Everyone has a few children who have lived in a single-parent family since childhood and were raised by one father or mother. These children lacked the care of their father or mother in their childhood and were killed more or less. There are some character flaws. In a parent-child program "Dad Is Back", the cute Tianxin frequently revealed famous quotes in the program, which was deeply loved by the audience. Before Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu divorced, Tianxin was still a lively and cute child. It was heartbreaking to see Tianxin so unhappy after the two divorced. ?Tianxin’s performance makes people feel distressed?
After eating, Tianxin kept lowering her head and playing with her fingers, looking very unhappy, probably because she was very reluctant to leave her grandparents soon. Well, grandma was also very reluctant to part with her granddaughter whom she had not seen for a long time. She bent down and hugged Tianxin as if tears were about to fall. This can’t help but remind people that Tianxin’s parents divorced at a young age. It must have caused a lot of damage to the mind.
After the two divorced, both of them were reluctant to give up the custody rights of their daughter, so they stated in the divorce statement that they were raising Tianxin together, but Tianxin was always taken care of by Li Xiaolu. Mother's love is crucial in the process of growing up, but father's love is also indispensable. In order to prevent Tianxin from developing personality defects due to lack of father's love, Jia Nailiang also spends time with Tianxin after work, trying his best to make up for the trauma caused by the divorce to his daughter.
Many children who have experienced their parents’ divorce since childhood will become precocious, and Tianxin is no exception. Since Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu divorced, Tianxin is no longer the innocent little girl. She has become taciturn, not playful and noisy. She lacks the brightness and liveliness before, like a very sensible but troubled little adult. White lies reduce the harm to their daughter
Out of protection for Tianxin, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu did not tell Tianxin the fact that they were divorced, and used white lies to minimize the harm to their daughter. . The media often took photos of a family of three doing activities together. The two played badminton with Tianxin and celebrated Tianxin's birthday together. The blessing on Tianxin's birthday cake? Mom and Dad love you! ?These small details are all about caring for Tianxin, and the picture is very warm.
But as Tianxin grows up, she must have noticed the changes in her parents' relationship. Netizens have expressed the hope that the two will remarry to give Tianxin a complete family, but relationships are not child's play. Divorce whenever you want, and get back together when you want to get back together. When Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu made the decision to divorce, they must have considered it for a long time. After all, there was a huge rift in the relationship between the two people, and it was pushed to the forefront of public opinion. It would not be good for either of them if it continued to drag on, but it would more or less hurt innocent children.
Under the careful protection of her parents, although Tianxin's personality has changed somewhat, compared with other single-parent families, the impact is still very small. Without some of her father's company, Tianxin seems to have become She is even more outstanding and confident, and got two 100-point scores in the exam. She really inherited Jia Nailiang's smart brain, and Tianxin's sweet appearance inherited the advantages of her parents.
In the same divorce, the experience of Liu Kaiwei and Yang Mi's child Xiao Nuomi was very different. In order to develop her own career, Yang Mi directly gave up the custody of Xiao Nuomi to Liu Kaiwei. Yang Mi has been busy with work and caring for her daughter. There is also very little care from Xiao Nuomi. Xiao Nuomi has character defects caused by the lack of maternal love since childhood. The impact of parents’ divorce on children
The impact of parents’ divorce on children is very great. After parents separated, they cared and loved their children very much, but they left a very big regret in the children’s hearts because she Not being able to have a complete family makes one very sensitive and very insecure. Those reorganized families sometimes do more harm to children. Children often do not receive complete father's or mother's love, and they easily become extreme and start to go astray.
We often hear that children from single-parent families are rebellious, irritable, depressed, have communication difficulties, have autism, etc. This is all related to the lack of family affection in childhood. It is the age in childhood when character is shaped and correct values ??are established. , will have a lifelong impact on the child. Therefore, when parents make any decision, they must think of being responsible for their young children. Even if they end up getting divorced, they must try their best to minimize the damage to the children's soul. After all, the children have not made a new choice. PARENTAL RIGHTS.
Summary
No parent in the world wants to see their child become a single parent. After all, no newlywed couple would expect that the moment they exchange rings and vow to grow old together, they will end up unhappy. ending. Tianxin's depressed expression is heartbreaking. Fortunately, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu have made their best efforts for Tianxin's growth, so that she can be cared for by her parents like other children from happy families in her childhood.
Some children from single-parent families will be very rebellious and extremely rebellious due to lack of care. Some children will be very withdrawn and have very low self-esteem due to personality defects and are unwilling to communicate with others. Compared with Tianxin, they are really well protected. I hope Tianxin can stay healthy and happy.