"Zhang Wei's view of love" and "romanticized by Zhang Wei's view of love" rushed to the hot search.
In my youth, Zhang Wei was a rock-and-roll youth who had a hair style of killing Matt and was crazy on the stage.
Off the stage, he is a chatterbox who likes to play with stalks. Because of the frequent golden sentences and quick response, they have been called frequent visitors to variety shows in recent years, with both jokes and explosions.
Such a superficial and neurotic singer has a deep-rooted impression of "wandering freely". Who would have thought that his interpretation of marriage and love, in a few words, poked his heart, and netizens called for "the book can be published."
"Don't squeeze into the world where you can't squeeze in. It is difficult to practice yourself for others. "
Everyone has his own shape. You don't have to change your appearance to cater to the world and others. If you want to find a gap that suits you, you can naturally put it together perfectly.
Of course, it will be hard, lonely and a little difficult to find and wait, but "after really beautiful love appears, you can forgive so many accusations in your previous life."
"The courage of adults is not to rush forward, but to stride forward after three stops."
The love of adults is less lonely and brave when they are young, and more fetters and shackles of reality.
It is normal to have doubts and retreat.
Observe more, think more, go on when you are sure it is really suitable, and get together and leave when it is not suitable.
After all, happiness is always short-lived, what we want is long-term happiness.
"I don't want endless joy, I just want inch by inch happiness."
Don't think of marriage as something you have to do in order to complete it, and don't think of marriage as something you have to do because you are old, but that you have really found someone to marry with for life.
Because, "marriage is like wearing several down jackets. Although the action is inconvenient, I can always feel the warmth. "
Marriage is never perfect, it has the value and function of existence, and naturally it has to pay the corresponding price.
"Many people think that love and marriage are just a cup, which can't be used as long as it has eyes. And I think marriage and love are a piece of cloth. If there is an eye here and we sew one on, then there is an eye to repair it. After a long time, this cloth becomes a painting. "
Why is the divorce rate so high now? It is because people are used to being broken and replaced by new ones, rather than managing and repairing feelings with heart.
Marriage after constant tolerance and compromise is the best appearance of two people.
In a certain program, guests have different answers to the question of life sequencing. Most of the older generation put children first, but Zhang Wei thinks that a partner is more important than children.
"Children and parents will leave you, and only your partner will not leave you. Your partner is the most important person."
Intimacy is the cornerstone of marriage. "Dad loves mom and mom loves dad" is also the best education for children to know what love is and how to express it correctly.
"Life is boundless, don't just live in love and hate."
Even those who love each other deeply should keep their own world, and there should be independent space between family members, and they should not control each other.
Many mothers with postpartum depression have lost their sense of self, purpose and meaning, because all their life after childbirth revolves around their husbands and children.
There are many things worth loving in this world, and the most important thing is "self".
If you really don't love, then turn around smartly. Life is long and the world is big. Don't stay in the past.
In fact, not only for marriage and love, but also the quotations of many great teachers are penetrating.
For example, someone commented that his songs were vulgar, and he said:
"All vulgarity is defined by those who think they are elegant. Only in this way can they be different. But in my eyes, elegance is really vulgar. "
The first album of "Wall Band" sold 6.5438+0.5 million copies, and Theway wrote "Still at 654.38+0.5 years old" and other songs.
"Emptiness triumphs over will/as if this time has stood still/I doubt human life/what is hidden ..."
After experiencing the ups and downs of life, Zhang Wei has already lived a transparent life.
Nothing to watch variety shows, and taste life and love with the "best teacher in the world".
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