitimate defense, so don't feel guilty. When speaking, don't just talk happily and freely, thinking that when someone smiles at you, you appreciate it, and endlessly say things that hurt your heart. As a result, people will completely find out your family background. Still laughing at you secretly.

The most important thing in self-cultivation is to have a pure heart, and the first thing to do in dealing with the world is to be cautious in speaking. ——Master Hongyi

Speak cautiously, be independent, and learn to compromise while also adhering to your most basic principles.

Too many words lead to mistakes.

Those who flatter others seek pleasure from others; and those who flatter good people seek pleasure from others, both of which are wrong. ——Jiang Aoying of the Qing Dynasty, "Careful Speech Training·Avoid flattery"

Disease enters through the mouth, and disaster comes out of the mouth.

How to plan your political affairs, first of all, the principles of doing things, you must pay attention to morality, and secondly, the way of doing things, you should talk less and do more; be careful with your words, that is, be careful when you speak, and don't say things you can't do. .

Sit quietly and think about your own faults, and don’t talk about the faults of others. Jin Ying's "Proverbs Lian Bi"

Those who talk about right and wrong are right and wrong. ————"Zengguang Xianwen·Part 1"

Right and wrong are just for talking more, and all troubles are caused by force.

——One of the twenty-nine verses (Song Dynasty·Shiyun)