Please advise him not to feel inferior about this issue. If he has something to ask, he can ask Buddha and Bodhisattva. Buddha and Bodhisattva will definitely help him with great compassion. All things that cannot be solved can be solved by Buddha and Bodhisattva. This kind of inspiration is too many in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad. , you can advise him to read the recordings of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, which will naturally help him and help his low self-esteem. Advise him to recite the Buddha's name more often and pray to the Buddha for anything. The Buddha will definitely help him. Reciting the Buddha's name will eliminate karma and increase blessings. Retribution, thinking about it for a long time will naturally eliminate difficulties. Why we are unhappy in this life, why we are bullied by others, looked at with squints by others, abandoned by our family, and abandoned by our grandparents, are all the causes and effects of the past life. Why others don't do this but I do this must be the cause and effect of the past life. There are only four kinds of fate between relatives in a family: "Repaying kindness, repaying grievances, collecting debts, and repaying debts. Without this fate, you would not encounter it, and you would not encounter it." You will not be reincarnated in this family. The so-called is: "Husband and wife are karma, there are good karma and bad karma, children are debts, they have to collect debts and repay debts. If there is no debt, they will not come. The same is true between people. It is nothing more than these four kinds of karma." , this sentence speaks of human life. What is human life? It is nothing more than this. Without these four conditions, you will not come to this world. What is life? The Buddha said: "Life is a reward for karma. Life is born." To repay your sin debt, if you have suicidal thoughts or suicidal thoughts, then I advise you not to commit suicide. Suicide has a cause and effect. You will have to suffer the pain of suicide every seven days, repeat the suicidal action, and you will not be reincarnated. You will have to find a substitute. Falling into hell to suffer, and then being reincarnated as an animal after suffering, it is difficult to regain a human body. King Qin Guang's first sentence of the punishment for suicide in the first palace of "The Jade Calendar" also said: "If there are people in the world, it will not Think about how heaven and earth create people, parents nurture the body, it is extremely precious, and the kindness is as heavy as a mountain. The kindness to parents, kindness to all living beings, kindness to kings, kindness to the Three Treasures, etc. has not been repaid. Without receiving a call from the underworld, they committed suicide, hanged themselves, took poison, drowned, etc. Except for those who sacrifice their lives and become gods after death because of their virtues of loyalty, filial piety, and justice, if they commit suicide carelessly out of petty resentment or because of the shame of committing a crime, the penalty for the crime they committed will not be the death penalty. the point. There are also those who want to frame the fault and harm others, and then the falsehood becomes true and they commit suicide. The above mentioned ones, door gods and kitchen gods, were immediately escorted to the palace and put into the hunger prison and thirst prison. These ghosts who commit suicide feel as painful as when they are about to die every Xu and Hai day. All painful situations will appear again as they were before. Some take seventy days, some one or two years later, their souls are escorted and returned to the place where they sought death, suffering the torment of regret.

And you are not allowed to accept sacrifices such as soup, rice, paper and silk, so the consequences of suicide are very serious. You should give up the idea of ????suicide. If you really commit suicide, not only will it not solve the problem, but it will make the problem worse. If you want to solve these problems and have low self-esteem, you should help him in this way. What's more, human life is rare and most of the time is in the lower realms. Beings in the lower realms still want to have human bodies. We have human bodies but we still don't want them. Can the suffering in the human world be as painful as the suffering in the lower realms? , can there be suffering in hell? The evil realms are suffering all the time, and all sentient beings in hell are suffering every minute until they pay off their sins and debts. The time in the human world is shorter than that in hell. Hell may only last a few days in a year in the human world. From then on, The ascended sentient beings from hell leave after arriving in the human world for decades. From the perspective of the evil realm, the ascended beings come back in just a few days. From the perspective of the human world, of course it has been decades. Therefore, when one comes out of this world and then enters into that, it is known that he is a human being. Suffering or suffering in the lower realms, the human world is just a place of bitterness and joy. You can practice well because you know suffering, so you can practice well in the human world and be liberated. It depends on how you liberate yourself, whether it is wisdom or confusion. Heavenly gods, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas We all come to the human world to achieve liberation. We cannot cultivate in heaven and we cannot cultivate on earth. Because heaven is too happy and we fall when we enjoy happiness. Earth is too painful and it is not easy to practice. Therefore, we practice cultivation in the human realm. It can be seen that heaven and earth are not as good as the human realm. The suffering of the human realm is Help people to be liberated. This suffering is short-lived, and you will be reborn in a good place in the future, so suffering helps you to be liberated. Instead, you have to be grateful for suffering. If you want to compare the suffering in the world with hell, and compare your current suffering with hell, There is no comparison at all. The suffering in hell is immeasurable times greater than your suffering. Can your suffering be compared with the suffering in hell? There is simply no comparison between a shotgun and a cannon. The punishment in hell is countless times more painful than that in the human world. It is much worse than the suffering in the human world. I don’t know how many times the punishment will be more severe. If you really want to see who is suffering, you will know whether it is suffering in the human body or in the lower realms. Therefore, it is not easy to obtain human life. Suicide without authorization is a waste of opportunity for human beings. You do not know how to cherish blessings, "Jade Calendar" On the Chiming Rock on the other side of the "Hangwangtai" and Meng Po God, there are four lines of big pink characters that read: "It is easy to be a human being but difficult to be a human being; it may be even harder to think about being a human being. There is no difficulty in wishing to live in a blessed land; the words and the heart are united. It’s not difficult, so it’s not easy to get a human body. You have to use your human body to do meaningful things, then this human body is meaningful. Suicide is meaningless. You have to cultivate your own blessings to eliminate the predicament in front of you, so telling him this way can help him. It is good for his treatment. I advise him to recite the "Ksitigarbha Sutra" and the Ksitigarbha Holy Name more often to eliminate his sins and increase his blessings. Life is born, don’t look for a substitute, use the mantra Om Mani Padme Hum, put an electronic prayer wheel in your residence, and dedicate the merits of reciting the Ksitigarbha Sutra and Ksitigarbha’s holy name to your enemies and creditors. If there is benefit, you can help him eliminate his pain and get the blessings of Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, so doing this can help him. Telling him these principles will help his treatment. Doing this will be useful to him.