1. The ancient text and meaning of family harmony

"Going Home"

My mother was originally strong, but this year she said she is dizzy.

Gu Lian is a guest, and he especially likes his grandson who is a scholar.

New career lights, Sangma old village.

Taiping has beautiful customs and there is no need to close the door.

Translation: My mother has always been in good health. This year she suddenly wrote to tell us that her eyes were dizzy. It turned out that she missed me, a wanderer who was away from home, and wanted to meet me who was studying abroad. Grandson. Our family stayed up all night in the new house, talking about the old farm work. People in the peaceful countryside lived in peace and harmony, and there was no need to close the door when sleeping at night...

The whole poem describes a family scene Pictures of happiness, harmony or the wonderful life of family reunion. 2. Poems about family harmony

Throughout the ages, among the complex family relationships, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and stepmother and adopted daughter is probably the most difficult to get along with. Often because these two relationships don't work well, a family becomes uneasy and torn apart. Here are two intriguing couplets.

There was a female poet in the Qing Dynasty. She once wrote a couplet dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: Daughters are often lovely, but daughters-in-law are often hateful; she advises mothers-in-law in the world to love their daughters-in-law with the same love for their daughters.

Every time a wife is obedient, every kiss is disobedient. May the Son of Man in this world be able to show some obedience to his wife and his parents.

This couplet not only advises the mother-in-law who favors her daughter but abuses her daughter-in-law to love her daughter-in-law as much as she loves her daughter; it also advises those sons who only obey their wives but do not respect their parents and hope to be sons in the world. Honor your parents as you would your wife. The couplet has a profound meaning and is known as a motto to harmonize the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In addition, during the Tongzhi period of the Qing Dynasty, the wife of Shen Baozhen, the governor of Liangjiang, was well-educated and educated since she was a child, but unfortunately she died young. Before he died, he left a couplet for his husband and daughter:

I am leaving my beloved! There is no need for a real man to have a wife; if he gets married again in his old age, he should not talk about his dead wife to his living wife.

You must obey your strict father’s commandments! Xiao Nizi finally has a mother; if she is raised by someone in the future, she must know that her stepmother is her biological mother.

The first column of the couplet instructs the husband on how to treat his biological wife and his deceased wife in the future, while the lower column teaches his daughter how to deal with the relationship between her stepmother and her biological mother. Today, this couplet has not lost its positive practical significance. 3. The ancient text about "Family" or "The Way of Family Harmony" is to let people understand the importance of family

To all the brothers, it is advisable to pay attention to diligence and respect at home. : I haven’t sent anyone home for a long time. I haven’t heard from my family since the 25th day of the Tang Dynasty. I wanted to be safe, so I moved to Xinti on the 9th and arrived at Jiayu County on the first day of August. I took a small boat to Pai on the 5th day of the lunar month. After looking at the terrain of the island, we will move the main camp to Paizhou on the seventh day of the lunar month. The navy's front camp, left camp, and middle camp will be stationed in Chrysostom on the third day of the seventh month. On the seventh day of the seventh month, bandits will invade by land and water. Our army has not done so. The navy blocked two routes, robbed two thieves' boats, killed dozens of thieves, and won one battle. Luoshan won four battles on the 18th, 4th, and 6th day. Pay back.

On the third day of the Lunar New Year, I received the imperial edict, and I was rewarded with a three-piece top hat. I now have a folded body to express my gratitude. If you rely on the power of the emperor and the river gradually clears up, you should immediately report to your hometown, serve your father and sacrifice your mother, and show your heart as a son. My brothers and nephews should be considerate of my heart and pay close attention to my father's food and daily life. Be careful and make sure you are not negligent. You must be clean and sincere in the etiquette of your mother's sacrifice. You must respect and love your uncles without any barriers. Brothers and sisters, there must never be any discord. In every family, the word "diligence and respect" must be , how many points can be defended, there will be no unhappiness. If there is no point at all, there will be no defeat. How many points can be defended with the word He, there will be no unhappiness. There is no undefeated person in the discord. My brothers try to use these three words in the countryside to the families of relatives and relatives. After going through many adventures, they will definitely take my words as correct.

My brothers are not good at keeping things clean, especially me. This is a prodigal spirit. From now on, you should clean up carefully, that is, every piece of paper, strands, bamboo and wood chips should be picked up as a gift to your children and nephews. As an example, if one generation is lazy and the second generation is promiscuous, they will sleep day and night, and take opium gradually. The fourth and ninth brothers are more diligent, and the sixth and fourth brothers are lazy; those who are diligent will become more diligent, and those who are lazy will change severely. It is very important that your nephew and nephew learn to be careless! In addition to studying, my nephew should be taught to sweep the house, wipe tables and benches, collect manure and hoe weeds. This is a very good thing. You should not do it because it will damage your dignity. (August 11, the fourth year of Xianfeng) Notes ① Si Di: sister-in-law.

Translation: Chenghou, Wenfu, Zizhi and Jihong were the four brothers. I haven’t sent anyone home for a long time. I haven’t received any letters since Tang Er and Wei Wu arrived. I think they are safe. I moved the barracks from Xinti on the 29th and arrived at Jiayu County on the first day of August. I sat down on the fifth day of the lunar month. The boat went to Paizhou to inspect the terrain, and on the seventh day of the lunar month, Zaimuying was moved to Paizhou.

The navy's front camp, left camp, and middle camp have been stationed in Jinkou since June 23rd. On the 26th, the enemy troops invaded by land and water. Our army did not arrive. The navy blocked the attack in two groups, captured two enemy ships, killed dozens of enemy people, and won the battle. Luoshan fought on the 18th, 23rd, 24th, and 26th. After winning four battles, a memorial was sent on the fourth day of the lunar month, describing the process in detail, and was paid back in cash.

On the third day of the Lunar New Year, I received a letter from the emperor. I was rewarded with three blessings. Now I am writing a memorial to express my gratitude to the emperor for his grace. I am sending the edict and memorial back. I am in mourning for my mother and I am not observing the rules at home. In the dead of night, I think of it. I am really embarrassed. If, relying on the power of the Emperor, the enemies on the river are cleared one after another, I will immediately report to the Emperor, go home to honor my father, pay homage to my mother, and show a little filial piety as a son. My brothers, sons, and nephews must understand me. With this regard, my father must be very careful about his diet and daily life, and don't make any oversights. My mother's sacrifices and etiquette must be clean and sincere, and I must respect and love my uncle. , there is no gap at all, there can never be any discord between brothers and sisters-in-law. If you belong to a family, as long as you abide by the words "diligence" and "respect", there will be no failure in prosperity. Those who are in decline, and the word "harmony" can be observed to some extent. There is no one who is not prosperous, and there is no one who is invincible if there is no harmony. My brothers try to verify these three words among family members in the countryside one by one. They will definitely feel what I said. There is nothing wrong with that.

My brothers don’t like tidying up, they don’t like cleanliness, they are even worse than me. This is the sign of a prodigal family. From now on, you must carefully clean up, just a piece of paper and a thread, even the old bamboo shells and corroded sawdust. We should all pick it up and set an example for our children and nephews. If the first generation is negligent and lazy, the second generation will be arrogant and extravagant. Then bad things like sleeping during the day, playing cards at night, and eating opium cigarettes will gradually occur! The fourth brother and the ninth brother are more diligent, while the sixth brother Ji is more lazy. The ones who are more diligent will be more diligent in the future. The lazy ones must be determined to change. It is very important not to let the descendants learn the bad example! In addition to studying, my nephew should also teach them to clean the house, wipe the tables and chairs, pick up manure and hoe the grass. These are all very good things. You must not put on airs and be unwilling to do it because it is sabotaging yourself. (August 11, the fourth year of Xianfeng) The most noble brothers are in harmony.

Brothers did not know last year, and due to the changes in Sanhe this winter, brothers should take last year as a warning. Whenever I make mistakes, the three brothers Cheng Yuanhong will each follow the rules and regulations, and I will do my best to punish them. If the third brother has made a mistake, he should also discipline each other and punish him.

The second noble body is filial piety. Push the love of grandparents, love for uncles, push the love of parents.

To love Brother Wen’s wife, concubines, children, and the Lanhui family. Also, the burial area of ??my parents' graves must be reburied. Please ask Brother Yuan to make the decision. Brother Cheng does not need to be overly insistent.

Third, we must practice diligence and thrift. Don't talk too much about extravagance among the sisters-in-law.

The children of the younger generation must walk and cannot ride in sedans or horses. Girls, don't be too lazy, you should learn to cook tea and rice; books, vegetables, fish and pigs will make the whole family angry, but sleeping less and doing more will make one person angry.

Diligent means lively energy, and frugal means restrained energy. With these two words, there is no reason why the family fortune will not be prosperous. When I was at home last year, I didn't work hard on these two words. I still regret it, so I say it sincerely.

(November 23, the eighth year of Xianfeng). 4. Famous lines from ancient poems and essays about harmony

The Chinese nation has always attached great importance to and cherished "harmony". Creating the word is like opening a mouth of a seedling, which is as important as eating. There are many words composed of "harmony", such as peace, harmony, harmony, harmony, harmony, harmony and so on. From the ancient "harmony is the most precious" to the current construction of a harmonious society, from the perspective of national character, they are of the same origin. There are also a lot of sayings about harmony in folk sayings, which shows that the concept of harmony is deeply rooted.

The so-called "everything thrives when the family is harmonious", "don't bully outsiders at home", "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as the opposite door", this emphasizes the need for harmony in the family and neighborhood; "A kind word brings warmth, but a bad word hurts others "It's cold to the bones", "It's better to dissolve enemies than to make enemies", "Be merciful when you have to spare others", which emphasizes the need for harmonious interpersonal relationships; "Everyone respects me by one foot, and I respect others by one foot", "A drop of kindness should be given to others" "Everyone repays each other", everyone is courteous, respects and loves each other, is always grateful, and naturally lives in harmony; in addition, "if you are not afraid of others being disrespectful, you are afraid that you are not upright", as long as everyone cultivates himself and is strict with himself, this will of course enhance factors of social harmony. 5. Ancient poems describing family harmony

Home is the cold plum blossom in Wang Wei’s "Miscellaneous Poems" "In front of the beautiful bed, the winter plum blossoms have not bloomed";

Home is Li Bai The bright moon in "Quiet Night Thoughts" "Looks up at the bright moon, lowers head to think about hometown".

Home is the sultry nocturne of "Whose jade flute flies darkly, spreading into the spring breeze all over Luoyang City" in Li Bai's "Wearing the Flute in Luoyang City on a Spring Night";

Home is In Zhang Ji's "Night Mooring at Maple Bridge", the midnight song "Hanshan Temple outside Gusu City, the midnight bell rings to the passenger ship".

Home is the nine-curved ileum in Ma Zhiyuan's "Autumn Thoughts", "The setting sun sets in the west, and the heartbroken man is at the end of the world";

Home is the "Spring breeze turns green again in the south of the Yangtze River" in Wang Anshi's "Boat Boat Guazhou" Shore, when will the bright moon shine on me again?" is like an arrow returning to my heart;

Home is the nostalgia of "Where is the hometown at dusk, the misty waves on the river make people sad" in Cui Hao's "Yellow Crane Tower"; < /p>

Home is the lingering sentiment of Li Shangyin's "The Night Rain Sends to the North" "Why should I cut the candles from the west window and talk about the night rain in Bashan". 6. I want poems or quotes about family harmony

Mother is not someone to rely on, but someone who makes dependence unnecessary. (American female novelist Fischer, D.C.)

All happy families are very similar; and every unhappy family has its own misfortune.

(Russian writer Tolstoy.L.)

Everything I am, everything I can do, I owe to my angelic mother. (President Lincoln)

As a modern parent, I know that what matters is not how many material things you give your children, but the care and love you pour into them. Not only will a caring attitude save you a considerable amount of money, but it may even give you a sense of comfort that you spent a small amount of money and gave more than just a gift. (American writer Noel.O.)

A golden nest or a silver nest is not as good as your own straw nest. (American playwright and actor J. H. Payne)

A brave man is at peace with the situation, and wherever he goes, he is home. (British playwright Philip M.)

A wise man is at home everywhere - the earth is his fireplace and the blue sky is his living room. (American thinker Emerson R.W.)

In a happy family, parents are run by loving parents, and children obey adults out of love for their parents. (British philosopher Bacon.F.)

Whether you are a king or a farmer, family harmony is the happiest. (German playwright and poet Goethe J.W.)

Home is a girl’s prison and a woman’s correctional institution. (British playwright Bernard Shaw G.)

No matter when and where, home is always a place with an open door to wanderers. (American poet Robert F.)

A traitor is more ruthless than a snake or a scorpion. (British playwright Shakespeare W.)

Couples who are divorcing (including those who are in the pain of constant quarrels) can easily get stuck in each other's quagmire and cannot extricate themselves. This kind of slander is as possible as possible Do it publicly and as often as possible. (American writer Mel H.)

I don’t know what kind of person my grandfather is. What I care more about is what kind of person his grandson will become. (President Lincoln A.)

If you want your children to always be down-to-earth, let them take some responsibility. (British essayist Bunyan, J.)

Letting children feel that family is the happiest place in the world was a wise approach for educated adults in the past. This wonderful family sentiment, in my opinion, is as precious as the most exquisite gifts that adults give to children. (Washington I., the father of American literature)

Marriage is like a birdcage. The birds outside cannot get in; the birds inside cannot get out. (French thinker and essayist Montaigne, M.D.)

My father always said that a child needs four things-full love, nutritious food, regular sleep, and lots of soap. Water and water - that's all. What he needs most is some wise indulgence. (U.S. Navy Officer Priest.I.B.)

The family is one of nature’s masterpieces. (American philosopher and poet Santayana G.)

The spirit of scientific fraternity connects people who are scattered around the world and are enthusiastic about science into a big family. (President Ross.F.)

The family you will have is more important than the family you come from. (British writer Lawrence D.H.)

The most fundamental shortcoming of fathers is that they want their children to win glory for themselves. (British philosopher Russell B.)

Everyone’s home is like a castle and a fortress to himself. (British jurist Cork. E.)

The sooner you treat your son as a man, the sooner he will become a man. (British novelist Locke W.J.)

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to recite. (British novelist Thackeray W.M.)

To make a marriage last, you need to overcome self-centeredness.

(British poet Byron, G.G.)

If you don’t raise children, you will not know the kindness of your parents (American pastor and speaker H.W. Beecher)