1. There are three reasons why you should not lend money; there are three situations where you cannot lend money out

1. Someone you just met. For new friends, just borrow money by yourself. These people come close to you with a certain purpose. You have to be on guard and find out what he is using the money for and whether it is really urgent, otherwise you will find out that you have been cheated just after the money has been transferred. 2. People who are dishonest. Only when you have a good relationship can you give money to others. If he often borrows money from you but doesn't repay it on time, you should be wary. 3. Someone who borrows money and says it will be returned to you with interest. In the face of high interest rates, don’t be greedy for petty gains, but be cautious. They may just want you to trust him more. He may delay paying back the money, and he may not be found one day.

2. There are three untrodden roads, which means that there are some roads in life that cannot be walked

1. This is a road that no one has walked. Although people now think it is good to be brave in innovation, in the eyes of the older generation, you need to have a certain ability to take this road. If you open up a road that no one has traveled without self-awareness, it is likely to make you fall. When you reach the lowest point in your life, you can never come back even if you want to. 2. A strange road. It’s a path you don’t understand, which is no different from taking the wrong path, just like asking an ordinary person to do a research theory. 3. A road that starts very high. Although a person should have lofty ideals and clear goals, if the starting point is too high, it is likely to be too much and very unrealistic.

3. There are three kinds of etiquette that should not be followed. This means that there are three kinds of etiquette that should not be followed

1. Because it is necessary to follow the etiquette for small things. Everyone will celebrate when they encounter happy events, but some people just want to get together when there is something they think they are particularly happy about. Most of these people just want the money for gifts. 2. No one has invited you. If someone doesn't invite you, but you give money as a gift, you may be trying to get someone else's cold butt, and if they look down on you, they may smile at you on the surface, but they may say sarcastic things about you behind your back. 3. People who don’t thank you in return. Every year when you give gifts to others during the holidays, the host will give you a gift in return. This is a traditional custom of the Chinese nation to express the affection between the two parties.

This is what the old people often say: There are three things you don’t want to borrow, there are three things you don’t walk on, and there are three things you don’t follow.