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In the face of setbacks, what kind of perception you choose, what kind of emotional reaction you have.
They all say, "Happiness never comes in pairs, but it never rains alone!" " Those bad things in life seem to like to get together, which makes people unprepared! At the beginning of "Ideal City", Xiao Su, who worked hard and was excellent, inexplicably took the blame for the "housing project" incident, and at the same time suffered from her boyfriend's rejection, betrayal and abandonment. What should a weak little woman do in this big city without friends?
I believe that in real life, many people are framed, betrayed, abandoned, used, excluded, framed and overhead when they leave home. Then let's take a look at how Sun Li interprets the workplace story of breaking or even counterattacking!
Like most people's reaction, Xiao Su's heart is full of grievances, anger and confusion-she cut off all contact with the outside world and hid in the quilt and cried all day! At that time, the whole person was decadent
Yes! In the face of setbacks, what kind of perception you choose, what kind of emotional reaction you have. Although we can't choose what will happen to us. But the right to choose the way to deal with life.
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When a person encounters a trough in life, home is the safest harbor, and relatives and friends are the biggest spiritual pillar.
On the other hand, our parents met Zhou Jun's mother, the future son-in-law, in the supermarket, but Zhou's mother deliberately avoided it-the clever Sue dad immediately found an excuse to stall Sue's mother, and then took out his mobile phone to call Zhou Jun respectively, but they couldn't get in touch. Sue's father immediately decided to visit her daughter in Shanghai.
When she saw her father unkempt, she pretended to hide it easily, but Sue's father already knew it clearly. He just quietly opened the suitcase and saw a quilt wrapped in several lunch boxes, all of which were delicious meals made by Sue's mother for her daughter. When he turned to see a table of meals, tears could no longer be held back. In the face of the closest relatives, everyone could suddenly unload the fortress in their hearts! We can release our repressed emotions without scruple.
Xiao Su ate hot food and finally burst into tears. When a person encounters a trough in life, home is the safest harbor, and relatives and friends are the biggest spiritual pillar. You don't need too many words, maybe you just need a look, a hug and an encouragement, and you have the magic to revive people's blood! With his father around, Xiao Su finally had a good sleep.
As soon as Xiao Su woke up, his father left, leaving a note on the table. Dad told Xiao Su: There are two ways in life, one is to ask others for help, and the other is to ask yourself for help. He hopes that his daughter can be as the name suggests: "hollow and restrained, upright!"
After putting down the note, Xiao Su stretched himself, solemnly wrote "a new beginning" on the paper, and then began to submit resumes online-sometimes experience is a mysterious gift from God, which makes us better.
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How can you see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?
Some people say, "there is no such word as easy in adults' world." The difference is that some people bow their heads in the face of setbacks and never recover, while others face difficulties, cut off obstacles and finally reap the fruits of success. Why does the same experience have two completely different endings? This is because even if we can't choose what we are going to face. But what kind of mentality and coping style can I choose to meet the challenge of life! How can you see the rainbow without experiencing some storms in life?
When Xiao Su embarked on the journey again with full confidence, she faced the following problems: her hard-earned certificate of cost engineer was detained, and her interview was repeatedly rejected-this weak woman seems to have no place to live in this big city without friends!
What kind of test awaits her ahead? The wonderful story has just begun. It remains to be seen how Sun Li interprets this special life journey.
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Mo Yan said: One day you will make peace with yourself, swallow all grievances, smooth the edges and corners of life, face people and things you once hated with a smile, and become a quiet person. When you bear all the hardships alone, get through all the loneliness and swallow all the bitterness, sunshine and good luck are waiting for you.