Civilized etiquette is the need to inherit civilization and the development of the times. Today, the world has undergone tremendous changes. Human society is an information society with civilization, peace, and development as the mainstream. Exchanges and cooperation between people are becoming increasingly frequent and closer. In the process of communication and cooperation, whether people's etiquette is thorough not only shows their self-cultivation and quality, but also directly affects the success of their career and business. With the development of the times, people's spiritual requirements are developing day by day. Everyone is seeking a warm and harmonious living environment full of friendship, sincerity, understanding, and mutual assistance, and a space full of civilization, friendliness, sincerity, and tranquility. An advancing society calls for civilization, and a scientific future calls for civilization. Currently, our country is undergoing the construction of two civilizations and is striving to join the world's advanced nations. Civilized etiquette is an important content of spiritual civilization. It is an external expression of a person's moral quality and a yardstick for measuring a person's educational level. Education in cultivating civilized etiquette is not only the basic education for the formation of individual morality, quality and personality, but also the improvement of the overall education level. Basic education for national moral quality, revitalizing national spirit and building socialist spiritual civilization. Therefore, schools must do a good job in educating students on civilized etiquette. This is the need of the times, the need to improve the quality of the entire nation, and the need for the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. At present, most of the students in school are only children. Parents hope that their children will succeed and pursue grades. On the contrary, nurturing education has been downplayed or even abandoned. With the progress of the times, the development of society, and the establishment of the market economy, the quality of internal and external qualities will be directly related to people's development and success in society. Strengthening education in cultivating civilized behaviors is not only a way for us to carry forward traditional virtues The needs of students are also inevitable for students’ physical and mental development. The cultivation of civilized behavior must start from students. This article explains from three major aspects: creating a good atmosphere, taking corresponding measures and persevering education, through etiquette education, it can help students develop their physical and mental health, build self-confidence, establish good interpersonal relationships, and improve learning initiative and consciousness. Make a positive impact.

First, teachers set an example for learning. Confucius, the great thinker and educator in ancient my country, emphasized the necessity for teachers to lead by example. He said, "If a person is upright, he will act without being told; if his body is not upright, he will not follow orders even though he is told." "If you cannot correct yourself, how can you correct others? "Mr. Tao Xingzhi adhered to his own motto "He who teaches others teaches himself" throughout his life and always strictly disciplined himself. Throughout ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, all famous educators have set up monuments in the world with their noble personality and become "teachers for all generations." Students are highly malleable and easily influenced by the outside world. Teachers are the objects of direct imitation by students and the main implementers of civilized etiquette education. Teachers' words and deeds have a great influence on students. Therefore, it is very important for teachers to set an example and be a role model. In their daily work and life, teachers should set a good example. The power of role models is endless! When students see the teacher and say hello, the teacher should also nod or wave to say hello to the students; when the teacher makes a mistake, he should dare to apologize to the students. Such sections reflect respect for students, enable students to be educated subtly, and create a good educational atmosphere.

Secondly, learn some knowledge of civilized etiquette. As the saying goes: "Without rules, there is no rule." Necessary knowledge of civilized etiquette is the basis for people to form good civilized etiquette behavior habits. People's knowledge of books and etiquette is not innate, but acquired through acquired education and practice. At present, students have a weak understanding of this knowledge. To change this phenomenon, we must start by popularizing knowledge of civilized etiquette. Times have changed, things have changed, and etiquette norms have also been constantly changing. To sum up, there are nothing more than the following aspects: in family life, it is manifested in respecting the elderly and caring for the young, harmony between husband and wife, and unity among neighbors; in interpersonal interactions, it is manifested in courtesy, understanding and tolerance, and being kind to others, especially in external interactions. In the middle, it emphasizes image and etiquette; in social life, it manifests itself in abiding by rules, upholding public ethics, sympathizing with the weak, helping the poor, caring for the environment, and being kind to nature. In addition, students must “know what is happening, and more importantly, why”. Saying "I'm sorry" is also one of the most commonly used etiquette words. It seems to have a magical power that can relax tense and contradictory relationships between people, help us get along well with others, and make others trust you. , accepting you will allow you to get closer to others.

It is also necessary to lay a good foundation and create an atmosphere of civility and etiquette.

Whenever a new semester begins, I first educate students on civilized etiquette, take the first etiquette class, lay a solid foundation, and form an atmosphere. Specific methods: First, put forward clear, specific and detailed civilized etiquette routines for students, so that every student knows what they are doing. Then pay attention to the first civilized etiquette training. We attach great importance to etiquette training from the beginning, lay a solid foundation, and educate students on etiquette. It is necessary to enable students to understand "principles" and to train "ethics", combining learning and practice, with practice as the main focus. Give demonstrations and teach performances so that students know how to do it. Let students form correct action patterns and gradually develop good habits. For example, strengthen students' basic posture. Some students did not stand up straight and moved their hands back and forth with a low voice. I walked to him and encouraged him to do it a second time and a third time. I guided and demonstrated to this student until he stood up straight and raised his head. , until the sound is loud. Finally, the whole class trains and everyone passes the test. The teacher demonstrated carefully and intensified training, and the students also paid attention to it. Every student practiced very seriously, forming a good etiquette atmosphere. Passage on the right side of the corridor, no running, jumping, etc. Standardized education and training have left a mark of civility and etiquette in the minds of students. We also need to do work in a variety of ways. Effectively strengthen students' education in civilized etiquette, guide students to master the basic knowledge of etiquette on campus, at home and in public places from an early age, gradually develop good personal behavioral habits, establish correct moral concepts, guide students to learn to behave, and enable students to become Be a good student at school, a good child at home, and a good citizen in society. First, increase publicity efforts. Give full play to the blackboard cultural propaganda position and vigorously promote the content of modern civic education. After insisting on the flag-raising ceremony every Monday, the teacher writes a diary based on the actual situation of the school, which can truly lead the class, continuously improve the ideological and moral level, and guide students to establish a correct outlook on life, world view, and values. Secondly, pay close attention to development education. Insist on holding class meetings, use class meetings, moral and life classes to educate students on daily behaviors, and combine the "Code for Primary and Secondary School Students" and "Standards of Daily Behavior for Middle School Students" to implement ideological and moral guidance and civilized education for students in a layered and targeted manner. Starting with the education of daily behavioral norms, students can change from "I am asked to do this" to "I should do this", so that good behavioral habits can be internalized into students' conscious behaviors, and gradually allow students to develop good moral sentiments and behavioral habits. .

A famous quote every day inspires students to set up lofty ideals and aspire to be successful; by learning the school spirit and motto, it guides students to learn to be human, learn to learn, learn to survive, and learn to appreciate, and educates students to be united, friendly, and help each other. ; By beautifying, purifying, and greening the campus, students can be placed in a clean, fresh, beautiful and cultural environment, and be influenced by subtle influences, so as to achieve the purpose of purifying the soul. Educational synergies can also be developed. Home-school interaction creates synergy. Through home visits, parent meetings, etc., we will effectively strengthen the organization and management of teachers’ home visits. Teachers should communicate more with parents, and pay special attention to contacting parents of underachievers to obtain their support and understanding, so as to fully mobilize parents to participate in school management. , the enthusiasm of school education, improve the level of parents educating their children, and truly enable the school and family to form a joint force to effectively educate students.

Carry out social practice activities. The school contacted the village committee in a timely manner to seek their care and support, and tapped off-campus resources to educate students. For example, students are organized to carry out social practice activities such as respecting the elderly, supporting the young, and green environmental protection, and guide students out of the campus and into the countryside to participate in social practice. In practice, students can not only broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge, but also receive good education and training. And persevere and catch it to the end. Civilized etiquette education is a kind of nurturing education. Through education and training, students can gradually form good habits of being civilized and polite. Repetition is a normal phenomenon. Students should be full of confidence, grasp it repeatedly, grasp it repeatedly, be down-to-earth, and persevere. Whenever students are out of school, I remind them to take the initiative to say hello to the teacher; if the teacher passes by you, it is natural to say hello to the teacher. Now the students in my class have developed good etiquette habits. Whether in the corridor, on the way to school, or outside the campus, they can take the initiative to say hello to the teacher when they see them, which has improved their consciousness and initiative to be civilized and polite. sex. Since the introduction of civilized etiquette education in the class, students have become more and more fluent. Even at the final stage, students' behavior is very stable. Gradually formed the collective queuing in and out, civilized breaks between classes.

The cultivation education of civility and courtesy is to allow students to change from passive to active in the cycle of understanding and practice, and finally internalize it as a quality of their own. As long as you persevere and stick to the end, you will definitely develop good habits of self-management and form a good civilized and etiquette atmosphere. Through etiquette education, it has a positive impact on the development of students' physical and mental health, building self-confidence, establishing good interpersonal relationships, and improving learning initiative and consciousness, forming a virtuous circle. Through etiquette education, a good class style has been formed, and at the same time, it has also promoted an overall improvement in the quality of education and teaching.

Civilized etiquette is the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization, there would be no basic moral bottom line. Learning to be a real person means that when learning, you should first learn to be a human being, learn to be a civilized person, learn to be a social person, clean the environment, and civilize the campus, starting from me, starting from every little thing, let civilized etiquette Flowers are blooming everywhere on campus.