1. In modern society, how to deal with the relationship between people is an unavoidable topic. Many friendships are born between here and there. In all relationships, if only one party gives silently and the other party takes blindly, such relationships will eventually break down.

Therefore, no matter who you get along with, please remember these three points: remember people's strengths, look at their strengths, and help people's difficulties.

Someone said, "People helped me, and I will never forget it;" I help people, remember. "Many times, being nice to a person is not about wanting others to return. But if others can't even remember the goodness of others, that is the most hurtful thing.

If you can't remember the goodness of others, you are ignoring their efforts. No one's contribution is taken for granted. Remember that the income of others is the most basic respect for the giver. People who can remember the benefits of others can see the efforts of others in their eyes.

You know my contribution and I know your gratitude, so that friendship can last.

2. "There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of the audience." Look at people's shortcomings, it is easy to hate a person; Look at the advantages of others to have a good impression. People who appreciate the advantages of others are more tolerant. Such people are not only good to others, but also learn from others' advantages and make themselves better.

It is often said that gold is not enough, and no one is perfect. No one is born perfect, everyone has shortcomings in one way or another, and everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Remember the evil of others and hurt yourself; It is good for you to remember people well.

So, don't always stare at other people's shortcomings. It is a blessing to be tolerant of others. People who are good at seeing people's strengths will be more tolerant of life and the world.

Everyone will inevitably encounter some difficulties in life. When people encounter difficulties and helplessness, they all hope that someone can help them. Sometimes, you lift a finger, but you give others great warmth.

People often say, "Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand." Helping others is actually helping yourself invisibly.

Cultivate a good heart and accumulate a lifetime of happiness. This is especially true in life. Helping a friend will deepen feelings; Helping a stranger will convey goodwill.

In fact, people don't have so many routines to get along with each other. Sincerity and kindness are enough. Pay for others, look in your eyes; Appreciate the advantages of others; Help others solve their difficulties. If you want to get the favor and help of others, you should be grateful and treat others with a kind heart, and you will naturally get different results.

Remembering others' efforts and seeing others' strengths are also the best qualities to treat people.