Psychologist Carl Jung's classic quotes
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The scariest thing is to fully accept yourself.
A collection of a hundred great brains makes one big fathead.
A collection of a hundred great brains makes one big fathead.
Here the mythic e clear only recesses of the soul, opening into that cosmic night ing of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
The meeting of two souls is like the contact of two chemical substances: the slightest reaction changes them completely.
We cannot change anything unless we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.
For any matter, if you want to change it, you must first accept it. Condemnation does not liberate but only oppresses.
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being.
As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being. The purpose is to ignite a little light in the darkness of pure existence.
It all depends on how we look at things, and not on how they are themselves.
The way we look at things, not on how they are themselves, determines everything. Famous quotes from psychologists
1. Love is essentially about giving rather than getting.
2. The method of associating a good feeling with a certain thing is the most effective way to change people's behavior without forcing it.
3. Do not criticize your children in public. This method seriously damages your children's self-esteem. The truly effective method is: praise in public and criticize behind your back.
4. When everything was hopeless, I watched the stone cutter knock on his stone hundreds of times without seeing any cracks. But in the 101st time, the stone was split in two. I realized that it was not that blow but the previous knock that cracked it. Jacques
5. French educator Lu Jun once said: Self-confidence is simply a miracle for career. With it, your talents can be inexhaustible; a person without self-confidence will not seize an opportunity no matter how talented he is.
6. Between husband and wife, between lovers, between parents and children, one must turn a blind eye or close a blind eye.
7. Parents who do not love, do not show love, or do not show enough love will definitely cause psychological disorders and defects in their children to varying degrees.
8. Giving is the highest expression of potential.
9. Children need human dignity. Children are the most emotionally fragile people and the least able to withstand blows. Children can tolerate things better than adults. It is not that they are not angry, but that they know their own powerlessness.
10. According to the survey: out of 100 times of discipline by parents, the children benefited less than 5 times.
11. Teachers are also human beings, and they also have joy, anger, sorrow, and fear. But as long as we, as teachers, face the students, all our joy, anger, sorrow, and fear must be in front of us. facing students.
12. There is no mountain that cannot be overcome, and there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome, so why should you be unable to overcome it?
13. Children without problems are the biggest problems, and classes without problems are the classes with the most problems.
14. Sit quietly for fifteen minutes every day and listen to your breath, feel it, feel yourself, and try not to think about anything. Eric Fromm
15. American psychologists once studied the personalities of 150 accomplished people and found that they all have three excellent qualities: First, they have toughness in character. ; Second, he is good at continuously accumulating results to achieve his goals; Third, he is very confident and does not feel inferior.
16. You must truly grasp the core of each problem, segment the work, and allocate time appropriately. Franklin
17. You know what depression is when you spend your whole life climbing up in a company or any field, but when you reach the top, you realize that you climbed up the wrong wall. Campbell
18. Teenage students do not have puppy love, only first love. First love is the most beautiful, pure, romantic and most beautiful human emotion that deserves to be expressed in the most beautiful language.
19. The difficulties that a person's psychological disorders bring to a person's life are far greater than the difficulties that ordinary physical defects bring to people.
20. Human life is a journey of learning to love yourself. Only by learning to love yourself first can you extend love to everyone you meet on the journey.
21. Why do people live in this world? Know yourself. Only by knowing yourself can you change yourself.
22. Everyone needs praise and recognition; this is true for adults, let alone children. It's not enough to just discover your child's strengths and strengths, you also have to express your praise without hesitation. The best way to mobilize your children is to give them praise and tell them that they are the best!
23. Everyone has their own life experience. Only by looking at it with a positive attitude can it become yours. of wealth.
24. Life is not a short candle, but a torch that we hold temporarily; we must burn it very brightly and brilliantly, and then hand it to the next generation. Bernard Shaw
25. Life experience is not necessarily wealth. Only how to understand your life experience can it become your wealth.
26. The first education you should receive in life is the education of love.
27. Only by knowing yourself can you help others.
28. Anyone with sound senses must know that he cannot keep secrets. If his lips are closed, his fingertips will speak; even every pore of his body will betray him. Sigmund. Freud
29. If you deliberately avoid the important and do the smaller things than you can do with your best, then I warn you that in the days to come, you will be very Unfortunately. Because you always have to avoid the various opportunities and possibilities that are related to your abilities. American psychologist Maslow
30. There is no impassable road in the world, only the road you dare not take.
31. All ideological education, moral education, and psychological education must be based on extensive and solid scientific knowledge.
32. Greed is a kind of hell that will bring endless pain to people. It exhausts people's energy in trying to satisfy their needs, but it does not bring satisfaction to people.
33. Only when there is love in your heart can you discover love and find wonderful children, just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
34. What students say is true, but not necessarily true.
35. To learn psychology, you must first change yourself.
36. Nothing will happen unless you have a dream first. Karlsenberg
37. There are three people who are my friends: the one who loves me, the one who hates me, and the one who is indifferent to me. People who love me teach me gentleness; people who hate me teach me caution; people who are indifferent to me teach me self-reliance. JE Dinger
38. Praise, affirmation and a kind attitude improve a child's self-perception; criticism, blame and an indifferent attitude reduce a child's self-perception.
39. The true ideal is by no means some mysterious force that resides above the individual. It is a powerful expression of unconditional self-affirmation. Any ideal that violates the principle of self-affirmation turns out to be not an ideal but a pathological goal.
40. The retention and reproduction of knowledge depend to a large extent on the intensity of attention and interest when the relevant mental activity first appears. German psychologist Ebbinghaus
41. The first element of being a good teacher is to always look at the students; the second element is to treat students equally. A collection of classic quotations from psychologist Zhang Yijun
Zhang Yijun, female, psychologist. In college, he was admitted to the Department of Psychology as his first choice and studied in the United States, where he obtained a PhD in Psychology from the Georgia Institute of Technology. The unique style of explaining the truth easily and clearly explaining the methods is widely welcomed by the public, helping everyone improve their psychological quality and navigate easily in the workplace, love, marriage, and family.
Zhang Yijun’s classic quotations:
Falling in love is like playing mahjong. If you are not serious, there will be no fun. If you are too serious, you will easily get sad and develop a game spirit.
If you want others to have a good impression of you and show enthusiasm to you, the biggest strategy is to show enthusiasm to others first.
The sense of dignity is like a corset, which makes a woman noble, but if it is deliberately exposed, it becomes vulgar.
A man who always makes you smile is a good man.
A gentleman is a man who can support his weight on his elbows and knees.
Jealousy can kill you. If you die, you lose an important part of your life.
Don't force a man to lie, he will hate you, and don't take his words seriously, you will hate him.
If your room is getting whiter and cleaner, there are fewer and fewer visitors, no trace of dust is allowed on the table and floor, you get upset when your children are noisy, and you wash your hands more than 20 times a day - see a psychiatrist.
Times have changed, and men and women are the same. Connecting fuses, repairing toilets, changing tires, and installing anti-virus software are no more difficult than giving birth to a child.
Women have left and right brains, and men have left and right testicles.
Instead of praying, think - God must not be a woman, otherwise he would not have created so many imperfect women.
Men always court women who don’t take him seriously, so is fate.
Whether a person is reliable or not depends entirely on the means you use to control him.
Stick to principles in big things and learn to be flexible in small things.
For a wrong promise, you must have the courage to break it.
Marrying a rich man is like robbing a bank. The benefits are always huge, but the consequences are endless. If you can help it, it’s better not to try.
Romance is a beautiful evening dress, but you can’t wear it all day long.
The secret to staying young is an uneasy heart!
One of the benefits of living alone is that you don’t have to wake up in the arms of someone you loved long ago.
A middle-aged, prosperous and divorced man proposed marriage and said no. If a man who has cheated on you wants to turn back, say no. The man you betrayed asks you to turn back and say no.
If you are expected to get something, you have to work hard, and if you don’t mind it, you will look good no matter you win or lose.
Don’t even think about being a single mother---the child doesn’t need a father, but you need someone to take care of the child. You really need someone to take care of you.
Men treat themselves lustfully like lawyers treat criminals who are their clients: they must defend themselves even though they know they are guilty.
If unfortunately the man you love has another woman, whether it is a wife, fiancée or girlfriend, please do not even think about meeting and talking to her. There is no need - leave immediately!
What’s better about a car than a man is that it won’t run away on its own, of course it may be stolen, but you can buy insurance, but men can’t buy insurance.
It is best not to let the opposite sex on your first date know where you live. If the other party insists on sending it, then just go downstairs and believe me, he will not die of thirst if he doesn't stop by for a cup of tea.
Treat love as a luxury in life: you can live without it if you have the best.
Travel is the reading of the soul, and reading is the journey of the soul. Carnegie's classic quotes from psychologists (89 items)
1. People who do not care about others are more likely to suffer major difficulties in their lifetime and greatly harm others. It is this kind of people who have caused all kinds of mistakes in mankind.
2. There are three things that hurt people: troubles, quarrels, and empty wallets.
3. From the day you came into the world, every action you take is for yourself and because of what you need.
4. Treat others how you want others to treat you.
5. Intelligence is related to age, experience, and mentality.
6. There is no absolute fairness in life, but it is relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, you must bear more than others.
7. If we have peaceful thoughts and enough courage, then people can enjoy the infinite scenery while sitting on their own coffins, and they can sing loudly when they are hungry and cold.
8. The reason why we feel tired is because our emotions are tense in our bodies.
9. It is difficult to listen to others count our mistakes, but it is easier for us to accept it if the other person humbly claims that they are not perfect. Admitting one's own mistakes can help improve behavior even if you haven't corrected them yet. Before blaming others, think about your own mistakes.
10. In this world, the only way to influence others is to talk about what they want and tell them how to get it.
11. Only stupid people can criticize, blame and complain about others, but if you want to forgive and understand others, you need to work on your personality and self-denial.
12. For a person who is working hard on the road of struggle, if he does not clearly define the steps, it is equivalent to traveling to a place without first stipulating sleep and schedule. It is very important to distinguish the steps.
13. The success of a person's career depends entirely on whether he is interested in this career, rather than on the door to success that is opened through hard work.
14. No matter what you are selling, the first thing you have to do is to understand it as much as possible.
15. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical tension can create shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
16. In order to live a successful life, a young person must learn to be self-reliant, eliminate obstacles lurking everywhere, and educate him at home so that he has an independent personality that is recognized by others.
17. Everyone in the world is seeking happiness, but there is only one truly effective way, and that is to control your thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external conditions, but depends on inner conditions.
18. An undeniable fact is that everyone you meet will feel that they are better than you in some way. Acknowledging the other person's importance tactfully and expressing it from the heart will earn you his friendship.
19. No matter how miserable tomorrow may be, at least today, there is no waste.
20. Many people fail to be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things that interest them, and these things make other people bored.
21. Be an ordinary person with firm beliefs.
22. Give to others what I hope others will give me.
23. People fail not because they have no faith, but because they cannot turn faith into action and persist to the end.
24. Being nice to others is not a responsibility, it is a kind of enjoyment because it can enhance your health and happiness. When you are good to others, you are also good to yourself.
25. Compliments to others are just a tactful expression of praise for oneself.
26. Have I ever advocated that we should bow our heads and surrender to all disasters coming to us? no way! That is just a fatalistic assertion. As long as there is a slight chance for us to rescue the situation, we will fight.
27. If a person sincerely cares about others, he will make more friends in two months than in two years if he waits for others to become interested in you. More.
28. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. This is one of the ways to make others like you.
29. If you can be sure, You'll be right half the time during your day. Then you can go to Wall Street, make millions of dollars a day, buy a yacht, and marry a dancer. If you are not sure, why should you accuse others of their mistakes?
30. Happiness is contagious, and only by making others happy can you make yourself happy.
31. As long as you believe that you are doing the right thing, don’t care what others say.
Thirty-two, this heart has its own truth, but it is not known by the truth.
33. Try to help others and fear will disappear.
34. There is a saying in the world that "time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time should obviously be punished.
35. If you are criticized by someone, it is because criticizing you can give him a sense of satisfaction. It also shows that you are accomplished and noticeable. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment.
36. It doesn’t take long to destroy anyone’s credit. Even if you are an extremely cautious person, you only need to occasionally ignore or follow the rules, and such a good reputation can be ruined immediately. Therefore, it is extremely important to develop the habit of being cautious.
37. Love is not about loving a perfect person, but taking a period of time to understand that the other person is an imperfect person. Admit that we are not perfect, then try to understand the other person's shortcomings, and move forward hand in hand with the person who still loves you despite seeing your shortcomings.
Thirty-eight, 70% of the patients who seek medical treatment will naturally get better as long as their fears and worries can be eliminated.
39. For all of us, the most important thing in life is not to look into the future, but to sort out the real things at hand.
Forty. Difficulties may be God’s special gift to you, which will open up another happy life.
41. What you think you are is not who you really are. Instead, what you think will determine who you become.
42. Our fatigue is usually not due to the work itself, but to worry, tension and unhappiness.
43. When getting along with others, you should remember. We are not people who deal with theory, but people who deal with emotions.
44. Women may not be beautiful, but they must be wise. Wisdom can reshape beauty. Only wisdom can make beauty permanent and make beauty have qualitative connotation.
45. A spirit of dedication that is nobler than one's own life will bring real success and happiness, and will bring more friends.
46. The world is full of people who are selfish and willing to steal, so a few people who help others without selfish motives can achieve great success, and they have almost no competitors.
47. Remembering someone’s name and calling it out easily is equivalent to giving someone a clever and effective compliment.
48. If you pay enough attention to a certain result, you will naturally achieve it.
49. Always think according to the other person's point of view and look at things from the other person's perspective. This may become a key factor that affects your lifelong career.
50. Although we are ordinary people, it does not mean that we should endure torture. The only thing we can do is to face life itself and continue to learn from experience to ensure that regrets will not happen in the future.
51. If we inspire the people we come into contact with and let them know their hidden energy, then what we will do is not only change their will, but also change their destiny.
52. I don’t know how to do anything different from what I have done.
53. If you want to anger the other person, you only need to use fierce criticism as a weapon; even if the criticism is reasonable, the other person may hold a grudge for life.
54. If your behavior exudes happiness, it is impossible to remain mentally depressed.
55. Everyone longs to be valued deep down in their hearts.
56. You and I are just a small drop of water in the long river of history. It is not our personal existence that makes history, but the progress of history that gives birth to your and my lives.
57. Don’t judge others, lest you be judged by others.
58. People will not die of overwork, but they will die of debauchery and worry.
59. I have no time to argue or regret. No one can force me to hate them. What I am thinking of are those kind people who have helped me and I will never be able to repay them!
60. A person who does not pay attention to small things will never succeed in a big career.
61. Happiness is to find someone who can warm your heart and live your life slowly. Cherish the person who loves you, cherish the person you love, and cherish the person who is always by your side to accompany you and protect you. You, warmth, you have always regarded you as the whole world.
62. If a person just lives day by day, without any hope, his life will actually stop.
63. The only way in the world to influence others is to talk about what they need and tell them how to get it.
64. Wanting to succeed but not willing to bear the price of success is the most obvious sign of weakness and laziness. To get anything worth appreciating and possessing you must work happily, and this is the secret of power in practice.
65. Correct thinking is itself a kind of creation.
Sixty-six, make yourself more peaceful, more open-minded, and more tolerant. Everyone has their own difficulties, why force yourself on others?
67. We can soon see that our opinions are not very far apart. There are few differences but many similarities.
68. There needs to be a balance between people, just like nature needs balance. People who don’t respect other people’s feelings will ultimately only arouse dislike and hatred from others.
69. The world is full of interesting things to do. Don’t live a boring life in this exciting world.
Seventy. Let the power of faith and the feeling of peace of mind fill your heart.
71. "Time is money in this world", so thieves who steal other people's time should of course be punished. Even those pleasant and good people should still avoid them like a taboo disease.
72. Rest does not mean doing absolutely nothing. Human rest is actually to make up for certain physical losses.
73. The most important thing is the ability to make friends. Speaking of its essence, it is actually the ability to appreciate the advantages of others.
74. Only 15% of a person's success depends on professional knowledge, while 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and interpersonal skills.
75. A person's success is only due to his professional skills, while 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to deal with people.
76. The way to gain psychological peace is to change people's thoughts. You should strive to cultivate a comfortable and natural state of mind.
77. Tension is a habit, and relaxation is also a habit.
78. If you want to be a good conversationalist, be a good listener first.
79. I find that exercise is the best way to overcome worries. When you are worried, use your muscles more and your brain less, and the results will be unexpectedly good. For me, when I exercise, that's when my worries leave me.
80. The way to cultivate self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of doing and get a record of successful experience.
81. We all have abilities and opportunities that we don’t understand, and we all have the potential to do things we have never dreamed of.
82. You will never be satisfied by fighting, but when you are humble, you can get more than you expect.
83. For those who like to evade responsibilities, difficulties have undoubtedly become the best shield.
84. Hatred cannot hurt the other person, but it can make your own life a purgatory.
85. Life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery along the way. What you see is your realm of life. If you always see people who are better than you, it means you are going uphill; if you always see people who are not as good as you, it means you are going downhill. Instead of complaining, think about change.
86. Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty.
87. Life is a rebound. What you give, you get back.
88. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others—things that require time, energy, thoughtfulness, and dedication to do.
89. If you want others to be friendly to you, if you want to get along harmoniously with your colleagues, and to handle the relationship between superiors and subordinates well, you must not touch the scars in other people's hearts.