There is no need to force in life.
Flowers that bloom late are the most beautiful,
Twisted melons are not sweet.
Don't insist on what doesn't belong to you. Foolish melons are not sweet.
Are there any sentences in The Analects about not demanding what you can't get? In the Analects of Confucius, don't force what you can't get: "Life and death are life, and wealth is in the sky."
"Life and death are life, and wealth is in the sky." From the Analects of Confucius, Volume VI, Chapter XII of Yan Yuan,
Sima Niu said sadly, everyone has brothers, but I don't. Xia Zi said: I've heard in business that life and death are life, and wealth is in the sky. A gentleman respects without loss, treats others with courtesy and makes sense. All men are brothers within the four seas-Why do gentlemen have no brothers?
Sima Niu said sadly, "Everyone else has brothers, but I don't." Xia Zi said, "I have heard that' life is death, and wealth is heaven'. A gentleman is dedicated, makes no mistakes, and is respectful and polite to others. All men are brothers within the four seas. Why should a gentleman worry about having no brothers? "
"Life and death are life, and wealth is in the sky." Everything is predestined, used as object, attribute and clause; Used of fatalism.
Don't insist on expressing what doesn't belong to you. 1, someone else's crotch is broken, don't estimate it, mend it for her. If your porridge is not cold, don't help her blow jiaozi.
What you insist on is yours, you don't need to make any effort at all, it's not yours, you don't need to make any effort, and what you insist on is not true, so everything should be as it is. .
Should we fight for something that doesn't belong to us? Everyone has desires. Most people will think of their own interests. Everyone wants what they want. So it is normal for people to be selfish.
In fact, selfishness, to put it bluntly, is also a yearning for the good things in your heart and a pursuit. Only in the degree of his pursuit. If he pays too much attention to himself and doesn't consider others, then he will form serious selfishness. Therefore, selfishness only exists in everyone's mind.
No matter how noble a person is, he is selfish, but he is more energetic and has better spiritual quality than the average person. If you want to find an unselfish person in the world, I'm afraid it's difficult, or not at all.
Don't take things that aren't your own. Turn them into rhetorical questions. Don't take things that aren't your own.
Change it to rhetorical question:
Can I take something that is not my own?
Depressed and importunate things, is it good or bad? Of course not. For example, let others say thank you. Although he said thank you, he was certainly not very happy, so what he asked was not good! Oh, oh.
What sentences ask students not to touch their own things? It is our destiny to sit here. Please don't rummage through my things.
You can't force something that doesn't belong to you: as long as you have worked hard and experienced it, you don't care about the result. As the saying goes, "Man proposes, God disposes." Just treat it with normality.